Everyone in this world desires happiness and contentment. In terms of good luck and happiness, the most important factor is a harmonious and happy marriage and family. Because marriage and family are a haven for people to live and rest, a gas station for energy replenishment, a place to regulate physical and mental pleasure, and for us women, it can be a symbol of social status. As the saying goes: If you are in love, drink enough water. Love between husband and wife is more important than financial prosperity. Because a harmonious and warm family life is more conducive to the development of people's work and career. The most important thing is that a stable marriage life provides a good environment for the growth of children. With continuous improvement, families will surely live a happy life. A bad marriage makes people physically and mentally exhausted, depressed, depressed, and unwilling to make progress. It does great harm to people. Therefore, the saying "marriage is the wine of life" is indeed true. I'm going to start telling a story, right. My story is very long, and I may have to tell it for a long, long time. But I am very sleepy. I am still a little BABY. Although I like telling stories, sleep is very important to me. Ah, my eyelids... My name is Sack, hello everyone. The "hemp" of the sack, the "bag" of the sack. I was born into an unhappy and unhappy family. In fact, I don’t understand what happiness is. This is a vocabulary I only learned when I was in elementary school. The teacher said that happiness means that parents and children live together happily. However, my parents do not live together. When they meet occasionally, they are not happy with each other. Therefore, I think that my family is not happy. Happiness is not perfect. However, my classmate Amao said that happiness is when everyone laughs happily every day. I think, then I actually live in a happy family, because my mother and I - our family - strive to make ourselves smile happily every day. I have met many, many people. Some people I didn't see very often after that, when I was 14 months old. Some people I have lived with, and some people I have always lived with - like my mother, but my mother said that one day, she will leave me too. Because we always leave each other. It is of course very sad to think that my mother will leave me one day, but when I was 6 months old, I already understood that there are many things that we children cannot change because "from one thing to the end" The idea of ????is considered the highest moral standard (especially for women). Therefore, there are still many couples living in the cold siege of marriage. In the past, the emphasis was always on growing old together. Of course, only women are trapped in the cage, and men have no shortage of sexual opportunities. Recently, I have met many seniors and peers who are living very happily after reorganizing their families. Some of them have been happily married for 30 years. Both husband and wife work hard to manage their own lives, and they are also flying together in their careers. Each has achieved outstanding results in a cosmetics store, and That is to say, when their marriage entered the "seven-year itch", they had the opportunity to meet, get to know each other, fall in love and bravely reorganize their families and start a new life. They were called "brave" because it was just after the reform and opening up, and divorce and family reorganization were definitely "treasonous" and "extremely immoral" things. However, feelings or fate cannot be firmly tied with a marriage certificate. It can be changed, and once it breaks out, no force can stop it. Thinking about it, there are indeed many "maintenance" marriages among middle-aged people nowadays, where they just continue to do it for others and for their children. Both parties are very painful, but they are unwilling or dare not pursue their true happiness. In the past, It was the Queen Mother who cruelly separated the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, and now it is their own ideas that restrict their pursuit of true love. It is sad. People live in society, and there are many group relationships, such as friendship, family affection, love... However, the purest love between men and women is the supreme love, which can warm each other's hearts and make each other love each other. The relationship between two people who finally come together is through the channel of starting a family and getting married, and ultimately connect each other's hearts together forever, holding hands and growing old together. Although the two people finally got together, if they want to have a lasting love, they need to sincerely give and communicate with each other, and they need to know how to manage to maintain a good relationship. Let’s compare life before marriage and life after marriage, and you will understand what I am saying! Before two people get married, when they fall in love with each other, they regard each other as a treasure. They only have the other person in their eyes and cannot tolerate other people. They are willing to make any changes for each other. Because you just want to get the other person, take the other person as your own, and think that the other person is the favorite and the most beautiful in your heart. During the period of love, a man always takes great care of a woman, never loses his temper, always tolerates and spoils her, and dresses up neatly every day; a woman is always gentle and considerate to a man, and shows off her best in front of him. Jiao, always as playful as a child, dressed up every day.

