The impact of sex on marriage. In daily life, for couples, a good sex life is one of the ways to enhance their relationship. Next, I will share an article about the impact of sex on marriage.
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The Impact of Sex on Marriage 1 How important is sex to marriage?
Maybe many people think it is insignificant, but as long as there is love, it can overcome everything.
But if you are married, you should know the significance of sex to marriage.
Sex is the soul of marriage, and a marriage without sex cannot survive!
1. Sex will make each other's feelings more harmonious and get along with each other more easily.
When two people have conflicts, using sex to resolve them is absolutely effective.
So sex is not everything in marriage, but it is indispensable to marriage.
2. Sex makes each other dependent. In each other's heart, we become a special person and leave an indelible mark.
Sex makes partners more loyal.
3. Sex makes life full of fun. In addition to romance, there are actually many boring moments when two people are together, and their hearts will feel dry. At this time, sex can nourish each other's feelings.
4. Sex is the bridge connecting the hearts of men and women. When men and women have sex, they will care more and more about each other.
Sex is like a ritual that makes couples who experience it more different.
Sex is an important part of the emotional sublimation of men and women!
When men and women are together, they will become unable to move without sex, and may even want to escape from each other.
This is not because they don’t love each other enough, but because they are rebelling against the laws of nature. Sex is human nature and needs to be allowed to take its course.
Pay more attention to each other's thoughts and don't let sex become the most insurmountable obstacle for both of you!
The Impact of Sex on Marriage 2 "Sex is the elixir of love" 『1』 Talking about sex is a major characteristic of the Chinese people.
In public places, if you tell some fun dirty jokes to close friends, the girl next to you may look at you with disgust, or even silently despise you in your heart: you are a shameless pervert.
Talking about sex and being a gangster are two different concepts, just like Category III movies and A-movies are not in the same category.
The former conveys artistic senses, while the latter stimulates your hormone secretion. Just like when we watch "Lust, Caution", we rarely have the urge to masturbate, but when watching action movies by Mr. Ao and Mr. Hatano Yui, there is no urge to masturbate.
Exceptions will end with masturbation.
『2』Writer Zhou Guoping once said something in "Marriage and Love": Sex is physical life and follows the pleasure principle.
Love is a spiritual life that follows ideal principles.
Marriage is a social life and follows the principle of reality.
These are three completely different things. The difficulty in marriage is how to unify the three in the same person of the opposite sex.
I have seen a media report online before: A survey of 500 divorced parties showed that Shanghai’s divorce rate ranks second in the country, and the biggest reason for divorce is “disharmonious sexual life.”
The survey also found that the rate of extramarital affairs among Shanghai women is "much higher" than among men.
Zhang Feng, a member of the Standing Committee of the Guangdong Provincial Committee of the Chinese People’s Political Consultative Conference, said: “Nearly 90% of divorces are due to sexual disharmony. While 10,000 couples are getting married, about 4,500 couples are divorcing, of which 85% to 90% are due to sexual disharmony.
"Is sex really that important to marriage?
Objectively speaking, sex is like salt. If you don’t add salt when cooking, it will affect the taste. I think everyone knows it well.
There may be people who like food without salt, but they are in the minority after all.
『3』Sex is like eating. You can be hungry once, but you will definitely eat secretly if you are hungry all the time.
Some people often say: Men cheat for sex, women cheat for love.
There is indeed some truth to this statement.
As we all know, men are animals that think with their lower bodies, and in psychoanalysis, Freud has long concluded that men’s pursuit of diversified sexual needs is human nature and cannot be changed.
From the cheating cases I have received over the years, I have found that there are actually many men who cheat for sex, and there are also many women who cheat for sex.
Human beings have three major lives: material life, spiritual life and sexual life.
This is exactly the same as what Teacher Zhou Guoping said before about unifying sex, love and marriage.
No matter how beautiful we describe love, if it is separated from material things, it cannot form a stable marriage. Without sexual harmony, the instability of marriage will be increased.
Therefore, if the three cannot be effectively unified in marriage, then this marriage will not break up but will be unhappy.
『4』Marriage itself is a family model based on the sexual love between men and women. It is the cell of society. The harmony of the family has an extremely significant impact on the development of the entire society.
Men should marry when they are older, and women should marry when they are older. This is an objective rule that everyone knows.
When people are looking for their partner, they always attach some conditions: appearance, power, status, money, character, talent, etc. These are just add-ons to love and marriage. They have no long-term effect, let alone the essence.
sexual effect.