I just watched a TV series "Dare to Love" recently, and I found it particularly realistic. Personally, I think this TV series is very good. What impressed me most was the dialogue between Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao at the Huangpu Bridge at the end of the finale, and the background music of Forever Promised, which sublimated the emotion of the whole story. Seeing this, I was particularly moved and deeply moved, and felt that I should write down my feelings.
Last night, my master Lu chatted with me on WeChat about the TV series Dare to Love. She finally said that she didn't understand, so I spoke to her briefly. Although she untied the knot, I still feel the need to write this, because this is the most realistic TV series I have ever seen, and it is also in the process of emotional return to reality.
In today's realistic society, the story that seems to make me imagine that I can have that kind of pure feelings will only happen in middle school, or even earlier. As an experienced person, don't laugh at me. I really see through a lot, so after watching the TV series Dare to Love, there are not so many complaints and sighs. Although the two protagonists are not together, just like the song "Agreed Forever", they have agreed in their hearts for a lifetime. The word "lifetime" is easy to write, but it can be a fact between two people, and it is the kind of fact that they have love. How hard it is. How many lovers will still be separated after marriage? I think the word "lifetime" must not be easily spoken, because then you must be responsible for it for life, unless the other party won't let you.
Having said so many practical problems, we might as well go back to the TV series itself. Luo Yonghao represents most young people who are capable, have personality, have temper and have no family foundation. My teacher said that men are weak, so I answered her. At the beginning of the TV series, Luo Yonghao was capable, which doomed him to succeed in the end. When Lei Lei asked Luo Yonghao to design the box, Lei Lei won the second place, which was the best foreshadowing. Male weakness refers to Luo Yonghao's family background and his own economic base. In the later development of the plot, Lei Lei had a smooth sailing in the company, but on the other hand, Luo Yonghao failed to start a business. This forms a sharp contrast, which shows that the heroine is strong in her career, but her love for Luo Yonghao is so persistent. Although Lei Lei's mother objected, she was adamant. In the play, Lei Lei's mother played a key role. Why is it that every time my mother finds Luo Yonghao after talking or talking on the phone, no matter what way, it will be realized in the relationship between Luo and Lei? Because Luo Yonghao's heart is kind, she is also kind to love, that is, she can't give Lei Lei such a good life now, but she still hopes that Lei Lei will have a good life. On the one hand, it is the love of these eight years. This love lock firmly locks the hearts of two people, and it is no longer a fact that can be separated. But on the one hand, Luo is a man, and he must face the fact that when Luo Yonghao and her classmates were drinking on the rooftop, they wanted to protect her for life, not because the ball was hit, but at that most beautiful time, they started their love, which is what I mentioned above. It seems that such a love story can only happen in middle school.
I remember I fell in love in middle school. Maybe this is not love, but at that time I really lived in a fairy tale, imagining myself as a prince charming, and I was surrounded by a beautiful princess. It's really good to think of it now. At that time, I also wanted an agreed forever, but it seems that my memory will always be fixed in that middle school, the simple era of blue school uniforms and white cloth shoes, just like the song "Agreed Forever". I still remember the scene of sending her a classmate record that summer, which is particularly relieved. After that, I played the guitar again. The short experience can't explain anything, only that my Lei Lei must be on my future path.
Then let's talk about Lei Lei. In this TV series, I believe that not only I, but also many boys will like a girl like Lei Lei, not her beauty, not her ability, but her persistent love for Luo Yonghao. It is said that it is difficult to persist in a love, but if you get happiness, the ending is beautiful, but it is really too difficult for Lei to dare to love. For love, family support, career separation, and taking care of work and long-distance love at the same time, you shrink back after listening to what Lei Lei's mother said in Luo Yonghao, and Lei Lei is particularly sad and tired. That's it. This reminds me of what my buddy said when he talked to me about this TV series. If you look at it from the perspective of Lei Lei's mother, who wouldn't want her daughter to find a better condition? I think it's especially right. No parents are bad to their children. But when my mother called me at night, she said she couldn't push her daughter like that. After eight years of love, she agreed. I always thought my mother was a very rational person, but this time I also thought what my mother said was right. Everything is for the good of the children.
