A rural woman, out of what kind of deep hatred, dare she risk poisoning her husband? Ouyang Fang's idea is "simple": to "live a better life" for herself and her two sons who should not have come into this world. 12 14, Ouyang Fang told the author about her life in Jiangyong County Detention Center. When she first met her husband, her face was full of happiness, and when she entered married life, her face was full of pain and despair.
1994, Ouyang Fang, who just turned 24, was introduced to fellow countryman Lu Hui. Less than a month after they met, they got a marriage certificate.
After more than three years of marriage, Ouyang Fang's "stomach didn't move at all", so she was beaten by her husband and even called "a bitch who can't lay eggs". Finally, the unbearable Ouyang Fang took her husband to the hospital for examination. Unexpectedly, Ouyang Fang is fine, but the crux lies in Lu Hui. His sperm survival rate is very low, and he is destined to be a father.
It happened that Lu Hui had a strong sense of "carrying on the family line" and thought it was shameful that men could not have children. In order to inherit the incense and save face, he actually came up with a crooked trick: borrow seeds! After hearing this, Ouyang Fang was greatly annoyed at first and resolutely disagreed, but she couldn't hold her husband's pleading and commitment, and finally nodded tearfully.
Lu Hui thought of the right person, a strong and burly brother-in-law with a good appearance. The most important thing is that he lives in a foreign land, far away. Lu Hui immediately communicated with her brother-in-law. At first, my brother-in-law was very reluctant, but Lu Hui always stressed that "it's okay", saying that he and his wife had discussed it and no fourth person would know.
1999 On a spring and summer handover night, my brother-in-law was invited to Lujia, and Lu Hui took the initiative to travel. In April of the following year, Ouyang Fang really gave birth to a chubby little baby boy.
The birth of the child really brought happiness to Lu Hui and Ouyang Fang. In particular, Lu Hui felt that he finally had a son named Lu to inherit the incense, and he could finally enjoy his old age in the future. When the son is 3 years old, according to the family planning policy, Lu Hui and his wife can have a second child (both husband and wife are ethnic minorities), and so is the local "convention". In order not to arouse the suspicion of the villagers and prove that they really have fertility, Lu Hui proposed to have a daughter and asked Ouyang Fang to "borrow seeds" from her brother-in-law again.
Soon, Ouyang Fang was pregnant again. Unexpectedly, Lu Hui's idea changed. When Ouyang Fang was pregnant for four months, he suddenly didn't want children. Considering that it costs money to have an abortion in a hospital, Lu Hui forced an orange about four or five centimeters in diameter into Ouyang Fang's lower body and squeezed it hard, causing her to have an abortion the next day.
In 2005, Lu Hui still wanted a daughter, so he forced Ouyang Fang to go out and "borrow seeds". Ouyang Fang disagreed, and Lu Hui hit her son in front of her. In the end, Ouyang Fang had to promise again to have sex with a man in the village when she was herding cattle up the mountain. As a result, she gave birth to a baby boy.
She didn't "sow" herself and wanted a girl, but Ouyang Fang gave birth to a boy. Over time, Lu Hui always suspected that everyone in the village knew his scandal and was watching jokes. When he is in a bad mood or drunk, he often finds fault and quarrels with his wife, and even vents his depression by beating and sexually assaulting his wife.
20 10, the Daohe Expressway under construction passes through the village, and Xiao Lao, a native of Huaihua, Hunan Province, is responsible for guarding the materials for the construction party. At the same time, Xiao Lao also recruited some migrant workers from nearby villages from time to time on behalf of the construction party. In the long run, Lu Hui and Xiao Lao are familiar with each other. They are brothers. 20 1 1, After the completion of the expressway, Lu Hui still took Xiao Lao to his home and felt like a family. There are two beds in the bedroom. When three people sleep in the same room, Lu Hui joked that his wife would sleep in the same bed with Xiao Lao.
