If you just need someone to carry on the family line, I feel like an empty shell. "
This is Bea Hayden's view on marriage in My Young Couple.
And before choosing to fall in love with Jacky, she also considered whether the other party would regard herself as an accessory, and she didn't want to be a man's vassal.
When Bea Hayden said this, he spoke plausibly, his eyes sparkled and he should look like a strong woman.
No matter how dazzling the flowers are, no matter how courageous the strong woman is, she can't resist the waste of reality after all.
But everything seems to have changed after Bea Hayden married into Xiangjia's rich family.
From falling in love to getting married and having children, the mother-in-law "manipulates".
The task of having one child just full moon and three children has been arranged.
After upgrading the hot mom, she not only didn't come back, but even social posts were always "monitored", and dyeing her hair also required her mother-in-law's consent. ...
Seeing Bea Hayden, who is confident, free and easy to disappear, everything is limited.
I can't help but sigh: "Is this still the woman I know? It's really hard to be a rich wife! "
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1984, Beya Hayden was born in a middle-class family in Taipei.
Because she is the eldest daughter of the family, she has been very clever and sensible since she was a child, and she is good at taking care of people.
She liked painting when she was a child and playing football when she was in primary school, but she didn't stick to these two hobbies.
On the contrary, after graduating from high school, Bea Hayden, who was favored by thousands of boys, took part in a beautiful girl draft competition with the support of her good friends.
After the game, he was accidentally discovered by a talent scout and entered the entertainment circle.
When Bea Hayden first entered the entertainment circle, she was just a small plane model. She shoots magazines when she has nothing to do, and occasionally plays the leading role in MVs of Eason Chan, Mayday, Stephanie and Jam Hsiao.
In 2003, Lan Zhenglong and Eva Huang starred in a romantic drama last romance, which officially entered the film and television circle.
However, in her opinion, filming is very tiring, so it is easier to be a model. Besides, she doesn't like being urged to do something.
So for a long time, her focus was still on the model.
Shoot some magazine covers and advertising videos, of course, her reputation is also very general.
In 2009, after participating in the special advertisement of "Everyday Up" of Hunan Satellite TV, the real fame rose sharply.
For a while, Bea Hayden became a household name "Yida Girl".
At the same time, such a pure existence has become the dream lover of countless boys. Of course, her resources have gradually increased with her fame.
In 20 10, Bea Hayden was just 26 years old. Her career reached a new level and her attitude towards life began to change dramatically.
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Instead of pursuing a comfortable life, it is better to start a blog for your dreams.
Therefore, she stepped out of the comfort zone of the model, began to shoot a lot and marched into the mainland, and her career officially blossomed.
In 20 12, she not only completed the filming of her first costume work "Emerald Doll of the New Bodyguard", but also participated in the micro film "No.33 Fenglin Street".
But it doesn't matter, because what really turned her against the wind was Tiny Times, which was filmed in the same year.
At that time, Bea Hayden was not as famous as Yang Mi and others.
Even so, she won the title of "Campus Goddess" with her beautiful black hair, gentle and generous temperament and super-high fit with the role of Nanxiang, and became popular in by going up one flight of stairs, catching up with Hua Dan.
It is said that many people are very popular. As Bea Hayden became more and more popular, her scandal followed.
First, the scandal with his partner Jiang Qiao was flying all over the sky, and then he was photographed as having a close relationship with William Feng.
They not only appeared in the underground garage together, talked and laughed, but even spent three days and three nights together, which was suspected to be a good thing.
Although the scandal was blessed by many people, it was not long before William Feng personally denied it. Bea Hayden also said that everyone should not take it too seriously, just look.
Everyone is disappointed with this relationship that ended in nothing, but I think I can understand what the woman said.
With a career, the economy is independent, but the road to love is getting more and more tortuous.
Bea Hayden, who is getting older, has also become anxious, although a large part of the pressure comes from family.
Generally speaking, this kind of thing can't be put off any longer, so she and her father participated in a parent-child reality show called "The Most Beautiful Time".
It was this program that made Bi Hayden know Xiang Tai, and her life began to take a turning point.
This may be a regret to Tai Tai for ruining his son's several marriages, or a proper eye relationship between Tai Tai and Biya Hayden.
So soon after the program started, Xiang Tai was full of love for Bi Hayden, and she would call her daughter from time to time.
In addition, during the whole program broadcast, Xiang Tai has always generously expressed her hope that Bea Hayden will become Xiang Jia's daughter-in-law, and said that she will definitely become Xiang Jia's most solid backing.
At first, everyone thought Xiang Tai was shouting for the effect of the program, but never thought that she was fighting for her son. They were really together.
After "The Most Beautiful Time", Bea Hayden Jacky participated in the love observation program "My young couple and daughters are in love while the iron is hot".
