A woman's irrationality in the face of feelings will often bring her great harm. With more injuries, women dare not love easily.
Even so, women are always full of expectations for love. They keep their hearts closed, and only when they really find someone worthy of relying on will they slowly open up.
For women, a man's reliability is much more important than his wealth appearance. No matter how rich and unreliable a man is, he can't bring happiness to a woman.
what a woman needs is a long-lasting affection and a shoulder on which she can rest assured. Therefore, before falling in love, women will first observe a man's character and see if he is reliable before making a decision.
This is one of the reasons why women are more and more difficult to catch up with. Once a man's personality makes women feel unreliable, women will no longer accept him.
A man's character and reliability are displayed in every aspect of his life. Everything is small and big, even a common thing will reveal unusual information.
Xiao Jing has a female friend. In the past, whenever a man pursued her, she would ask him to invite her to dinner. At first, I was very puzzled. I obviously didn't like it, but I wanted to eat. Do I just want to eat while I have a meal?
not only me, but also many people don't understand what she does, and even think that she is taking advantage of men's likes and is greedy for cheap. Moreover, many of them are no longer written after eating, which can not help but deepen everyone's suspicion.
Later, she explained that eating was just a cover. She just wanted to gain insight into a man's character and see if he was reliable by eating. Her current husband was affirmed at dinner and then married.
Eating is a very common thing. Because it is so common, everyone's state during eating is relatively relaxed. In a relaxed atmosphere, a person's character and reliability will gradually emerge.
So before falling in love, a woman wants to see if a man is reliable, and she will know after a meal. Only by seeing clearly before falling in love will you not be hurt too much after falling in love.
when ordering food: a reliable man will ask for women's advice and take the opportunity to remember women's preferences. An unreliable man only cares about himself.
Eating and ordering food is a headache, because everyone's preferences are different. If you don't pay attention, you may find other people's taboos. So in most cases, everyone will ask other people for advice before ordering.
When men and women eat together, if a man orders without asking women's opinions at all and only cares about his own preferences, then such a man is not worthy of women's reliance. First, because he didn't respect women, but because he didn't put women first.
On the contrary, if a man asks a woman very gentlemanly and the food she ordered is also liked by her, it shows that the man is really attentive. A small move, you can see his true character, such a man, is worthy of a woman to rely on.
When eating: A reliable man will let a woman eat freely and won't laugh at the way she eats. Unreliable men will only complain that women eat too much and eat ugly.
Everyone has some habits about eating, some eat quickly, some eat a lot. Although most women pay more attention to image, some foodies can't resist the temptation of food.
If a man likes women very much, he will gladly accept both good and bad women. Not only does he not think that women eat too much and look ugly, but he also thinks that women are real and reliable. This kind of love can't be faked, and such a man is worthy of a woman's reliance.
But if a man repeatedly emphasizes that women eat too much and complains that women eat too ugly, it can only show that his love is too simple and not heartfelt at all. If men's words are full of disgust, they will not cherish women, so they will not be reliable.
After dinner: Reliable men will chat with women to get to know each other better. Unreliable men will only bow their heads and play with their mobile phones, leaving women hanging aside.
Many people don't leave immediately after eating, but take this time to have a good communication. In this process, it is also possible to see whether a man is reliable.
On the contrary, an unreliable man will only keep playing with his mobile phone, regardless of women's feelings. There is no communication between two people, which means that a man doesn't want to know a woman, and that woman doesn't need to rely on him anymore.
Eating is the most common thing in everyone's life, and it is also the easiest and easiest thing to get to know someone during eating. There is some truth in the saying that you can see your character at the dinner table.
The whole process of eating shows a person's character all the time. Eating with a good and reliable man is a pleasure for women. Eating with a man with bad character and unreliable personality is a torment for women.
It is a kind of protection and responsibility for women to see the reliability of men before falling in love. If this man is not reliable at all, a woman must let herself get hurt. If this man is very reliable, a woman can fully deliver her heart.