We must return to reality for a while. There is nothing wrong with Lei Lei's mother. She is very kind to her children. Lei Lei is not wrong. She persisted in her relationship for eight years and firmly believed that being with the person she loved was happiness. Luo Yonghao is not wrong. He loves Lei Lei, but he can't face Lei Lei's mother. The contrast between his own business failure and Lei Lei's career success made the man lose confidence. Really, I have a deep understanding of this. Maybe someone will see this and say, Luo Yonghao, right? Why did I give up Lei Lei because of Wang Qiwen? This is also my master's biggest knot. I just gave a brief explanation yesterday, but here I want to write out all my understanding.
First of all, I think it's better to say that two women are stronger than men. I remember that Lei Lei stood up when dealing with some things in Luo Yonghao's family, which highlighted Luo Yonghao's immaturity in these things and also highlighted the theme of loving. Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao have been in love for eight years, but they still dare to love in the face of so many opposing voices, which shows that young people should bravely pursue their love, which is a positive value. If you go back to real life, you can have feelings for eight years. When you face so many objections, you can still love each other desperately. It must be true love, the kind of love that gives your heart to each other for a lifetime. Let's predict that Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao will be together in reality. According to the development of reality, their life will be very good, because both of them are not selfish, but thinking about each other.
When my teacher said that I was rational and emotional in reality, I admitted that I had always been a particularly emotional person. When I faced a relationship, I really gave my heart. I feel so good, just like what Teacher Liu said to me made me particularly moved and benefited. I know that all experiences are roads, leaving only footprints. Maybe I will understand sex and sensibility in the future. I can't say it well, but I am kind, but please don't take my kindness as your pretend capital.
Let's go on to say whether Luo Yonghao is wrong or not. I don't think he is wrong. Really, he drank a lot, and Lei Lei's mother stopped him that day. I am also a boy. I can especially understand the pressure he was under at that time, which really made a man collapse instantly. If it were me, it would be particularly uncomfortable. When Luo Yonghao met this Wang Qiwen, which my master didn't particularly understand, he regarded her as his beloved Lei Lei in his mind. In fact, when I first saw Luo Yonghao help Wang Qiwen drive away her "boyfriend" in her hometown, I felt that this woman was inextricably linked with Luo Yonghao in the future plot development. I didn't read the story brief, but based on my own feelings, people who often read love novels and mystery novels may laugh at me and say that it's nothing, I will read it. I admit, I just simply saw it here, and I don't think it is anything. I just want to keep these feelings in mind.
Then the next question is coming. Wang Qiwen gave birth to a child in Luo Yonghao. In my opinion, Luo Yonghao was responsible for Wang Qiwen at that time. As a man and a kind person, you should bear it. Some people say that it is wrong for Luo Yonghao to give up his eight-year love with Lei Lei. So can he let Wang Qiwen leave alone and stay with Lei Lei? This is obviously impossible. I remember that Luo Yonghao and Zhou Xin finally explained this point when they had dinner in a restaurant, and Lei Lei and Zhou Xin also explained Lei Lei's understanding of Luo Yonghao when they had dinner together. In Luo Yonghao's heart, that heart full of love has been completely given to Lei Lei. We can't say that he doesn't love Wang Qiwen, but that he is a kind and responsible person. My master said how they could be together so hastily, which was particularly tangled. No, I didn't. I really think that people who love each other must be together, and such a love ending is perfect. But after I thoroughly watched the ending, I understood that true love is not necessarily two people together, but two people's hearts together, which is really hard to get. How many lovers can do it in reality? In a word, I don't think there is anything wrong with Luo Yonghao. Really, he is responsible for Wang Qiwen. For Lei Lei's mother, I hope she can meet a better condition than she did then. After all, I don't want Lei Lei and her mother to fall out completely. This is also a responsibility of parents. For his favorite ray, maybe all his love has been devoted to this life.