Before marriage, even if a woman doesn't know how to go to the kitchen, the man will just smile in front of her, and then say to her, "It's okay, I'll do it after marriage, and I'll never let you enter the kitchen." Men can quit smoking and drinking for women before marriage. , everything goes well... After two people get married, as time goes by, the past impulses between them will also diminish, because the former beauty will gradually fade with the passage of time, and there are fewer days of understanding and communicating with each other. If the focus is on the children, of course the relationship between husband and wife will become alienated. After marriage, the bad habits between each other will be exposed. Men don't like to be clean, drink and smoke every day, occasionally encounter troubles in their careers, and get angry with women when they come home and nag her; women will never be like this again. She loved to dress up so much before getting married, and she acted very casually all day long. She didn't know how to adjust her body shape after giving birth. She always felt that it didn't matter if I got married anyway, so that men wouldn't pay attention to her. There is only boredom between them, and they feel that life is monotonous and lacks the freshness of pre-marriage life. Regarding the above two cases of pre-marital and post-marital life, I would like to propose solutions to the majority of married and unmarried people. As long as you do it with your heart, I believe your married life will always be happy! No matter before or after marriage, both parties should pay attention to image issues, because a good image will give people a good impression, and they must be confident every day. Some people often complain that they are old. In fact, you are totally wrong. Although a person The physical age will grow old, but the mental age must always remain young. In today's society, the problem of "having a mistress" is normal, but our female compatriots need to reflect on this reason. Why does this phenomenon occur? It is precisely because the business is not well managed that there are gaps for those people to exploit. Why would men rather spend their wallets? The key is that women usually bring them boring life after marriage. Life is always about content, not a pretty face, because as time goes by, everyone will become old and yellow, and no matter how good-looking you look every day, you will get tired, so we must learn to It is very important to be a sentimental woman. As the saying goes, "If you want to capture a man's heart, you must first learn to capture his stomach." This requires us to be good in the kitchen and be able to cook all kinds of delicious food. Imagine that a man comes home tired when he goes out to start a career. When he can taste the rich and delicious home-cooked food prepared by his beloved wife, his heart will be filled with warmth. He will also miss the meals cooked by his wife every time he travels away! On every special day, you have to learn to create a different atmosphere and arrange different programs. Then your impression in his mind will be even more indestructible, because he will think that you are a very sexy woman who wants to own you. It is the luck of his life and he will love you endlessly; as the saying goes, "Behind every successful man, there is a woman standing behind him to support him." That is very true. This requires us to eliminate his family concerns and help him. Take care of everything at home and let him focus on his career, so that he can easily focus on his career. You must also learn to manage money. In today's sex society, a woman needs to be the kind of woman who can work in the hall and in the kitchen, so that men will look at you with admiration. Occasionally, you should also help men with career matters. Don't just be a housewife, let him If he thinks you are weak, you must learn to be independent and don't let him think you are dependent. This way you won't let those powerful women get through! In life, two people should support each other and learn from each other's strengths. Even if they have a bad temper, they must learn to use a rational mind to restrain their irrational behavior. Imagine if two people have a bad temper and often argue with each other over trivial matters. , over time you will find that this home does not feel like home and has no warmth at all, so the final outcome will be divorce. Many people go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for divorce. The above reasons are all very eye-catching signs of personality disharmony and eventually break up. , but have you ever thought that the biggest harm after divorce is not you or him, but your children. They are innocent. A divorced family will cause many children to have unhealthy mental development as they grow up, so for you Children, please learn to tolerate each other. Why fight over trivial matters? Why should we kill each other when we have become one? Doing these things that are not beneficial to each other, why not sit down calmly and think about and Analyze the rights and wrongs of things, and then point out and correct each other's mistakes, only in this way can we become perfect! As the saying goes, "take a step back and the sky will be brighter"! Never do anything that is not good for you. Just be tolerant of the other person, so that life will last longer. As long as a woman is more tolerant of her partner, he will think that you are a well-educated and generous woman, which will also improve your status in his mind, because sometimes men are very face-saving but they make mistakes. You need to point out the other person's mistakes tactfully so that you won't allow the other person to continue making mistakes. Each other must also learn to respect each other's elders, because being the next generation of each other's elders is also a fate cultivated in the past life. No matter which elder has a bad temper and loves to nag, they must also learn to be tolerant because they are the elders after all. Everything is for your own good, just take what is right and treat what is wrong as the wind blows by. Then your relationship with your elders will be harmonious, and your life will be very happy. Although I am not married and am still in my prime of life, my mental age is already very mature.

