I'll give you three strategies.

The first strategy: Perseverance

Men rarely succeed in chasing girls, especially when there is a big gap between two people in all aspects and men are at a disadvantage. If men want to win the love of girls, they can only use this strategy. Jianghu says: thick-skinned, eat enough; Thin-skinned, unable to eat. If you give up as soon as a girl refuses, then there is no chance.

at this time, men should display this plan. They are not afraid of shame, humiliation, tiredness, spending money and wasting time. Men know that men are afraid of pestering women and grinding. As long as they persevere and never give up, victory must belong to them. This is also the fundamental reason why a hero has no good wife and Lai Han occupies a flower branch.

second plan: playing hard to get

such a man is very cunning. He is obviously drooling over girls, but he always keeps a certain distance from them. Men play hard to get, despise girls strategically and attach importance to girls tactically. He knew that the girl, the prey, the tighter she chased, the faster she might run. On the surface, he pretends not to care about girls, and his attitude is lukewarm, neither salty nor light, just to let girls relax their vigilance against him, so that it is easier to observe girls' weaknesses and not expose their own shortcomings.

He never talks about feelings in front of girls, but he always shows himself very good at the right opportunity. The purpose of his doing this is to let girls know that he is not in the same class as those flies. As long as the opportunity is ripe, get the girl in one fell swoop.

the third plan: simmer slowly

as the old saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient, but your feelings are cultivated. Men have a thorough understanding of these two ancient famous sayings of China. Chasing girls is like cooking. It is definitely impossible to stir-fry with violent fire, and it is necessary to stir-fry them slowly with slow fire, so as to enjoy the joy of cooking.

Their specific approach is to find opportunities to get close to girls, and first put them in their own prepared pots in the name of friends. The seasoning is to often invite girls to dinner, outings, movies, parties, and so on. As long as the girls don't refuse, they will slowly fry them, and one day they will stew the raw beef of girls and it will become his appetizer. How to pursue girls

From a girl's point of view, I know more about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, except that they really like it too much or that kind of brave girl with personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think that she is a little interested in you, then take the initiative, don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, and you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.

When a girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence about the boy who broke into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, but she's actually fighting herself. She's afraid of getting hurt.

don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will gradually fade away. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately, never talk to the girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are in pain, I don't know that the girl may be regretful! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be very sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never ask you to come back and chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

she will think that you don't really like him, otherwise, how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it's really hard for boys and it's not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From the physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be out of order! Women's shyness is always beautiful and touching ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. On the contrary, there are very few examples.

It is often heard that a girl's mood is like the weather. It's cloudy in sunny days and occasionally showered, and the ups and downs of her mood are really unpredictable. Hey! This sentence really hits the nail on the head. From another angle, it certainly tells the helplessness of many boys. If you don't have any ability to predict, you will accept the retribution of the storm sooner or later. If a girl's temper is really like the weather, then let's take a good look at the classification of the weather! This time, let's compare the wind level with the girl's temper.

level p>1.-no wind: at this time, you can't feel any girl's temper at all, and it seems to be in still air. Usually, this happens only when your girlfriend is not around, and your spirit can be completely relaxed.

Level p>2.1-Soft Wind: At this time, you will feel a little girl's reaction, and you will see the girl muttering and saying that she is annoying. At this time, you will feel that she is like a soft spring breeze, which makes people feel very comfortable.

Level p>3.2-Breeze: At this time, the girl has begun to show a little displeasure. She usually spits out boredom to represent her feelings, but soon turns away. This level may not have any influence on you.

Level p>4.3-Breeze: At this time, you will find that girls begin to show more unhappiness, usually hitting you with a little thing to let you know to stop it! But it may not affect you, because you will think she is joking with you.

Level p>5.4-Hefeng: You will find that girls begin to use some sound language to express their unhappy mood.

