Whether it is a man or a woman, don't be too enthusiastic at the beginning of love. Because if there are too many emotional elements, it will eventually lead to being blinded by love. Generally speaking, in a long-term love, we should keep more than 70% rational components. On the one hand, we know what we want, on the other hand, we know what the other party can satisfy us. I will not impulsively treat each other as the whole world, but I can't wait to stick to and rely on each other wholeheartedly.
Don't take love too seriously It's not that you don't respect love, but that you have learned to be independent in love. You can be childish once in a while and become the other person's heartbeat accelerator; But you should also work hard and make progress with each other. Don't give up on yourself because of love. You can't concentrate on your study and growth, so you will slowly fall behind each other. When the gap between two people is getting bigger and bigger, you will find yourself in a weak position, and it is easy to be betrayed by the other party and kick out this love.
Don't try to test each other. Can't love stand the test?
Just like the example of Xiao Fei, don't try to go? Testing? And then what? Testing? Love, love is soft and fragile. Many women like to look through men's chat records. The more they guess, the more suspicious they are. Finally, they can't help looking for someone to test their boyfriend's loyalty. As we all know, few men in the world can resist the temptation. Have men who have never betrayed love ever been tempted to stand the test? External heart? Wouldn't it be worth the loss? If love is to last, both men and women should stick to the road of love, instead of testing love in the opposite direction.
Don't always be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, euphemistically called? Insecure? In the final analysis, I still have insufficient strength and confidence, so I will be full of suspicion in love. Learn to believe that you are? Be loved? Yes, it is worth having a beautiful love. Therefore, only by making yourself better and brighter can we make each other inseparable from you and make them love you more. Instead of blindly using anxiety, suspicion and jealousy to make the other party disgusted and disgusted.
What kind of person are you, what kind of happiness will you get?
If you want to keep love alive and sweet for a long time, you must constantly bring all your vitality and charm to this relationship, so that love can continue to glow. For example, if you are a woman with good figure, good skin, good temper and love reading, then stick to it; If you are a handsome, warm, gentle and generous, considerate and warm man, then continue to work hard. Don't fall in love, get each other, lose your initial heart and forget your own growth. That kind of love will only make you worse and worse, and you can't keep your beauty and sweetness for long.
Generally speaking, a long-term love relationship is mutual, but it is difficult to break up when quarreling, but choose to buy food and cook angrily and bow their heads to admit their mistakes; Is to run away from home impulsively, but also remember to buy back the food that the other person loves; I can't wait to pester each other for 24 hours, and learn to make time to learn and progress, and become better with each other. May we all have love in our hearts, grow up together and be happy all our lives.