Wen/Chen Mozi

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when you want to do it or not, just do it. when you decide to do it, just do your best. Life is a one-way ticket with no return trip. You always spend too much time hesitating whether I want to get on this bus or not. In fact, it is not worthwhile for you to get on it. You delayed some time and wasted some time if you didn't get on it.

Some time ago, my sister asked me on WeChat, and she said-"Sister, I want to take a teacher qualification certificate. Do you think I should take it?" . I didn't say anything bad, just asked her-do you have time? I remember you seem to be doing a part-time job. She said-I have time. In fact, I know that she has the answer to the question of whether to take the teacher qualification certificate or not. I said-test.

I know she's just wondering if it's a waste of time if she fails to pass the exam. Wouldn't it be a waste of time and experience if you didn't become a teacher after passing the qualification certificate? If you take the exam, you will have an extra bargaining chip for finding a job, won't you? Wait a minute. Since you want to take the exam, take it.

I always feel that every experience is my own wealth. I got more chips after taking the exam, and I got more different life experiences after failing the exam. Then you will feel sorry if you want to take the exam but you don't, so as not to feel sorry in the future, so take the exam.

I always say that I won't regret what I have done, but I will only regret what I haven't done. In fact, it seems to be true all the time. Therefore, in order not to regret what I want to do, I will definitely try to do it, regardless of the result, just to experience the process. If you fail, it's a big deal to sum up your experience and try again. If you succeed, the summary method will go up a storey still higher. How bad can that be?

even if it's worse, even if I persist until I finally want to give up, I'll give up if I want to. It's a big deal to change my dream. The worst can only be like this. No matter what, I can never allow myself to stop without courage.

I think, the worst thing is to indulge in an idea, because you are always afraid and don't do it, and finally end up regretting it.

Last week, a friend of a learning group read my article "Why don't I become a doctor, look up at the starry sky and see the bright moon, and I finally asked myself". She felt that she was in a similar situation to me, and she also studied medicine, but she didn't want to become a doctor after graduation.

She said that she always wanted to work in education, but she was not sure. In fact, she and my sister are the same, both want to do something. I still answer-think, just do it.

because, I know, whether you like it or not, how much you like it, whether it works or not, and whether you do it well or not, you will only get the answer if you do it.

Let's talk about myself again. When I was a trainee the year before last, I saw an essay on hepatitis B in a WeChat official account, which cost 5 yuan and was no less than 8 words.

after reading it, I feel as if I have a story about hepatitis B. Why don't you write it? Am I good at writing? I wrote to vote for it. Do you want it? I think about these problems with joy.

now, I feel that what I think is quite redundant. Whether you write well or not, of course, you won't know until you write it. Of course, people won't know until they vote for your manuscript.

Later, I wrote it out of the temptation of money. Because I felt it, I wrote it in more than 2, words. The words were a little wordy and the theme was not too prominent. Finally, it was revised three or four times before it was requisitioned and distributed in their WeChat official account.

Through the successful submission experience, I not only got the 5 yuan, but also gained a sense of accomplishment and confidence, which opened a window and made me more hopeful. Later, the boss who contacted the contributor gave me a chance to be a part-time product experiencer, that is, to use the other party's APP, and then give some advice to the other party, so I can communicate online in my spare time.

Actually, at first, I hesitated whether I could do it myself, because I never did it again. But considering that I have used some apps, I usually have my own ideas, so I took it in the spirit of trying.

but I only worked for a month, because I stole someone else's internet use at that time (I know it was immoral .....), and I had to stay outside my house to use it. Because I couldn't stand the mosquitoes in summer, I quit this part-time job.

now that I think about it, my vision is actually too short and my brain is a little stupid. Isn't it a problem to install wifi myself? I just quit my job because of my bad brain ....................................................................................................................................................................... But if you flinch when you encounter problems, you will really miss many opportunities.

For example, two days ago, my home network could not be used for uncontrollable reasons, but my food articles had to be updated every day, or I lost my job. Seeing that there is no internet, and the time is not long before twelve o'clock in the evening, I have to ask my boss for help. In fact, I just throw questions at my boss. There are three articles left without the internet. What should the boss do?

because it's already nine o'clock in the evening, the boss may not be online and hasn't replied to me. I feel anxiously that I have only been doing it for less than a month, and I can't just lose this opportunity. So I sent a circle of friends for help-I played WeChat and WeChat official account knew Penguin. Before 12 o'clock, I edited two food articles (each with no less than 3 words) for 5 yuan, asking for help.

within five minutes after the circle of friends was sent out, two people replied to me, both friends who met in the cat group.

My first friend greeted me, and I sent him the request. He said-writing, I haven't written for a long time, and he told me not to worry until he read what I wrote before. He also asked me a lot, written in word? Can I write on my mobile phone? I told him that my Penguin asked him to log in and write directly, and he asked me if there were any requirements for the format or something. I know, maybe he can help me, but obviously I'm not very confident.

Then my second friend told me directly-I can do it. Then I sent him the request, and he read it and said-then I just released it? I know, in fact, his WeChat official account is better than mine, so I have a bottom in my heart, and it is ok to give it to him. Then send the money directly to him in a red envelope and it's over.

What about this incident? In fact, I want to say that the first friend wanted to do it, but he was hesitant to do it well when he had the opportunity. In fact, when the opportunity comes, don't hesitate. The opportunity doesn't wait for you to hesitate.

Then my second friend took the job decisively, and I paid the money directly and finished it. Although I spent 5 yuan, I didn't lose the chance of my food editor. I also saw from an HR perspective that we can't throw the problem to the boss and other bosses to give you an answer, but throw the problem to ourselves and the solution to the boss. The best state is to solve the problem ourselves.

Then I deeply realize that opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and we should make good use of them when we meet them. No matter how good a resume is, it can't match your ability. Therefore, looking for a job is not about making a beautiful resume, but about accumulating experience and exercising your ability in peacetime, but only if you have something for HR to really see your ability.

Then, it's not that everyone will be happy after you get the opportunity. You really have to persist and persist very hard, instead of shrinking when you encounter problems and hesitating when you encounter problems. Can you do it yourself? In fact, you really don't have to think too much, just try your best to find a solution when you encounter problems.

It's like fighting monsters. When you knock down monsters, looking back, those difficulties are really nothing, all because you think too much and do too little.

So, when you think about it, do it, because life is a one-way ticket with no return. Then, if you do it, just stick to it and don't give up easily, because you won't know how well you can do it until you stick to it.

so what if I'm just a frog in the well?

—— If you are eager, climb hard, climb to the wellhead, uncover the wellhead cover above you, and see a bigger sky and a more beautiful land.