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. After being teased many times, Ouyang Fang began to approach Xiao Lao actively, and Xiao Lao, who had long been interested in it, would not miss the opportunity. After tentative contact, the two quickly entered the "substantive" stage. Since then, he has not only helped with farm work for free, but also shared the expenses of the Lujia family. The relationship between him and Ouyang Fang naturally failed to escape Lu Hui's eyes, but Lu Hui chose to turn a blind eye. Over time, the villagers also saw the clue and talked about it.
With the deepening of Ouyang Fang's affection for Xiao Lao, she became more and more indifferent to her husband Lu Hui. One noon in May this year, Lu Hui proposed to have sex with Ouyang Fang. After being rejected, Lu Hui chased all the way to the fish pond in the village and pinned Ouyang Fang to the ground and stuck her neck. Xiao Lao saw the potential to stop the fight, but he was also beaten by Lu Hui. After that, Lu Hui kicked Xiao Lao out of the house, and the latter went to work elsewhere.
At this time, Ouyang Fang was desperate, worried that she would be tortured to death by Lu Hui sooner or later if she continued like this. Why not start first? But I am a weak woman, and I can't win again. How can I get out of my misery? 165438+1On the morning of October 28th, Lu Hui insulted Ouyang Fang again for trifles. Ouyang's revenge, which had been suppressed for many years, finally came out in Generative Times: "Only he will die first, otherwise I will definitely die before him!" Suddenly, she made a decision.
At 6 o'clock in the afternoon, Ouyang Fang specially cooked several good dishes. When Lu Hui didn't return, he took out a pack of rat poison and sprinkled it into the plastic cup he used to drink. Because there is a little wine left at the bottom of the cup at noon, the powdered rat poison is almost imperceptible after it is dissolved in it.
Not long after, Lu Hui came back from the field to fight pesticides, and the family began to eat New Year's Eve. Lu Hui himself poured half a cup of rice wine from the barrel with a cup. After about 20 minutes, Lu Hui finished drinking and began to eat. Before he finished eating a bowl of rice, he suddenly fell to the ground from the stool, foaming at the mouth and convulsing when his hands and feet were open. The eldest son suggested calling 120 for an ambulance, but Ouyang Fang stopped him on the grounds that there was no money at home. Later, Lu Hui went into the bedroom and lay down.
That night, Fang Ouyang didn't do anything, and she slept with Lu Hui silently. Let him be, she thought. If he dies, let him die. If he doesn't, forget it.
1 65438+1early morning of October 29th1p.m, I saw Lu Hui's face was blue and his mouth was half open, as if he were sleeping. Ouyang Fang intends to get up and show her mother-in-law. Because she couldn't wake her mother-in-law, she had to go back to the bedroom and explore Lu Hui's nostrils with her hand. She felt the breath was still there, but there was something dirty on her mouth, so she wiped it clean with a paper towel and went back to bed and fell asleep.
At 5 o'clock in the morning, Ouyang Fang woke up and confirmed that Lu Hui had died. I woke up the whole family and then called my relatives and friends to help with the funeral. Relatives and friends thought Lu Hui died strangely and reported the case to the police station. After receiving the police, the police quickly rushed to the scene to investigate. It is preliminarily speculated that Lu Hui died of poisoning, so all the gastric juice residue of the deceased and the food eaten by the deceased's family members were sealed and sampled, and sent to the higher public security organs for physical and chemical analysis overnight.
On the first day of the trial, Ouyang Fang quickly admitted that she poisoned Lu Hui, but she made a full confession the next day. After a month-long trial and enlightenment, facing the evidence, Ouyang Fang confessed to the public security organs the crime of poisoning and killing her husband. With the approval of the procuratorate, the Public Security Bureau arrested Ouyang Fang, a suspect suspected of intentional homicide.
