China has a deep-rooted culture for thousands of years, and it may be their lifelong goal to raise children to support the elderly and die. However, life is not satisfactory, and they have been working hard all their lives. Apart from a few mud tile houses that can shelter from the wind and rain, a garden dog and a few chickens that can lay eggs, there is nothing to pin their feelings on. Such old people are not afraid of dying one day, but no one will know the day they die.

This is a poor old man. At this time, it cannot be said that the poor must have something hateful. For them, there is an effort to change the status quo. No one is born to be mediocre. Then, how can those things determined by nature let them live in their old age? Personally, I think it may be as follows:

First, holding a group to support the elderly, lonely old people in the community get together in twos and threes to take care of each other, which is also considered companionship.

Second, when you enter the nursing home, you will be taken care of by the special staff of the nursing home, so that you can spend your old age with your companions and activities.

Third, it is also a good destination to ask a nanny to take care of herself in the early stage, including washing, cooking and cleaning, staying in bed in the later stage, and then entering a nursing home.

The state should also improve the system as soon as possible, so that such elderly people can have a good home, otherwise, such vulnerable groups will become a social problem sooner or later. After all, there are many Dink families now, and there are also many families who have lost their independence. They need more warmth in their old age.

How should the elderly who don't rely on their children to provide for the elderly spend their old age? Any good suggestions? In fact, it also depends on the economic conditions of the elderly. If economic conditions permit, it is still possible to pay for someone to take care of it. If the economic conditions are poor, you usually have to cook your own food and drink.

How do the old people in the city spend their old age peacefully?

Old people in the city generally have jobs when they are young, and they have saved some money, and some have bought old-age insurance. When they are old, they can live alone without their children. Of course, the elderly also need company. They usually have more free time, so they can take part in some community activities for the elderly, such as playing cards, playing chess and dancing. The body with superior economic conditions is also tough. You can join a tour group, see the great rivers and mountains, customs and customs of the motherland, and taste delicious food from all over the country. Increase your knowledge and enrich yourself, your body and mind will be exercised and relaxed, and your life will be enriched without feeling lonely.

If you are a single old man, you prefer to be busy and want someone to take care of you. You can consider finding a companion to live with, or you can go to a nursing home, where there are many elderly people, so that you won't feel lonely and your life will be taken care of.

How do rural elderly spend their old age peacefully?

For the elderly in rural areas, they usually farm or work all their lives when they are young, and then settle in the countryside when they are old. Their sources of income and savings are less than those of the elderly in cities, and they do not rely on their children to provide for the elderly. How should they spend their old age comfortably?

Life is inseparable from eating and drinking Lazar. Old people in rural areas are generally active. They can usually grow crops such as rice, wheat and peanuts, grow vegetables and raise chickens and ducks. They don't have to work so hard, they don't have to worry about food, and they are not busy with farm work. They won't be bored by watching TV or visiting and chatting. If they want to see their grandchildren, it's nothing.

Living in the countryside, we can find that most rural elderly people do not rely on their children to support the elderly, but still grow some crops, vegetables and chickens and ducks in the fields, and sometimes pick some vegetables and catch some chickens to sell some money in the street; Life is not a problem. They have worked all their lives and can't be idle. Doing what they can without overwork is also good for their body and mind.

Of course, the elderly do not rely on their children to provide for the elderly, and generally do not want to give their children too much burden. They still think that they can work and raise, and their children can eat at ordinary times. They think of their children, but they also need their children's care.

Therefore, the elderly do not rely on their children to support the elderly and live on their own. As children, they should often visit them and eat with them. Moreover, after all, the elderly are old, and the place of residence should not be too far away from the place where their children live. It is also convenient to visit the elderly. If the old people have any special circumstances, they can know earlier.

● How should the elderly who do not rely on their children to support the elderly spend their old age? Any good suggestions?

My first suggestion is "supporting the elderly"!

Holding a group to support the elderly means finding a few like-minded people when you are old. These people can be friends you are familiar with, or people who want to live alone and support the elderly without children.

