We always unconsciously complain about the disappointments brought by work, but seldom pay attention to why; It's like, we can always see what others are like, but we seldom know how much they have worked hard behind them.

The night before yesterday, in the WeChat group of college roommates, Da Ge popped up and said, hey, guys, which one of you has time to chat with me for a few dollars?

When I was visiting Zhihu, I saw and said, Brother Da, I'll come. If you want to talk about a few dollars, transfer the money first.

dage said, fuck you. I'm telling you, these two days have been extremely depressing. Xiao Zhang, who joined the company in the same batch as me, has become the new team leader, and I am still a member of the old team. This society is really dirty.

I was a little puzzled after seeing it: dirty? How should I say this?

Da Ge said: Because I joined the company in the same batch, I have a good relationship with Xiao Zhang. We often eat together, play games and chat together. Usually, I haven't seen him working in the company for long, and he still runs to the boss's office all day. It must be shady.

I said, Brother Da, just be yourself. No matter what others do, it's useless. Just be yourself. When we have strength, we will kill him.

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Actually, I haven't said anything to Da Ge, for fear that Da Ge would feel even more uncomfortable after listening to it.

dage, the company will not promote useless people casually, but only competent people that leaders can see.

dage, it's not that someone else has a shady story, but that you haven't seen his efforts.

da ge, don't always play with your mobile phone while working at work.

Last month, I chatted with Qianjie, and I asked her: Qianjie, how did you become a department manager in one year?

Sister Qian said: Work hard.

As far as I know, Sister Qian's life is very chic. As for her, I didn't think of the word hard, so I asked her: Sister, you usually take selfies and travel photos in your circle of friends. I didn't see you work so hard. Are you so awesome? Teach me.

Qian Jie said: Haha, that's just what you saw in your circle of friends. You don't know how I get up at 6: 3 in the morning to study and try to sleep until 12: at night. Maybe you were playing with your mobile phone at that time.

I asked her: won't that make you tired?

Qian Jie said: I was tired at first, but later I was much more relaxed. Now, I spend more than three hours every day to complete the work tasks of the day, and then at other times, I read more information and management books related to the company, and occasionally look at my mobile phone to brush the news while eating, which is actually quite pleasant.

Qian Jie is indeed Qian Jie, and she still looks cynical in those days. I said, Sister, is there any hidden rule in your company?

She said: Where there is the sun, there will be shadows. This is not a problem I should consider. Maybe I was submerged in the eyes of others. Haha, they just saw how I behaved in the company, but who knows, I worked hard late into the night for my work, how many books I read for my dreams, and how many ways I thought about giving my leaders a feasible suggestion.

It's amazing. Sister Qian's life and work style are perfect. I said, Sister Qian, is your company the hardest worker?

Sister Qian sent me a NO expression pack and said, Haha, I'm just a grass. There are many people who work harder.

after listening to her words, I was like beating chicken blood, and the next few days were exciting.

We always think that if he shows a cynical look, we think that he is really cynical about the world. In fact, he just works for fun and makes himself work more effectively.

We always think that the leader looks for her every day, and she goes to the leadership office every day, thinking that there must be an indescribable relationship between them; In fact, they just do some communication on things at work.

where there is the sun, there will be shadows. You will only see them in the sun, but you will never see them working hard in the shadow.