Marriage is indeed a business. The above are the investment methods that I, an unmarried person, understand and advocate. Because in real life, I am a very sentimental person. I believe that only if I have the above beauty and skin care product plan. , I believe that my married life will be happy in the near future, and I will also run this business well, because on weekdays, I am an extraordinary woman who loves to create various atmospheres! They are the water delivery people at my school. There is such a couple. They live in a small, simple house with only beds and some drinking fountains. They live a simple life. That day I went to change the water dispenser and saw them chatting and laughing. I felt from my heart that they were so happy. It turns out that happiness is so simple. There is also a couple who open a breakfast shop at the same place where I work part-time. They get up early every day, make steamed buns and steamed buns, and work together. They have never heard of any complaints, and they always have a smile on their faces every day. , I admire them very much every time I pass by them, they are very happy. At that time I fell into deep thought, what is my happiness? I don’t know specifically, but the general situation is like this. My partner should not be a money worshiper. If she is a money worshiper, then she will marry money, not a person. But I’m not saying that you can’t have money. Secondly, two people need to be honest and not deceive each other. The cost of deceiving one person is very high and it is harmful to others and yourself. Third, it is very important to have the same language. It is important to be able to talk about it. It is best to complement each other in terms of personality. Don't make a big fuss over a trivial matter. If the family background is similar, it is better. Okay, so there’s not much pressure to be together this way. What kind of marriage lasts the longest? That is, marriages with the same vision are the longest and most stable. Many people use "incompatible personalities", "no fate", etc. as reasons for divorce. The couple lives together. They often get into trouble and it's really painful to stay together. Personality incompatibility often leads to the failure of a marriage. It is determined by whether the husband and wife can adapt well to each other's personalities and meet each other's requirements. If the interests and hobbies of the couple are consistent or close, it will determine whether the couple will live happily after marriage. Then their marriages are mostly happy. However, there are also couples who live a happy life but have completely opposite personalities. Generally speaking, a couple in which the husband is decisive and straightforward and the wife is soft and weak can complement each other in terms of personality. The woman ignored the opposition of her family, fifteen years ago. She resolutely married a man because they loved each other and the man was very kind to her. But after getting married, everything changed. The man was a business manager and traveled abroad all the time, spending less time together and staying away more often. The woman lived alone with her children in her hometown. , women are extremely doting on their sons, buying them whatever they want, and taking them everywhere to play on holidays. In this way, more and more money is spent, and their savings are spent less and less, until the money they earn from work is not enough to buy cosmetics, women She asked the man for money, but the man not only refused to give it, but also had an arrogant attitude. Over time, the woman was forced out and went out to make money on her own. She ran from house to house just to sell her own things. Sometimes she encountered unreasonable people, and even They all used force to push her out of the house, but the woman endured it for the sake of her son and everything else. Hard work and patience will always lead to success. Business gradually improved, money gradually increased, and connections increased. However, there were also more social activities. She began to not go home often, was often hungover, and the man He started beating her and scolding her and using the meanest words because of her staying out all night. From then on, their lives were never peaceful. When the two of them were together, they would either quarrel or not speak to each other. As their son watched, their son became silent, became introverted, became grumpy, and started stealing money to skip school and surf the Internet. A family that could have been happy and beautiful has become filled with smoke and smoke all day long, and there has been no peace since then. Modern marriage advocates equality between men and women, but it does not mean emphasizing each other's individuality. Marriage requires the relationship between husband and wife to maintain, respect each other, help each other, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and pay more attention to each other's strengths, so that the relationship will be stable. Marriage will last long. Therefore, I sincerely wish modern young people to boldly pursue their own happiness! But you must understand in your heart whether you want true love or material things other than love.