1/The inner world is rich enough /

Living in a first-and second-tier city, colorful social activities and convenient services have greatly enriched women's time after work, which makes them not confined to home, have more life possibilities, and their inner world has gradually become rich.

Like my friend Xiaoxiao, who lives in Shanghai for a long time, she is not young but still single.

She thinks her life is interesting and beautiful now, and she is not worried about not finding a boyfriend at all.

Every week, she will get together with a group of friends around her regularly and organize various activities, including riding, reading, food salons and so on.

through the activities of the food salon, she has gradually become a gourmet who loves cooking from a small white kitchen.

From Xiao Xiao, I can see that she keeps trying all kinds of things and looking for fun to please herself, which is exactly what many modern women in the workplace have in common.

2/Heavy work makes love tired /

Life for adults is not easy, especially for single working women. What will heavy work and long overtime bring?

As my friend said, "I have money and no time to spend now. I just want to get down when I get home every day, and I don't have time to fall in love."

The heavy workload, coupled with the daily troubles such as overbearing boss and lazy colleagues, will only lead to new fatigue if you have to deal with the relationship with your partner.

Therefore, many women prefer to drink a little wine and sleep late on weekends, dissolve in jazz and instant coffee, and look for a little luck in life.

3/Men haven't taken on more family responsibilities /

Recently, the fire variety show "Men Doing Housework" continues to attract everyone's attention, and many of them are praised as "fairy husbands". It is unambiguous to get up every morning to make breakfast, take care of the baby, pack things and do housework.

The fact that the standard husband is praised in the program just shows that husbands do too little housework.

We can look at it more objectively through a set of data: China ranks fourth from the bottom in the world in housework time; In China, on average, women spend 81 minutes more time doing housework than men, which is close to 1.5 hours.

When women are doing housework, their boyfriends who don't touch Yang Chunshui are playing games and playing mobile phones.

When such things persist for a long time, women will become anxious and their mental load will gradually increase.

Men who have no sense of family responsibility and are unwilling to share housework together will really make women lose interest in love and marriage.

4/The career of working mothers is more difficult /

After ending the single state and going to love and get married, women will inevitably go through the stage of giving birth.

According to the data of Zhaopin's "Investigation Report on the Living Conditions of Working Mothers in 219", more than half of working mothers think that after giving birth, they will distract themselves and affect their work effect and career development.

4% of working mothers missed the opportunity of promotion and salary increase because of having a baby; 33.7% of working mothers are marginalized by the company because of having a baby, and there are few opportunities for promotion.

The predecessor of the heroine in the Japanese drama "I get off work at one o'clock", a child under one year old suddenly fell ill and couldn't get away from his busy work. As a result, he had to go to work in distraction.

In Little Joy, the working mother Tong Wenjie, whose children are about to take the college entrance examination, frequently asks for leave because she is worried about her children's study, and finally loses her original executive position.

After marriage, children become a concern, which will have a negative impact on mothers' careers.