As a single mother, Angel places all her hopes on her son, and her request for him is to give her "husband-like love". In an interview, she admitted that being alone with her son was like "dating" and claimed that "all women in love are like this".
Angel's practice, from a happily married little woman to asking for love from her son, is both regrettable and touching. She used to be a hit girl, and her combination with Pan Yueming was also called "golden couple".
However, in just three years, the two broke each other's secret and became strangers from lovers. Angel has also changed from "national first love" to "black-bellied woman", and her popularity is no longer in the past, and both sides lose. Pan Yueming has become the "love rat" shouted by everyone, with low popularity and a low career.
At the same time, Angel's "revenge" on Pan Yueming never stopped. I am deeply involved in the divorce, and the current situation is sad. What happened between them at the beginning? Let the angel, 10 years not let the son see his father? What is the state of the once happy family of three?
Pan Yueming was born in the old hutong of Beijing, and his parents are both public officials. Because of his handsome appearance, Pan Yueming has been a walk-on in various drama groups since he was a child. Ma Xiaojun in Jiang Wen's film Sunny Days, and the minion of Master Lei in Jet Li's film Sunny Days. Wu Jingdi Sun Xiu in The Romance of the Three Kingdoms (94th edition).
Because of these years' performance experience, Pan Yueming has always had an actor dream in his heart. Therefore, when he applied for high school, he did not hesitate to apply for North Film and Chinese Opera. However, both of them fell off the list because filming delayed their studies. Finally, Pan Yueming had to settle for the second best and study film and television production at Beijing Normal University, as long as he was closely related to the film and television industry.
During her four years in college, Pan Yueming never relaxed her study of acting. As soon as he graduated, he had the opportunity to star in this film every summer. With this color, he also won the "Best Newcomer Award" in the 7th Peking University Film Festival.
Exquisite acting also made Pan Yueming recognized by more directors. In 2006, Pan Yueming's Clouds in Beijing, The Red Shop and The Legend of the White Snake were broadcast on CCTV one after another, and Pan Yueming became an instant hit, quickly establishing his status as a "jade-faced youth".
During this period, Pan Yueming had a smooth sailing and a bright future, and love came quietly at this time. When filming The Red Shop, Pan Yueming and Angel became attached to each other.
At that time, Angel was already a famous "girl", and she became a well-deserved "national first love" with many TV series "Golden Powder Family". The combination of a handsome boy and a pure beauty made many netizens sour, and they also became the "golden couple" envied by everyone.
In 2008, they fell in love for three years and got married in Fengzi. After five months of marriage, their son was born, and the happy family of three was envied by others. Pan Yueming was too excited to sleep for days and nights.
He often holds Angel's hand and repeats over and over again, "Thank you, I will protect you both." Since then, Pan Yueming's social platform has also become a window to record the happy life of a family of three. Whether it's a top joke or an angel's illness, Pan Yueming can always tell a beautiful story with ordinary words.
In quiet years, there is always a strong unpredictability. Because of a scene, Pan Yueming fell from a 30-meter-high hillside, and his lungs were crushed and ruptured, which was extremely dangerous. The crew is far away in the mountains, and it takes an ambulance two hours to get to the scene.
On his deathbed, Pan Yueming recited the names of Angel and Dingding in his mind and encouraged himself again and again, thus passing the most dangerous moment.
When Angel learned the news, he immediately put off all his work and took care of Pan Yueming day and night until he recovered. During nearly 100 days of training, the two saw the beauty of love. After leaving the hospital, Pan Yueming, who has always been shy, publicly showed his love for Angel: "I married the best wife in the world."
2065438 is the third anniversary of their marriage. Pan Yueming expressed her love for marriage on social platforms. Angel wrote "Love for three years, marriage for three years, next year ... itches" and forwarded it to Pan Yueming's loving Weibo.
It never occurred to me that this unintentional joke turned out to be a magical prophecy of their future life. 20 12 10 a blogger broke the news that "Pan Yueming broke up with Angel, and the woman has a new love". And this new love is the actor Wang who has worked with Angel in TV series.
