There are thousands of miles to meet, and a thousand miles of marriage is a thread. Buddha said that looking back 5 times in the past life, it was only in exchange for passing by once in this life. Fate is such a thing, sometimes it is really amazing. It is not easy for two people to get to know each other, know each other and get married, so there will be such words as "crossing the boat in a hundred years and sleeping in a pillow in a thousand years".

The couple mentioned today, their situation is even more special, they have to cross not only the distance barrier, but also the country. The couple come from different countries. They are Xie Xiaowei from Henan and his wife from Uganda in Africa. The age difference is 18 years.

what is the tortuous course and result of this transnational love affair? Let's take a look together.

I moved to Africa because of my job, and met foreign beauties

During the period of rapid development of global economy and trade, economic and trade exchanges between countries became more frequent, which also gave birth to many multinational enterprises. Xie Xiaowei, a young man from Mengjin County, Henan Province, has been working in the company for more than ten years and is regarded as an old man in the company. Because the company's trade has expanded to Africa and needs to send some experienced old employees to support it, Xie Xiaowei was selected.

He was transferred to Uganda, located in eastern Africa, which is more than 9, kilometers away from China, and it takes more than ten hours by plane. Thinking about leaving home and working in a strange place, Xie Xiaowei was actually very uncomfortable, but he accepted the fact for the sake of living. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. Who knew there would be surprises when I went there?

Xie Xiaowei went to Uganda with a heavy heart. Although the weather and water there were difficult to adapt, he gradually got used to it. Every day's work is not much different from that in China. The only difference is that you will meet many local people.

Because of his work, he met a beautiful woman from Uganda, that is, his later wife Nablia. Although they come from different countries, they hit it off very well and got on well with each other. They talk about almost everything, and over time, the seeds of love grow quietly between them.

Zhang Ailing said, "You met the person you wanted to meet among thousands of people. In the boundless wilderness of thousands of years, you happened to catch up, neither earlier nor later." It is the true portrayal of this cross-border love, and everything comes just right, just like the drizzle in the spring breeze, just right. Xie Xiaowei, who is over 3 years old, has never found true love. Maybe she is just waiting for Nablia.

Breaking through the obstacles, I decided to go hand in hand.

"Men chase women, separated by mountains; Women chasing men, interlayer yarn. " In the end, Nablia took the lead in opening her mouth and expressed her love for Xie Xiaowei. Xie Xiaowei was very moved after listening to it. Because through such a long time, his heart has long liked this girl, but because of his introverted personality and poor expression, he has never spoken. This may be a common problem of many people. If you love someone, you are always embarrassed to speak, afraid of the east and the west.

After deciding to be together, the two men and women formally established a relationship in Uganda. Xie Xiaowei works in the local area, and Nablia will accompany him and take care of his daily life when she has time. He is very satisfied with this foreign girlfriend. It is really not easy for two people to cross regions and tolerate each other's habits. So they cherish this relationship and are willing to give it a result. In 214, the year after they met, they held a simple wedding in a local church.

What is love? Love is that when you peel off all the sugar-coated shells wrapped around love, you are still willing to spend your life with that person.

A "foreign daughter-in-law" came to the village.

After getting married for one year, in 215, Xie Xiaowei took Nablia back to his hometown in Henan. Although two people were married in Uganda, they haven't met their parents yet, which is not traditional. The day Xie Xiaowei brought Nablia back to her hometown, it caused a sensation in the village. The whole village came to see this "foreign daughter-in-law". Nablia looked at so many strange foreign faces around her, and she was very nervous, for fear that people would not like her.

But her worry is obviously unnecessary. People in the village are just curious and have never seen foreigners, so they want to come out and have a look. But everyone didn't comment on her and say bad things. However, apart from worrying about the reaction of other people in the village, Nablia is more concerned about the attitude of Xie Xiaowei's family towards her. After all, when she married in China, she had to get along with her husband's family.

So, after living in China for five years, how is Nablia's life now? Is her husband's family good to her?

Life of "foreign daughter-in-law" in China

In fact, Nablia doesn't have to worry about life in China at all, although she may have language barriers when she comes to China at first. But she has been studying Chinese hard and learned the local dialect. Now it is a piece of cake for her to understand the dialect. She gets along very well with her mother-in-law, who is an honest, kind and simple housewife. Mother-in-law thought that Nablia was married to China, and she was helpless. She took care of her in every way, just like her own daughter.

Nablia learns housework with her mother-in-law at home every day, and she also learns a lot of Chinese food. I also made many good friends in the village and got along very well with the people in the village. Everyone praises her as a smart and capable wife.

Love each other and be happy

This year is the sixth year of their marriage, and Nablia has been in China for five years. From the beginning, she was not used to it, and now she is familiar with the door and shopping on the street, and she has gradually adapted to life in Henan. Now, their son is two years old, but they still love each other as before.

After several years of marriage, they may have quarreled, but they can still stay together. Rely on mutual tolerance and trust, which should be their advantage, because since they can cross geographical restrictions, what obstacles can't be overcome?

Their love story was also rated as "Top Ten China Love Stories" in 218. When interviewing them, when asked some questions, Nablia would shyly lean on her husband Xie Xiaowei's shoulder. The simplest and most direct way to judge the happiness of a marriage is to see the smile when they first fell in love on their faces after many years of marriage.

"Hold your hand and grow old with your son." It is the most unadorned longing of the ancients for love. In the future they can foresee, there are only themselves and the right person. Complex love can make people physically and mentally exhausted. In fact, it is enough to have simple love. I hope everyone can overcome all kinds of difficulties and go to the right person; Accompany him to watch the long stream of water, and wait until it is white.

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