Level p>6.5-Breeze: At this time, you should feel a little chill. Usually, girls will give you a hard look and say some sarcastic remarks. Don't think it's just a breeze. If you are still in this situation for a long time and don't know it, then I want to remind you that this level is one level away from the next strong wind!

Level p>7.6-Strong wind: This is a level. Usually, girls have started to curse with their hands on their waists, and their voices have been raised. You should know how to advance and retreat!

magnitude p>8.7-flurry: At this time, it has already started to get angry, and the cursing sound is constant.

Level p>9.8-Gale: This level is a bit scary from the beginning. In addition to the constant curses, it will be accompanied by some loud noises and noises, usually just swearing and slapping the table!

Level p>1.9-Gale Wind: At this level, there will be some property loss at first, usually she starts to drop some small things that can be taken at hand, such as pens, mobile phones and shoes! It will often cause damage to some small things, remember that you have to have the ability to receive things in the air at this time.

magnitude p>11.1-storm: at this time, a lot of things are often broken and injured. At this time, you should not pretend to be calm or strong. If you encounter the litters that come at you one after another, you'd better find shelter first, just like an earthquake.

Level p>12.11-Gale: This level is just like the name. She will rush to hit people like crazy, which often causes some disasters for human beings. Usually, she can't run away with a slap.

13.12-Hurricane: This level is also known as a strong typhoon. If we don't take precautions, there are usually casualties and disasters. How to please a girl:

If you have a girl you like, you should cherish the affection between them. You should learn to care about and love her, and you should make her feel how much you care about her. To be a boy, you should read a girl's heart, understand her mind, and make her feel your meticulous care. She sings around you like a happy bird. You should learn to walk, go shopping, sing, dance and have an outing with her ... You should always give her a sense of novelty and buy her some trinkets, which are cheap and express your admiration, so that she can feel that you are a good boy who knows interest and love life, and she will love you even more.

Only when we understand each other can we have the same language, and only when we tolerate each other can we make love sweeter. You should let her know that girls are to be spoiled, loved, cared for and cherished! Love means giving, dedication, and love means making you happy all your life. This is true love! I believe that with your intelligence and wisdom, you will definitely win the favor of girls!

Teach you how to please girls

1. "May I ask you the way? ""to get there? ""to your heart.

2. Can I borrow a dollar from you? ""why? I want to call my mother and tell her that I just met the girl of my dreams. "or" I want to call your mother and thank her.

3. Is your father a thief? ""no. ""Then how can he steal the bright stars and put them in your eyes? Be prepared if they answer you "yes"

4. "You are so warm that even the plastic in my underwear is melted by you.

5. "Your legs must be very tired, right? ""why? ""Because you have been running in my mind all day.

6. (Look at his/her clothes label. When they say, "What are you doing?" Answer "just to see if you are made in heaven." "or" just to see if you are my number.

7. "Sorry, I lost my phone number. Can I borrow yours?

8. "I hope you know CPR, because you are so beautiful that I stop breathing.

9. "Miss, please give it back to me! ""what! "My heart, you took it away with your eyes!

1. There must be something wrong with my eyes. I can't take my eyes off you.

11. "I had a bad day. Seeing a beautiful girl smile will make me feel better. Can you smile for me?

12. "It's raining heavily today. ""yes! ""That's because God drools at you.

13. If I could rearrange the English letters, I would put U and I together.

14. "Sorry, I'm an artist. It's my job to stare at beautiful women.

15. Believe me, I will make you the second happiest person in the world. ""Why not be the first? ""With you, I am the happiest person! Chasing girls skills

The most difficult thing for lovers is not knowing how to start this procedure. Men will worry that their behavior is abrupt, and women will worry that men will regard themselves as vain. In the final analysis, it is up to the man to start this procedure. Please refer to the specific skills listed below

Hand contact

① When crossing the road, say, "Hurry up, the red light will turn on and then naturally take her hand across the road.

