"Where's Dad Going 5" was a hit, and Jessica Hester Hsuan, a popular guest in the third season, returned to the public view as an "assistant to the village head".

Fat Xuan's curly hair is gone, she has grown taller, and she is more calm in talking and doing things. Although he doesn't appear many times, he is as bright, generous, neat and lovely every time he does a task.

I remember when I was chasing Dad 3, I once talked to my friend Xiao Xia about Jessica Hester Hsuan. Although every baby in this reality show has his own strengths and advantages, the two of us have become die-hard fans of Pang Xuan.

He is warm and cheerful. Although he is a typical grumpy child, he often splashes when he disagrees with a sentence, but when he cries, he can listen to the reasoning of adults, not stubborn and selfish, opinionated but not overbearing, and know how to take care of people around him. Obviously, he is a foodie, but in the "guardian ice cream" link, he can still swallow saliva and not eat ice cream.

These rare qualities obviously come from the power of family education.

One of the best skills for children of this age is imitation. His family education mode, parents' code of conduct and daily behavior habits will inevitably have a subtle influence on his children.

Jessica Hester Hsuan's mother is Ran Yingying, and she is very popular on the Internet. There are many criticisms about her image and dress on the Internet, but this gorgeous fashion hot mom is actually a good mom.

Growing up in a single-parent family, she has been an out-and-out schoolmaster since childhood. After graduating from a famous university in Beijing, she worked in CCTV.

Boxing champion Zou Shiming is away all the year round when he goes out to compete. She gave up her thriving career and devoted herself to educating her husband and children, keeping her life in order.

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It is often said that behind every Xiong Haizi, there is a bear parent. Then, a happy family, a child who performs well in all aspects, is a qualified mother full of wisdom.

Because, it is often the role of mother who accompanies children the most, and her quality determines the future of children.

Pang Xuan was rated as a "professional eater" in "Dad 3", which is a model of eating delicious food. He is not picky about food or taboo.

Dajun's father complained: "Children nowadays are tired of eating a meal." Several other children were also told by their father that they didn't like to eat. However, Pang Xuan is a special case. No one needs to worry about food, and they have an excellent appetite.

At Baye Academy in Xishuangbanna, Pang Xuan served rice, but forgot to cook it, but he still ate it sweet and delicious. The most monotonous white rice was eaten by him as a "delicious food".

However, anyone who has seen Mom is Superman knows that Pang Xuan's good habit of eating is not born, but cultivated by his mother Ran Yingying with her patience and wisdom.

Xiaopangxuan, like other children, had a stage of being picky about food, losing weight and not eating well.

Once, Ran Yingying cooked a meal and called Jessica Hester Hsuan for dinner, but Jessica Hester Hsuan was very reluctant to concentrate on the game.

He tore at his mother's clothes and cried and insisted on playing games.

In order not to affect his younger brother who is eating soundly, Ran Yingying takes Pang Xuan to the kitchen, crouches down and tells him gently but firmly: If you think that because you cry, I will let you play games without eating, then I'm sorry, it's useless for you to cry like this.

Xuanxuan soon calmed down, stopped crying and went to eat.

On another occasion, Xuanxuan's grandmother celebrated her birthday. After buying the cake, Xuanxuan insisted on eating the first bite of the cake.

Ran Yingying was adamant and refused.

Jessica Hester Hsuan started the mode of rolling in search and began to cry. Ran Yingying walked over unhurriedly and said, Jessica Hester Hsuan, you know you can't. If you have to cry, cry slowly. Come to me when you are calm.

Then, turn around and leave to do other things.

Jessica Hester Hsuan couldn't stop there, but she kept crying all the way and insisted on eating the cake. The whole process lasted more than ten minutes. When Ran Yingying was busy with her work, she gently responded to Jessica Hester Hsuan's noisy entanglement. Instead of losing her temper, she always remained calm and gentle, and took a firm stand to show her attitude.

When Jessica Hester Hsuan wastes food, she communicates with him in a language that children can understand, instead of reprimanding and not ordering food. She puts facts and makes sense:

"Do you know where all the money we spend on food comes from? It was dad who hit it. "

Jessica Hester Hsuan, who worships his father the most, knows the hardships of his father's boxing career. Hearing this, he nodded silently, and to some extent understood the hard-won food.

When dealing with Xiong Haizi, who has a flamboyant personality and loves to lose his temper, Ran Yingying is restrained and rational. He loves children but doesn't like them. He neither stifles and suppresses children's personality, but also helps them learn to grow up happily by following the rules.

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Someone once said: when a child grows up, it becomes a mother and is lost.

Really good families are all mothers, which is an indisputable fact in today's family environment of "widowed parenting and widowed marriage".

Sister Liu, who used to work in the office, and her husband are working in other places. The couple lived in two places all the year round, and her son was basically raised by his sister Liu alone.

Now her son has returned to Beijing to work in the financial industry after completing his graduate studies at the Ivy League University. He is a young and promising elite with an annual salary of one million yuan.

When her son was still in high school, Sister Liu was busy with her work. Sometimes she will take her son to the office to review his lessons and wait for his mother to come back.

On one occasion, Liu Jie's son took an encyclopedia and read it with relish. Colleagues in the office sighed and praised him for his rich knowledge.

His son replied, "I am nothing." I read the translated version. My mother read the whole set of original English. I can catch up with my mother when my English is better. "

It turns out that despite his busy work, Jassamyn Liu has always maintained the motivation to explore new knowledge. She loves reading and studying, and her son prefers science and engineering. However, as a civil servant, she also dabbled in science, engineering, computer and other fields.

She learned a lot. She and her son talked about everything, from astronomy and geography to social feelings. Mother and son always talk, and there is never a generation gap.

Over the years, her relationship with her son has been a teacher and a friend, and his son trusts him very much. Every important decision in life will take the initiative to ask her advice.

After studying in the United States, my son didn't choose a high-paying job in new york or Hongkong, but returned to Beijing voluntarily, just to be closer to his mother and give her more company.

Children who maintain a healthy and close relationship with their mothers are psychologically strong wherever they go, and can maintain positive energy to cope with work and enjoy life.

As a mother who gets along with her children day and night, the children will have a panoramic view of your words and deeds, attitudes and words and deeds, and then follow suit involuntarily.

Mother is gentle to others, and children will naturally not be rude;

Mother loves reading and sports, so children can naturally enjoy their study time quietly;

If the mother doesn't complain about peace of mind, the child will naturally not be grumpy;

Mother is full of positive energy and vitality every day, and children are naturally sunny and optimistic.

After all, mother is the core competitiveness of children.

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Some time ago, I read a news that a child came to the museum with two pebbles and an apology letter.

It turned out that the class had organized a spring outing before, and the children liked to collect pebbles, so they secretly took two pebbles from the exhibition hall.

After the child's mother knew it, she did not adopt a "conniving attitude towards ignorant children." Instead, she took her children back to the museum and asked them to apologize to the staff with a carefully written letter of apology.

After a child makes a mistake, parents can criticize him, but after the criticism, they should tell him the correct way to really avoid the recurrence of the wrong behavior.

There is an English proverb that a good mother is worth a hundred teachers. A good mother is better than a hundred teachers. )

A good mother will carefully explore the growth law of the child, understand the uniqueness of the child and provide him with endless support and companionship.

There is no good boy who became famous overnight, and there is no Xiong Haizi for no reason. If the mother's role-playing is successful, the child's future will also be successful.

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