Xu Zhuoyun, a 9-year-old historian, once said: The common problem of people all over the world now is that there is no meaning in life, and living is meaningless.
Life may be a question that everyone will think about.
I regret writing this topic, because it is too big, and I'm afraid I'm not wise enough to say it clearly.
it will also put you in a confused state.
In your life, have you ever asked yourself or others this question:
"Why do people live?"
When you ask this question, you may be in the most vigorous state of your life, and one day you suddenly "look up at the sky at a 45-degree angle" and think about your life;
Maybe you are in the hard time of starting a business, feel tired and lonely, and ask yourself, "Why do you think people should live? I am so tired to live. "
It may also be the mantra of inner confusion: "Hey, why do you think we are alive ..."
The deeper the question, the more distressing it is, and the simpler the reason, the happier it is.
Life is sometimes like chasing a butterfly. Happiness lies in it, but people don't feel tired.
if you walk, you will reach the fields and the depths of flowers.
there are always many people who want to live as they please, see the outside world, see different scenery, see different things, meet different people, eat all kinds of delicious food, get out of their inner cage and shackles?
at the same time, walk out of a circle, are you sure you didn't jump into another circle?
Our thinking is like a wilderness, but it is the grass that is replenished ... The grass is easy to wither and flourish, so we need to constantly replenish weeds.
And it is the supplement of wildfire never quite consumes them and come and go with every season, which is the state of most people's thinking cycle.
Tagore said:
You should not pursue or try to prove your existence, because you already exist.
you shouldn't pursue or try to prove the meaning of your existence, because your existence itself is meaning, like fireflies, like starry sky, like grass growing and warblers flying, and everything that changes in seasons, people are just a part of nature, and you just reproduce and replace according to the law.
what he means is that it is meaningless for you to pursue the meaning of living, just live.
The following sentence is still what he said: Don't give up thinking about life and be true to yourself. (Tagore is so contradictory. . )
People exist in this world, and our troubles generally come from three points:
Seeking materials to meet the needs of survival.
Seek various ways to achieve the deep inner needs and the mission of life.
handle all kinds of "relationships".
Different ages need to face different interpersonal relationships, and of course, the most important thing is their relationship with themselves.
how do I live?
who am I going to live for or why?
Is there a reason for me to live in this world?
not to live in misery, but to live fearlessly with joy and hope.
There is a big problem in life, which is bigger than any other problem, that is, life and death.
Life and death are things that everyone must face. Who can escape?
when you die, fame, knowledge, power and body all disappear.
everyone is a book, with birth as the cover and death as the back cover.
Some people say that life is a journey to an unknown destination; Some people say that life is a fleeting show; Some people say that life is a chess game with no regrets.
Dostoevsky said, "I'm only afraid of one thing, and that's not worthy of my pain."
He made us think about the meaning of pain.
if the pain is meaningless, then we are going through it in vain.
the reason why Yanzi can "eat and drink" is that he has experienced the beauty of life, and only after experiencing it can he really tell others, so we should put growth first in all life. When we pursue growth, you can see the spiritual growth.
Life is a hard-won experience. How to spend it, everyone has different choices. Being unknown is life, being vigorous is life, being caring or being casual. It's all life, but the way of life is different.
It is a kind of luck to find the meaning of living when you are young and healthy.
Because in this way, you can buy yourself more time and realize your value. Everyone may encounter a day without tomorrow.
However, people in the world often devote all their efforts to the unreliable tomorrow, but they waste all today.
I have stepped into the drama of life, so what kind of ending will I give myself?
what should a person live?
it's definitely not how beautiful, handsome and rich you are, but that you radiate great positive energy, and when others see you, they will feel warm and happy.
When you live as a beam of light, and the light is bright enough, you will be blessed everywhere; If the light is weak, it will benefit you.
About the author: Teacher Xiaoxian
National second-class psychological counselor, Tarot soothsayer, planetary energy eulogy healer, free code writer and trainer.
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