1. She asks her friend or your friend about you carefully. If she likes you, she wants to know everything about you. She will ask her friends what they think of you; She will ask your friend if you are having a special relationship with someone. If you find that she is gossiping about you, that is the first hot signal that she likes you!
2. She is consistent with you. She won't stop nodding when you speak; She repeated what you said; She stood by your side in the debate; She repeated the words you used. All these are signals of consistency. If she always agrees with you, it shows that, in turn, she is pursuing your approval and approval. This is the second hot signal that she likes you.
3. She neither resists nor pushes away. As a matter of fact, she welcomed you to move in. When you took her hand, she didn't shake it off. When you stood near her, she didn't move away. Or maybe sometimes she will stand very close to you. Many times, she is very happy that you are close to her skin. This is definitely a hot signal that she likes you!
4. She never says "no". This doesn't mean that no matter what you ask, she will always say "yes", but saying "no" reluctantly or finally is a signal that she doesn't want to shut you out. For example, you want to ask her out She may not always have time for appointments, but she will always try to make another appointment so that you can go out together. This means that she doesn't want to miss the opportunity to get along with you, and at the same time she doesn't want to look like a person who has no other social activities.
let's see if she has time to make an appointment for you. When a woman likes a man, she is extremely excited about the opportunity to get along with him, even if it is not a "formal" date. Therefore, it's a good way to test the depth of the water by inviting your lover to drink or even have dinner. Generally speaking, if a woman likes you, she will say yes for the first time, though not always. If she says she can't go and the reason seems reasonable, then ask her out for a second time. If you still get a "no" answer, it probably shows that she is not interested in you.
If you don't succeed in asking a woman out after three attempts, it probably means that either she has another date, or she doesn't think you are her type. Although it is arbitrary to say that you can't have friends of the opposite sex, you need to remember that she knows her own thoughts and feelings better than you, and you have no chance except dignity. When the time you set conflicts with her very important schedule, you still have a chance. If she is interested in you, pay attention to some hints, such as: "I don't have time on Thursday." Can we change it to Tuesday? " Or: "I have to stay with a group of relatives before the end of the month." After they return to their hometown, can we find another date? "
5. She is looking for you. In a room or a party, you will notice that her eyes are always on you. She always pays attention to things that may take you away from her-maybe another woman? If she is possessive of you or your attention, it is another hot signal that she regards you as her Kai Zi.
6. The first attraction between men and women occurs at the moment when eyes meet. If she doesn't like you, usually she will avoid eye contact, or she won't keep eye contact when her eyes meet. If she looks at your eyes for a few seconds, then smiles shyly and lovingly, or tries to keep your eye contact, then she must be undoubtedly angry with you.
When a woman has a crush on a man, she usually tries to look at him as much as she can-she may have a quick glance or a short stare. No matter which way she adopts, she will try her best to see enough.
A woman's eye contact not only shows that she is an attentive listener, but also conveys that she is "reading" you as a potential partner.
7. Her silent language: If you don't know how to tell that a woman likes you, look at her body language. Body language can let you know whether a woman is giving you a "red light" or a "green light". If she sits with her legs crossed and her breasts facing you, sometimes touching or rubbing you, playing with her hair, exposing her skin more than usual, trying to get her lips to pay attention, and staring at you without paying attention to other things happening around her, these are definitely signs that she likes you.
does she lean towards you when you are talking? When you go out for a walk, does she put her arm into yours? Did her hand or arm inadvertently rub your hand or arm? A large number of books discuss the subject of body language, but a basic fact that never changes is sex chemistry. In particular, if a woman's act of expressing intimacy or showing sexy is more active and blatant, then she is more likely to try to attract your attention.
Of course, some "flirting" body language is too obvious, such as giggling or exaggerated size. But other signals are worth studying. Fortunately, books and videos on this topic have been flooded. So it should not be difficult for you to find the information you want.
8. Her conversation style: If you want to know how to tell whether a woman likes you or not, pay attention to her conversation style. If she seems to be attracted by your conversation, asking you a lot of questions, laughing and joking with you, then she must be interested in you and want to get to know you better. If her eyes wander around the room, paying attention to others, leaving you in the cold and making you have to work hard to get her to give you a response, then she is probably not interested in you.