At this sensitive moment, as a party, Wang suddenly jumped out and publicly supported Jiang Xiaoxiao. Once again attracted the people who eat melons to watch. In order to control the situation, Angel's agent issued a statement, in which Pan Yueming was portrayed as an "ultimate man" who was unfaithful to his marriage, rude and even addicted to gambling, was heavily in debt and relied on his wife to support his family. At this time, the public's impression of Angel is still in Leng Qingqiu's naive memory, and netizens have no doubt about her accusations.
In an instant, Pan Yueming, the "party", became a target of public criticism overnight and became a hateful love rat. Then, Angel's agent exposed the photos of Pan Yueming tourists in Macau again, which proved his gambling addiction again.
During that time, negative public opinion was overwhelming, Pan Yueming's image collapsed, and the outside world was convinced of his sad image. And Angel became the object of sympathy and gained countless sympathy. Pan Yueming had no choice but to fight back at the first time, but the target was not Angel, but her agent. Until now, he chose to trust Angel, thinking that she was just bewitched by her agent.
In the end, Pan Yueming won the case, but public opinion still didn't exonerate him. People always believe what they want to believe.
Until five months later, the paparazzi studio broke the video of Angel kissing Wang, and public opinion turned to Angel. Facts have proved that in 20 16, Angel and Wang entered each other's lives because of their plays, regardless of it. In passion, Angel filed for divorce with Pan Yueming.
Pan Yueming couldn't believe it was true and refused, so they parted. In order to quell the rumor, Angel's agent decided to pre-empt the news of Pan Yueming's death. The result didn't disappoint Angel. Pan Yueming lost completely and became the "love rat" that everyone shouted. However, from the beginning to the end, Pan Yueming held hope for their feelings, and his defense was weak.
"For your feelings for us, I Pan Yueming have a clear conscience. I didn't do anything. I am still waiting, because I love my children and love this family. "
Even though he was questioned by the media from all walks of life, he still defended Angel: "I don't believe this is true. If it is true, then bless it. " From loving couples to turning against each other, it is still so embarrassing. The divorce war between them has always been regarded as "the ugliest star marriage in the entertainment circle".
No one knows the truth of what happened in their marriage except the outside rumors, except themselves. But there is an ironclad fact-because of divorce, both sides lose.
In a word, everything Angel did later was unbelievable. After their divorce, Dingding was awarded to Angel. In the program, the host asked Angel: Do you mind meeting Pan Yueming in Dingding? She said, I don't mind at all, but the reality is another matter.
She refused to visit Pan Yueming. Even on children's birthdays, Pan Yueming can only wish his son a happy birthday on social platforms. For nine years in a row, he celebrated his birthday on time with the same emoji. "Cow" stands for the top, and "balloon" stands for celebrating happy birthday.
Because there are no photos of children, Pan Yueming's birthday photos every year are still the same as when he was a child.
On Dingding's birthday in 20 13, Pan Yueming said sadly: If I can change your happiness all your life, I would rather suffer all my life. Although I can't be with you, my father wishes you a happy birthday. Whenever he goes to a fun place, the first thing he wants to do is to take his son to play with him.
In the variety show, whenever he mentions his son, he can't help choking, regretting that he didn't have the opportunity to accompany his son to grow up. Later, Pan Yueming's father was seriously ill and wanted to see his grandson for the last time, but no matter how Pan Yueming begged, Angel refused to let his son see his grandfather for the last time.
This has also become the deepest wound in Pan Yueming's heart. Since the divorce, the old man has been slandering his son on the Internet, and he can't afford to get sick. Now even his last wish can't come true.
It's hard to take care of the family, and Pan Yueming's career is also in the end. In an interview, he once admitted the experience of the original marriage change and bluntly said: "It's particularly terrible, and I still have a lingering fear when I think about it now." For a time, the internet was full of accusations and abuse against him. The image of "jade-faced teenager" was broken, and there was no drama for several years, and his acting career was once terminated; For a long time, Pan Yueming couldn't get over it and struggled with depression. He became greasy and fat, and every time he appeared in the camera, his face was melancholy and haggard.