There are many characters in the play, who also play supporting roles in the main line of their two protagonists' love stories, and also highlight the theme of daring to love in a certain emotional tone. Let's talk about Zhou Xin and Tang Guo first. These two people are the most realistic people who dare to love. As bamboo shoots said, Zhou Xin looks like a flower on the surface, but in fact he is a very pure person. Of course, he and Tang Guo shared common interests and found each other's advantages. Then they immediately got married and divorced, and finally they came together. This is the kind of two people who fall in love at first sight and dare to love and hate. The whole process makes me feel that these two people are particularly suitable for each other. Zhou Xin's affection for bamboo shoots has stayed when they were separated, and then helping bamboo shoots is also a special friendship, and they dare to love it. In the character Qin, it shows that everyone with feelings will have their own stories and unique experiences. Maybe I was injured in these experiences, maybe I realized some truth in these experiences. Qin and both dare to love. They had some contradictions in the face of property justice, and Sun Chun came out to work. Later, when they faced difficulties together, their hands clasped together. Seeing this reminds me that in reality, such a girl is too rare. If I were the real Qin, I was most afraid of meeting someone like my ex-wife. In reality, which girl doesn't want to have a stable home? Since you can give and love, you must dare to love. Finally, we saw two people laughing so sweetly together. If we want to love, we must love and dare to love!
Feng Jiaren, this is a person who makes me feel the most amazing, first of all, his amazing hearing, and secondly, his amazing family background. I really think he dares to love too. We all saw his kindness to Lei Lei, but he never said it. I remember what the teacher said to me yesterday. Lei Lei might as well be with Feng Jiaren. This is what I told her. Feng Jiaren's love for Lei Lei is deep in her heart. He thinks that Lei Lei is the best girl in the world, and he helps Lei Lei as much as he can. Because he knew that Lei Lei and Luo Yonghao were in love, they didn't want to destroy their love, and they wouldn't let others destroy it. There are such people in real life, but there are too few. I think he is the most manly one in this TV series. If he dares to love with his heart, I believe he will be happy too! You don't have to have happiness. This sentence also applies to Song Xian. At first, I hated him very much, but later when I saw him holding Lei Lei so affectionately, I thought he was also a man, a man who dared to love. Maybe, as Lei Lei and Song Xian said, if I knew you before I met Luo Yonghao, I would fall in love with you. Song Xian, who made his eyes red, felt that this sentence was enough. This is also a kind of dare to love. As we all know, such a successful person is not short of people around him, but short of someone he can really pay for and put aside other things to appreciate. That man is Lei Lei. Song is a person who dares to love first, and this kind of love also has a feature called not owning.
Yes, this kind of love is too difficult. In real life, there are too many misses and too many disappointments, which are beyond our control. The only explanation is time. Some people say that Luo Yonghao will forget Lei Lei, but I say this will never happen. His company name gives a great feature to the play, called Hao Lei. His feelings have locked the hearts of two people together in other ways. I was particularly moved when I saw the last episode. The words and memories of two people on the Huangpu River really make people feel that although the ending is not two people together, there is no regret, really. Promise forever. After a long time no see, I'm still blessing you. Don't be sad. This led to the beginning of watching the riverside scenery together when they were both unemployed, and what Luo Yonghao said to Lei Lei: "Lei Lei, I just want to sing for you alone. I want to give you a happier life with my hands. I really don't want you to be wronged outside. I just want you to live like a child in the world I created for you, where there are no bosses or employees, only me. How touching. Time passed, and two people stood by the bridge tacitly. It was here that Lei Lei remembered the "Forever Agreement" sung by Luo Songyong Hao. I think this is enough, it is another kind of perfection.
The TV series is over, but my heart can't be calm for a long time. I don't know what I missed. In a word, I am lamenting that my experience seems to be like a character in a TV series. It's over, but it's still beautiful. I shouldn't complain, because the agreement is forever, and the future is long time no see, not just the lyrics. This will really happen in your real life. We can't resist We can't escape it. Everything needs to be faced bravely. Brave love. That morning, the sun shone on my window. I seem to have seen the green shoots on my future road. I want to speed up my steps and dare to love and cherish it.
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