② When you get off the boat or walk on a bumpy road, naturally reach out your hand and say to her, "Come on, it's dangerous here, please hold my hand."

③ When people are crowded, say to her, "Hold my hand, or I will be separated." If she is coy, just hold her hand. If she really likes you. Just a few posturing struggles and then obedience. If she really doesn't want to, she will "look and feel" to break free. At this time, don't be reluctant. This is a respect for her will, not a sign of cowardice.

(4) when she wanted to talk: naturally, she said to her, "Come on, I'll help you up".

⑤ Compare the palm size with her: "Come on, let's compare whose hand is bigger. Hey, your hand is really cute."

⑥ Try your wrist: Can you resist her hand pulling?

⑦ palm reading: this method is very old, but it is very effective. If you really study palmistry, you can talk for five minutes, which will interest her greatly.

Touching shoulders and other parts

① When a car comes from behind; Say to her, "Here comes the bus". So I easily put my shoulder on her and drew her closer.

② When swinging in autumn, say, "Come, I'll help you push". Hand naturally pushes her shoulder

③ When she comes to the entrance of the meal, she gently pats her shoulder and says, "Just this room, how about it?" If she agrees, gently hold her shoulder and walk in together.

④ when the wind suddenly turns cold or it suddenly rains: take off your coat and put it on her body, then lightly floor her shoulders.

⑤ When introducing buildings or places of interest: put your left hand on her shoulder from behind, and point to the building or place of interest with your right hand: "Where is that building?".

⑥ When riding the Ferris wheel or entering the haunted house in the amusement park: hold her hand or hug her shoulder.

⑦ When she just stood up on the grass, you said, "Oh, it's dirty here". Give her a few slaps on the ass. Remember, the touching action should be natural and gentle, the tone should be more relaxed and natural, and there must be no tension, because a woman is already very nervous when she first contacts the opposite sex. In her heart, if she likes you, she will not only not mind your touching her, but also yearn for you to do so. But your movements. Manner and intonation will have an important influence on her mood. If you do it unnatural, she will be even more unnatural and even refuse you. The other skills introduced below are also based on the premise that she likes you and you do it naturally.

Other initial contact skills

① Touch her head, hold her hair with your fingers, or fondle her hair with your fingers. If she is shy and doesn't object, you can consider further contact next time.

③ Gently pinching her nose will make her happy.

④ Touching her forehead with your hand and saying, "You naughty little pig" will make her laugh.

Skills of skin contact

The conditions of skin contact are external atmosphere and environment plus intimate conversation with each other. Conversation must be started by natural topics, and it is best to add gestures and expressions to arouse the hearts of the other party. The environment and atmosphere should focus on the following points:

① Being in the dark: this can eliminate her bad feelings and make her feelings more open

② Being in the narrow place: the other person's body will naturally touch each other and naturally produce "magnetism". If you don't hate each other, this "magnetism" is very tempting and can make your attention highly concentrated.

③ Quiet tree-lined avenues and willow banks: It is easy to arouse women's feelings, and it is also a suitable place.

④ Warm climate: it's too cold and has no mood, and the most suitable temperature is 25℃.

⑤ sounds that can intoxicate women, low and intermittent whispers, the sound of rain, the sound of cars, etc.

⑤When the other person is depressed, there will be a desire to pour out to the opposite sex.

Attention, when making such initial contact, it should be suitable for the environment and atmosphere at that time. For example, you can't do this when you see the climax of a bitter drama. If the environment is suitable, you can also add a little romance, girls won't hate it. But it's too romantic for a mature older woman.

Precautions when dining with a woman:

A. Take the initiative to invite her to dinner, because most girls don't want to say they are hungry.

B. Ask her what she wants to eat first. If she doesn't express her opinion, you can decide the menu yourself. Don't push it around, because you think it's embarrassing to be polite to the other party. When ordering food, be careful not to touch your teeth, because it will spoil the atmosphere.

C. Try not to make noise when eating.