In order to win him a role or a role, the broker will lose face and look for all possible resources. However, from beginning to end, Pan Yueming, who once fell to the bottom and was in an extremely embarrassing situation, never publicly accused or revealed his ex-wife. Based on this, he can be called a real man and a pure man! The only time they confronted each other was because of their son.
In the program "Mom is Superman", the host asked Angel: "When you stand in front of your father, will you ask your father?" The angel said: "there is no way, we all have to accept the reality." It was this passage that made Pan Yueming, who was repeatedly silent, respond. Late that night, he sent a Weibo: "I really want to face the reality and dare to tell the truth."
This is also the hardest thing he said to Angel after his divorce. Because he loves, he is kind and compassionate. Only the angel did not continue to respond.
Because, since getting married, Angel's life is also very difficult. Cheating in marriage also throws dirty water on each other. Angel's behavior ruined Pan Yueming and her hard work for many years. She changed from a "jade girl" to a "black girl", and her popularity plummeted. It's ridiculous to take part in this activity. People began to collapse and resources were gone.
Over the years, she has been raising her son alone as a single mother. Needless to say, children have become the focus of her life, and the way she gets along with her son has been criticized by the outside world.
On one occasion, Dingding Jr. visited Pan Yueming's class. When he sees his father, he will jump into his arms from a distance. Even Yi Nengjing said, "Very touching." However, since Pan Yueming and Angel divorced, Dingding never saw his father again. Whenever he mentioned his father, Angel would reply perfunctorily, "Mom is too busy and Dad is on a business trip, so he has no time to see you."
Poor Dingding was filled with grievances. I don't know why my father didn't come to see me, and I don't know how to make my mother happy. Angel always wants to attract her son's attention. When Dingding was having fun with the children, she called Dingding directly: I'm really sorry that you ignored me like this. That tone is like a girl who dotes on her boyfriend.
It is understandable that a mother wants her son's company, but the top should always make her happy, and the title between mother and son is surprising. Dingding is not called "son" in front of angels, but "father". His name is Angel, not "Mom" but "Baby".
And these are all required by Angel. She must kiss her son at least 65,438+000 times a day, and it is the kind of mouth-to-mouth kiss.
Is Dingding really happy under this suffocating maternal love? No wonder, from his immature face, you can't see the innocence and happiness that children of the same age should have, but you are always unhappy.
Angel's "husband-like" love will not only ruin his childhood, but also make him bear the emotional burden prematurely and have a wrong understanding of men and women. Angel herself will get deeper and deeper, and eventually become a morbid mother with a strong desire for control. Unfortunately, angels don't know.
Now, it's been 10 years since their divorce, and Pan Yueming has finally come out of that terrible past and become a better self. Once the annual explosive online drama "White Night Chasing the Murder" was broadcast, Douban scored 9.0 points, and the broadcast volume of the whole network exceeded 800 million, which also enabled him to complete the transformation from "jade-faced niche" to traffic drama.
"Ghost Blowing Lights in Longling Cave" made Pan Yueming the best candidate for "Hu Bayi" in the audience's mind with 52% of the votes. Pan Yueming, who has turned red again, has also relaxed a lot about the past. When not filming, Pan Yueming updates daily and interacts with fans. Write and draw in your spare time, and your life will be back on track.
On the other hand, after experiencing a well-known scandal and being mercilessly abandoned by her relatives, Angel lost her old popularity and her career was in a slump. To this day, she has never appeared in a first-line actress. You can only share food online to get some attention and affection.
I don't know. Did Angel regret what he did? Especially when Dingding asks her about her father, how long can she hide it as the child grows up?
After so many years, Pan Yueming still has fond memories of the family of three. He didn't delete any photos and records of the family. Someone once asked him, "Why not delete everything related to the past?" Pan Yueming said: "In order to let Dingding know that he came to this world because of love."
A father who loves his children jumps from the page and makes people cry. In this war without smoke, if adults must bear their own mistakes and be responsible for their own impulses, then the most pitiful thing is innocent children.
No matter how happy your childhood is, it is always a pity to be without your father.