In today's society, the Internet has become an indispensable part of people's lives. Weibo, QQ and WeChat have become social media for many people. Sometimes we can see a person's joys and sorrows in the circle of friends.
For those who like to bask in laps, we follow their circle of friends, sometimes traveling all over the country, sometimes eating and drinking, and sometimes watching performances.
There are also many people who seldom make friends. They live in the moment. They don't like to show off, but try to live a good life every day.
Some people send friends to record their lives, to be praised and to let others know about me. Although the content is not necessarily comprehensive, it more or less reflects a person's thoughts and lifestyle.
Actually, a circle of friends is like a microcosm of a person.
and those who don't like to make friends, like wearing a veil, give people a very mysterious feeling, which makes people guessing.
what are their personalities? What kind of life do you have?
generally speaking, people who don't like to make friends are mostly these kinds of people, and the last kind is worth making friends with.
one: people who live at will
Some people live at will, only loyal to themselves, and will not care about one thing or the other in the needs of others. This kind of people don't always dislike making friends.
Life is casual, and socializing is even more casual. Except for a few old friends and a few work partners, there are basically no new friends, and the people in the circle are very fixed, so WeChat is basically only used for daily work, let alone brushing friends. He doesn't look at other people's circle of friends, and naturally he doesn't send friends himself.
A clean circle, a regular life, and a favorite person, many people yearn for nothing but struggle during the day and sleep well at night.
This sentence is the voice of many young people working hard in first-tier cities.
In a word, everyone is trying to survive, and one's energy is limited. Besides going to work, he just wants to rest in other time to renew his tired body, and there is no extra time to make other new friends.
Doing what you like and learning to enjoy life are much better than those who brush their presence online.
A simple girl like her is a friend worthy of deep friendship, because she has no scheming and will only bring happiness to her friends.
three: be honest and not good at packaging yourself
Some boys in society are good at packaging and better at disguising themselves. These people are generally cunning. And some boys have good figure and facial features, and have good external conditions. They are not good at packaging themselves, and they are more reliable in doing things and are worth making friends with.
Four: I'm lazy, and there's nothing to send.
It's a woman's nature to love beauty. Girls like to steal their mother's beautiful clothes and high heels when they are young, but Yangmei is different from other girls. She dresses casually every day and lives a lazy life. She likes to catch up with dramas, and all kinds of video members are full of it. Whenever there is any latest and beautiful new drama, she will catch up, eat and eat at the first time.
She doesn't send friends, and she seldom brushes friends. She really doesn't know what to send.
Five: Accustomed to silent cultivation and low-key efforts
People who are really powerful know the truth of accumulating and accumulating, working silently in the corner where others can't see, and brewing in the long wait where there is no hope.
I believe in the meaning of hard work. Although luck is also very important, only when we are strong enough can we have the strength to seize the luck given to us by God. Such people are mature and steady, only care about their own careers, and will not show off themselves.
although his business is very successful, he is still not satisfied with the status quo and works hard every day, he said? Men should start their careers when they are young. I don't make friends, and I don't want to care about other people's lives? . ? I like to learn from the old and the wise. When I encounter setbacks in business, I will think alone. ?
later, I realized why he was so successful at such a young age.
Hegel once said that if you concentrate on the pursuit of your career, you will forget a lot of troubles and find happiness in the process of hard work. Those who work silently are actually the wisest people.
Only through continuous efforts, can you find your own value all your life, which is insignificant to the vast world, but important to yourself.
Before you have enough strength, talk less and do more. Only by constantly improving your ability can you be called a real strong person.
He has a strong dedication to work and a low-key loyalty. It is a lifelong blessing to make such friends.
People are different. Everyone has different personalities, ways of dealing with people and styles of doing things. Some people are extroverted and eclectic, and like to use their circle of friends to show themselves. Some people are introverted, do things calmly, don't like virtual things, just want to live in the present and live silently.
Some people say that if you don't have a circle of friends, it must be that life is boring, life without a circle of friends is rich and colorful, and people are also sharp and mean. In fact, this is not the case.
Some people know their needs and desires, and their hearts are full. They don't need others' praise to satisfy their vanity. They have their own way of life, like the above five kinds of people, and the last one is a friend worthy of deep friendship.
such a man is successful and low-key, pragmatic and steady, sincere to his friends, knows how to learn, and has a strong heart. They can bring positive energy to people around them, so there is no need to send friends to express themselves.
The circle of friends has become a portrayal of one's life, and the change of the circle of friends also represents the change of one's life. Your life is like drinking water, and you know it well. Friends circle should be a beautiful ornament in your life, not a dependence in your life.
Those who don't like making friends may not have a good life, but their lives are simpler and purer, and they are more likely to become friends worthy of deep friendship in the eyes of others.