Whose tragedy is it that a series of abnormal events, such as borrowing seeds to have children, betraying in marriage, and wife poisoning her husband, lead to the continuation of incense and concern for face? Only on this road of no return, the husband lost his sacred life, but his wife was arrested for intentional homicide, and the originally happy family was fragmented. Sadly, the two children who came into this world by borrowing seeds will face the embarrassment of losing their father and mother and going to jail, which is destined to be the most worrying thing for the two children in the future.
1. What kind of marriage tragedy will it bring to have children by borrowing seeds?
Borrowing children is a sign of cheating. In this process, some people choose to simply cheat physically, while others choose to cheat physically and emotionally at the same time. Whatever the outcome, it will cast a shadow over marriage. Perhaps the original intention of having children by seeds is just to cover up the embarrassment of infertility, but when the children really come into this world, the husband will feel that the children are not his own, and the wife has had bad behavior with another man, thus forming another psychological distortion, thus making the marriage from a childless tragedy to a tragedy in which the husband cares about his wife's bad behavior.
Take the couple in this story as an example. It is also a bad idea for her husband to borrow seeds to have children. With the connivance of her husband, her wife has had bad behaviors with a man in the village and an old man who works outside the home. On the one hand, this bad behavior stems from the husband's eagerness to seek women, on the other hand, the wife has lost her loyalty to marriage after shyly agreeing to her husband's first request to borrow seeds to have children. Moreover, she suffered verbal abuse and violent domestic violence from her husband all the year round, which made her tired of her husband.
In other words, once a woman meets a infertile husband, she will either divorce or adopt a child. Under the coercion and inducement of her husband, she should never promise to borrow seeds and have children, because she has actually sold herself at a low price while devoting herself to family interests. After the event, the husband is not only ungrateful, but also does many abnormal things, which is really thankless and easy to subvert her healthy concept of love.
Second, why do women who are looked down upon by their husbands have a high betrayal coefficient?
I once asked Anonymous why you like Gao Fushuai. The woman replied like this: I once tried to find an ordinary love, even if he had no money and no appearance, as long as he was kind to me. As a result, I was betrayed. The woman's implication is: I'm not sure what kind of man I want, so why not choose a man with better conditions?
Really like the man in the incident, no money, infertility, and domestic violence from time to time. Such a man really makes his wife miserable. That is to say, as a woman, even if she chooses to divorce, at most, she will find another garbage man with no money, infertility and domestic violence, but I don't think so. If the woman in the incident was pregnant only when she had bad behavior with her brother-in-law and the man in the same village, then she felt the care and care of a man in the process of getting along with the old man from other places, and she had feelings for it.
It can be seen that marriage sometimes has little to do with money and age. The key is that as a husband, he must give his wife the minimum respect, care and love, otherwise, his wife will seek comfort outside marriage.
Third, how can infertile families continue to be happy?
Modern male and female infertility index has risen sharply, which has become a modern disease. According to the statistics of the World Health Organization, 40% infertility is caused by men, 50% by women, and also by both husband and wife. Health is so precious in the eyes of people with defects, but it is ignored by more normal people. In fact, infertility really plagues many families.
Of course, not everyone is willing to accept such a cruel reality. When you find that your husband or wife or both husband and wife are infertile, you can go to an authoritative hospital for related treatment. If the treatment is successful, this will be the best result. However, some families must also treat this tragic reality correctly because of lack of money or ineffective treatment.
Happiness is relative, either choose to break up peacefully or choose to accept fate. Among those couples who choose to accept their fate, they will never borrow seeds to have children. The best way is to adopt a child. Maybe at the initial stage of adopting a child, you will feel a little embarrassed, but as time goes by, as long as you love your adopted child with your heart, you will find that there is not much difference between your biological parents and adoptive parents, because the simplicity of your child's childhood can become the spiritual pillar of your husband and wife and the filial piety of adulthood.
A series of family tragedies caused by borrowing seeds are really intriguing. In order to achieve a certain goal, human beings must stick to their own bottom line, and the behavior that violates ethics and morality will eventually outweigh the benefits.