Several old people get together and live in groups.

Unlike nursing homes, you don't have to live in nursing homes, be supervised by nursing staff every day, and don't have to pay high pension expenses.

What you need to do is rent a bigger house. If you have the ability, you can choose your own dishes to cook. If you think it's a waste of time, you can choose to find a nanny and let him be responsible for cleaning and three meals at home.

More than a year ago, Mr. Zhu, 79, who lives in Yuhang, Hangzhou, and his wife, Ms. Wang, 74, learned about the novel lifestyle of "supporting the elderly" by chance.

Both old people think that the big villa at home is too "cold and cheerless" for two people to live in, so they published the news of looking for a "roommate" in Urban Express to see if "holding a group to support the elderly" can make the home more lively.

As soon as the news was released, more than 100 old people signed up, and the two old people selected 4 couples from them. They signed a "partnership pension agreement" together.

In the past year, after personnel turnover, the first four couples finally became 13.

13 The old man formed a brand-new temporary home in a villa in the countryside of Hangzhou.

And the feasibility of this proposal is quite high:

When you retire, you will save some money and have a pension every month. After you find a few "friends" who are willing to live together in this way, your expenses can be AA. Rent a "villa" every month to share the cost, so there won't be too much expenditure. It would be great if an old man could provide shelter. If you find another nanny, you can get one or two thousand yuan per person on average.

Compared with nursing homes that are not free enough, I think this free lifestyle is more suitable for the elderly who don't want to rely on their children to support them.

Take the rural elderly as an example. Most of them don't live with their children. They all want convenience, freedom and economic independence. Qian Duoduo, according to its own economic capacity, spends a little money, saves a little money and temporarily plants some contracted land. Now agriculture is mechanized. You don't have to worry about it. You will earn some money in autumn. If you can't grow it, you will subcontract it, and you will get a sum of money, mainly because you are happy and your health is stronger than anything else.

When they can't move, I suggest that the elderly should do what the children ask. It's best to be around the children, and someone can watch them in time when there is an emergency. If their children really don't have time to take care of you and have no career of their own, they'd better go to a nursing home. Although they spent some money in the nursing home, it was not enough. Let their children add some. No matter where they are, they should feel comfortable every day. They don't have much pressure. Life is like this. Come and go in a hurry Let it be!

First of all, we must have a certain economic foundation and housing! Taking care of yourself in life is everyone's basic wish. The quality of life depends on anyone passively controlled by others. Anyone with a firm personality, strong self-esteem and efficient work. Will not passively live in a day without quality. Life is normal. Why not choose to end your life with dignity?

Holding a group for the elderly can only be a transitional way to get rid of loneliness on the premise that life can take care of itself. When people reach the embarrassing stage of semi-self-care, there are only two choices, either staying at home to take care of children and nannies or going to nursing homes to wait for death. The best way is for people to slowly save their pension money in middle age and spend the last period of time with pension, savings and medical insurance in old age.

Should socialist countries really be so worried about the later life of a generation that has contributed to the country? ! What is the national plan? What did you do? Is there any good mechanism? !

When I was young, I worked hard to earn money, save more money, and when I was old, I found a nanny, and my life was natural and unrestrained. In today's society, it is over to expect children to provide for the elderly! It's good that they don't live on their laurels, and they expect their children to give money for their old age. Don't even think about it. Save more money and provide for the aged! This is the last sentence! Be nice to the old couple, help each other and take care of each other.

Early family support for the elderly, hourly workers several times a week, late can not take care of themselves in nursing homes, serious illness conservative maintenance, in order to reduce pain, do not do first aid, there is a respectful death, after death, ashes buried in the sea spilled into the sea, do not occupy land, easy to leave. ...

There is an economic foundation in the city, although it is difficult for the elderly in rural areas. Children are a minority, and most of them can still do their best to support the elderly and die. Old people don't think much. They are tired all their lives. When they get old, let nature take its course. Children are not easy.