Wen/Lu Xiaomiao

A friend I know, a 25-year-old good young man with roots in Miaohong, said when asked if he had a girlfriend, he didn't want to find a blind date. After two years, he would find a blind date under the arrangement of his family, and that's it.

"You are still young, why don't you find someone you like to live with?"

"In fact, it's all the same in the end. Whether you like it or not, you have to live this life."

"But with people you don't like, will you really be happy?"

"Life can't go on by happiness. How vigorous it used to be, it will always be flat in the end."

"I think your idea is a little negative. You should get high when you are young."

"I don't want to get high. I've been high for so many years, and I'm all in my third year."

"You are only 25 years old now, so you should find someone who likes her and she likes you. It's totally in time."

"You should get married after two or three years of love, otherwise that love is meaningless."

"My sister and her boyfriend have been in love for eight years, starting from high school. Is that meaningless?"

"Are they married?"

"Not yet, but they have a good relationship."

"Then ask them whether their feelings are love or affection now. After a long time, love becomes affection."

"I believe they were in love before."

"Find a blind date together, and after a long time, we will become relatives, in the same way. Maybe when you get to my age, you will understand. "

I can't agree with his idea. As far as I know, being in my twenties is the best time. When I am young, I should work hard to live the life I want. Although it is not so easy, I have to fight for it.

I asked my best friend what she thought. Although she was surprised, she said she could understand.

Actually, it may be because we are biased about blind date, because there is no such person around us, and blind date is not a bad thing. Maybe the blind date is just the right person? In our opinion, people in their twenties should be positive, optimistic and strive to live the life they want, but others don't think so. Living a simple life may be the life they want.

Her words woke me up. Now I still have full passion for life, love and the future. But after 25 years old, I am not sure whether I can rely on these passions to work hard and struggle, and whether trivial things in my life will erase my passion, let alone imagine.

My teacher, a 28-year-old aspiring young man, especially likes to chat with him. Every time I encounter something annoying, I will talk to him. He always gets to my point, first says something that makes me comfortable according to my mood, and then starts to reason with me after I feel a little better. Typical "Give a candy first, then slap", but after talking with him every time, my. But emotionally, he has never been able to pass.

He had a child, but he was not married. He was in the trial marriage stage, but then the contradiction grew bigger and bigger, and finally he separated.

"Who is that child with?"

"It must be with me. The mother of the child can't even support herself."

"doesn't she work?"

"When she is with me, she doesn't have to work. I can support her. She does nothing every day. She goes shopping in buy buy to buy something and asks her friends to watch a movie."

"You love her very much and spoil her so much."

"I couldn't tell whether I loved her or not. Later, our differences grew bigger and bigger, and we quarreled every day. I was very tired when I came back from work, and I had to put up with her unreasonable troubles and finally separated."

"You have a good job now, so why don't you find someone else?"

"I don't want to look for it. My daughter and I have a good life like this."

"There must be a shadow, so I dare not be tempted easily."

"I feel that I have no energy to deal with these things. Maybe I can't handle them at all."

Actually, it's a pity. My master is really nice, but when I lose confidence in love, my original passion and yearning for beautiful love, I really don't want to touch it again.

When you have been in a serious relationship for a long time, you think that he is your future, but in the end you break up. You are very sad. You want to enter a new relationship immediately to calm your sadness at the moment, but you find that you can't like someone else anymore. You feel very tired. You don't want to spend time and get to know her name again.

We must face an increasingly realistic question, whether people who like you really want to be with you or just want to fuck you. I used to think that such a thing was just heard, but one day when it really happened to me or even me, I really felt very heartfelt.

Yesterday, my friend told me that an event planner was flirting with her, but she obviously felt that that person just wanted to fuck her. See, I don't even want to look forward to love, just want to have fun.

people of our age are not in love for long. Many people say that everything is a three-minute fever. What can we do when the passion fades?

what should I do if I suddenly don't like my husband after I get married? After this question came out, my friend said that there was a lot of buzz. When the passion fades, there is no romantic romance, only the blandness of tea, rice, oil and salt. Can we find ourselves again? No matter how trivial our life is, we still have some passion and yearning.

this problem should be carefully considered.