Not only let everyone witness their love process, but also attracted many advertising sponsors in the form of guests, including marriage proposals, weddings and wedding photos.
It can be said that Bea Hayden and Jacky had a love affair in front of hundreds of millions of audiences.
More precisely, under the "surveillance" and "manipulation" of Xiang Tai, the two of them quickly entered the marriage stage.
Of course, Bea Hayden's "depravity" is more noticeable.
Their union is said to be the result of love, but there are crises everywhere.
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As early as the most beautiful time, when Bi Hayden helped Xiangtai cook in the kitchen,
Xiang Tai smiled and took precautions against Beya Hayden: "Girls must learn to cook, whether for their daughters or my daughter-in-law!"
But Bea Hayden said in more than one interview that she is a lazy person, and the best way to cook is to cook instant noodles.
In My Young Couple, Jacky and Bea Hayden are inseparable, and they are actively learning premarital knowledge and parenting courses.
But in the face of some things and difficulties, Bea Hayden also admitted on the show that she would lose the motivation to get married.
Bea Hayden's words haven't finished yet, and she interrupted Taibian with a serious face: You will regret it.
They haven't been together for six months. As long as Jackie and Xiang Tai talk about their relationship in front of the media, they can't live without their children. It seems that they are afraid that Bea Hayden will forget that the task of marrying Xiangjia is to carry on the family line.
But Bea Hayden has long said that she is a rebellious person, and more than once said that her life plan is independence, not living by men.
At the same time, Jacky and I had a disagreement on raising children, because I was disgusted with the birth of children, which showed that I was not ready.
But after all, small arms can't beat thighs. Xiang Tai has already thought about the name of her grandson, but it is not for her to decide at all.
Later, with the broadcast of the program, Jackie Bi Hayden got married as scheduled and tried to conceive a baby mouse according to Xiangtai's wish.
Facts have proved that Bea Harden's "resistance" is invalid.
Bea Hayden's pursuit of life is suffocating.
If what happened in the program is exaggerated and understandable, what about in life?
Life is worse.
About everything about Bi Hayden, Xiang Tai must have appeared first.
When people questioned whether Jacky and Bea Hayden got married without permission, they were taking the opportunity to take part in accidental amusement.
Xiangtai came out to deny it for the first time. She said it was because they were all busy and because of the epidemic. At the same time, she didn't forget to put in a word, hoping that they could have love as soon as possible.
When Bea Hayden took photos of her new hairstyle in Weibo, Xiang Tai immediately asked in the comment area whether she could ask for her permission before changing her hairstyle next time.
Bea Hayden may be in a bad mood when she is pregnant, so what should she do if she is constantly consumed by others online?
Before everyone's distressed words came out, Xiangtai quickly said, Who dares to consume you in Taiwan Province?
Every word reveals concern and love, but in fact I don't want Bea Hayden to say a word.
Later, during the postpartum period of Bea Hayden, she occasionally published sad quotations similar to Tiny Times in Weibo.
This once again aroused everyone's curiosity, so everyone speculated whether Bea Hayden was divorced.
Unfortunately, I haven't said anything. I came out for too long at the first time to show that what Bea Hayden said was to alert the world, but it was the transmission of positive energy that was misunderstood by everyone.
At Xiao Naihuang's birthday party, Xiang Tai told the media that Bea Hayden said he would give Xiang Jia three children.
At the same time, she said that she personally promised this a long time ago, and she would not force her.
But on the day Bea Hayden announced her comeback, Jacky didn't forget to remind her of her next baby's plan when she sent a message to build momentum for him.
Xiang Tairan struck while the iron was hot, saying that Bea Hayden had prepared a reward for her at home in the early pregnancy, and none of her three children could be left behind.
Everything Xiang Tai said seems to be a favor to his daughter-in-law, but in fact it seems to be strictly controlled.
Either don't speak in front of the public, or have a good baby at home. This pile is really suffocating.
It seems that Bea Hayden gradually found that one of the ways to get rid of Xiang Tai's control is that it is best not to talk, so her social platform began to become clean. ...
Women have never been a tool for giving birth to children, but no matter how independent Bea Hayden is, she is reluctant to go home.
The mansion is there, the jewels are there, but freedom is gone.
Bea Hayden has also changed from a radiant little flower to a beautiful vase in the hands of Taihe Jackie.
With its cheerful smile disappearing, it is more perfunctory and forced to smile.
Finally, I have to sigh: everyone yearns for the days of the rich, but this rich daughter-in-law is really not so good.
Although everyone has their own choices, I don't know whether the future Bea Hayden will become Niu Kelu Ting or continue to have children for the family.
Whatever the outcome, I wish Bea Hayden and his family all the best.