9. Listen to other people's opinions. If any of your relatives or friends know the woman you like, ask them if they think she likes you. As long as they feel that she keeps interacting with you, then they should be able to give a reasonable opinion.
1. Give consideration to her personality. If a shy woman likes you, she may not be able to keep consistent eye contact with you when talking to you. However, she will keep smiling and laughing. She may even touch you, although you can't expect her to give a more blatant signal unless you get to know her better. On the other hand, an easy-going woman will have no problems when she is in contact with you. For you, this has both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that it is much easier to interact with such women. They will even blatantly declare that they like you. But if they don't, you may be in a difficult position to guess their true feelings, because they may (on the surface) seem to treat everyone with the same attitude. Therefore, for these situations, you need to observe some details carefully with your eyes. Observe how she behaves when she gets along with people around her. Even if she is a social animal by nature, she will still behave strangely towards the man she secretly loves.
11. Listening skills. Does she remember what you told her? When a woman regards you as a potential lover, she will have a series of questions to see if you will be a compatible partner in the future. For example, if you mention that your favorite recording artist is Tim McGraw, and she later gives you a new CD of McGraw, it shows that this move is one of the many pieces of information about you that she thinks is worth cherishing in her mind. On the contrary, if you have said that you are a vegetarian, and the first dish she cooks for you is steak, it may show that either she has a bad memory or she doesn't care to remember you as an important information element.
12. What a coincidence, you are here! A woman who likes you will come in and out of the coffee shop or the same room or the same parking lot at the same time with you in a bizarre way, so that they can carefully arrange a chance meeting to start a conversation. She can do it perfectly because she pays special attention to your every move and wants to start contact with the minimum risk of rejection. However, you should also pay attention to distinguish such a situation: someone purposefully follows the ground and does not let you live with peace of mind.
13. the power of flattery. If you happen to say that your favorite color is red, or you boast about her alternative hairstyle, then this is a clear hint that you have noticed her appearance. If red suddenly becomes her fashion, or she keeps that hairstyle all the time, then this in turn is a hint to you that she wants to keep anything that can attract you.
14. Cook in person. In order to have the next dinner date, she didn't need to be a gourmet chef. In fact, it doesn't matter what is on the plate, what matters is the symbolic meaning inside. Cooking at home (even the Chinese takeout) is an expression of trust, and it is also an opportunity to see what you think of her family. She also showed a willingness to share the responsibility, especially when you paid for all your previous dates. Enjoy it! Don't forget to help her clean up.
15. Meet friends and parents. If a woman begins to bring you into her circle of friends and relatives, then this step is a positive signal that she begins to treat you as more than just an acquaintance.
16. Future tense. Has your Mr Right started planning the next date for you two? When a woman likes someone, she wants to know that she wants to see him again, instead of having to endure the torture of waiting for him to pick up the phone before calling her. A woman who makes all these plans for you may show signs of a control freak, while a woman who arranges dates occasionally just wants you to know that she likes your company. Even better, a woman's plans reflect her interest in certain activities, because you seemed to enjoy them before. Another unmistakable signal is that you are invited to take a special long vacation with her-this is a signal that romance is growing.
17. Beware of picking on experts. If a woman constantly corrects you, criticizes your personality, or starts telling you how to dress, then you may be in the hands of those who want to find a goal instead of just a couple. If a woman keeps adopting this reconstruction method, she is dissatisfied with the past, because she is warning you of possible future behavior. Although women like this may really want to maintain a love relationship, it is clear that they don't like most of your things-or the things of ordinary men-so it is difficult for them to appreciate the original you.
16. gossip. If you like someone, you will respect their privacy and reputation. Please pay attention-especially in the office-to such women, who will be very careful not to reveal your privacy. A woman who really likes you will become cautious, and then she will keep her mouth shut about telling her privacy.
17. first like, then love. A woman who says she likes being with you is more suitable for a long-term relationship than a woman who swore to you on the first date. Even if there is love at first sight, there is no need to act in haste. Friendship-based on common interests, goals and values-is the cornerstone of successful love and marriage. A woman who is too eager to make a pledge of eternal love is more eager for a sense of security established through her body than to make a spiritual investment to get to know you better and like you-as a flesh-and-blood person.