1. Love doesn't have to have an 8-word narrative.

Love doesn't mean having a beautiful article, but it only has 5 words. Once the soul is shackled, the heart can't soar in the sky.

-Inscription A priest came to his new parish, only to find that the children nearby picked tulips in the garden at will, and he felt very sad. So one day, he asked a child who wanted to pick flowers: "Do you like this flower? But if you take it away, it will only live for a few hours. "

The child thought about it and decided to leave the flowers. Other children followed suit, so the yard was covered with tulips in full bloom that spring.

those children really like tulips, but their love is just possession. The priest's words made the children understand what is the best expression of love.

So the blooming tulips decorate the spring and children's hearts. Love is not equal to possession.

Let him live in his own world, which is the best expression of love. What a simple truth! But some people just don't understand.

Han Feizi recorded a story of Zheng people raising fish: Zheng people liked fish very much, so they bought a jar of fish and put it at home. Zheng people take good care of the fish, feed them regularly every day, and often replace them with new water, but the fish loses its vitality day by day.

however, people in Zheng are worried, and there is nothing they can do. Someone advised him, "Fish should live in rivers. How can such a small fish tank make them comfortable?" You'd better put the fish back into the river early. "

Zheng people didn't listen, and soon all the fish died. In real life, it is so rare for Zheng people to raise fish. People keep birds in bamboo cages just to listen to their crisp chirping, but the chirping of birds in cages is becoming increasingly sad; People keep tigers in iron cages just to watch them occupy the mountains, but the tigers in cages are getting lazy, and what's more, they sleep in cages all day.

... there are countless similar examples. Tragedy has happened, but ignorant people let it happen again and again.

what is the biggest tragedy? Even people keep their children in a "cage"! People keep their children in cages made of books, just like those poor birds and tigers? This is not love, but the murder of children's nature! Love is not equal to possession; Love is to set him free. 2. Things can't be possessed by themselves, and 6 words should be shared.

The world is full of temptations, and people's natural desire for possession is always ready to move. It should be the emperor who expands this desire to the extreme. The imperial power is supreme, and it is not the king's land under the whole world, and it is the king's minister who leads the land; Therefore, the treasures of the world are hidden in one room, focusing on the beautiful scenery of the mountains and rivers in one garden, and all the beautiful gardens in the world are taken into the arms of one person. Fortunately, there is still the sun and the moon overhead to remind us from time to time that power is by no means omnipotent and not everything can be monopolized; Fortunately, there are still repeated warnings of illness and death: even if it is possessed, there is a time limit; You can have it for a while, but not forever.

The appetite of ordinary people is not as big as that of the emperor. However, there are similarities in mentality. "It's hard to fill one's wants" and "A hungry snake devours an elephant" are extremely vivid and lifelike. It can also be seen how greed is distorting people's faces. Incredibly, there are still people who learn from the emperor's bullying and extend the tentacles of desire to the spiritual territory and spiritual boundaries of others, trying to control what others say and do and influence what others think and think. In fact, this has long been proved to be futile.

in reality, some people only care about possession and forget to enjoy it. The vivid statement is: eating a bowl, but staring at the pot; Because I covet the taste of things in the pot and bowl, I forget the delicacies. It turns out that possession is just a means, ridiculous, and finally it has become an end. I have seen such a case: a corrupt official usually eats and wears extremely frugally, giving people a clean impression, but secretly asks for bribes. One day, no one sends money, and I feel uncomfortable; The greatest pleasure every day is to enjoy the stacks of money you have fished alone in the dead of night and personally count the brand-new RMB. When I went to jail, I didn't understand why I had so much money.

there are people who only know possession, but don't know how to enjoy. This is easy to understand, having this is not the same as enjoying it; From possession to enjoyment, there are still some conditions. For example, listening to the piano and watching paintings belong to spiritual enjoyment, and you need to understand art first. You own a famous painting, if this painting is only a collection with appreciation space for you, not an art treasure, and you lack appreciation knowledge; Then, you dare not say that you enjoy this famous painting. You own a piano, if it is only an arty decoration for you, instead of playing an instrument, and you can't play it; Then you can't enjoy the piano.

having really can't be equated with enjoying. For example, sunshine, air and water can be enjoyed, but they can't be owned, let alone monopolized. Even a powerful emperor can possess the wealth of the world; But we can't help others breathe air and enjoy the sunshine. Friendship, affection and love can be enjoyed, but they should not be owned. From body to spirit, as independent individuals, no one can possess each other; Even in the name of love, it is irrational to expect possession, let alone morality.

although ownership and sharing are not the same, they are obviously interrelated. Often, having is the premise of enjoying; For example, material wealth is entitled to enjoy only if it is possessed. And if you not only enjoy what you have, but also share it with others, you can make it play its greatest role; This is a wise move, reflecting the extraordinary mind and realm of the owner. There is a saying: give a rose, leave a lingering fragrance in your hand. Its meaning is to advocate sharing. This concept is being endorsed and held by more and more people; This is the basis for the continuous promotion of charity and an important symbol of social civilization and progress.

nowadays, we are building a harmonious society, and it is inevitable to advocate the idea of sharing. * * * has repeatedly stressed that "the fruits of reform and opening up should be shared with the broad masses of the people", which is undoubtedly for social harmony. At present, there is a phenomenon of hating the rich in society, which is probably related to the fact that a few rich people only know how to possess, love to eat alone and are unwilling to share. Some entrepreneurs with a sense of social responsibility have realized this, are enthusiastic about charity and are willing to help the poor; This will not only help to improve the corporate image, but also help to resolve the contradiction between the rich and the poor and create a harmonious social environment.

At present, the word sharing is used more and more frequently in public. Fortunately, it shows that it has gradually become our knowledge. We should also be alert, there are still a few people who keep saying that they want to share their artistic achievements, experiences and feelings, happiness and happiness with others; Actually, I want to share the money in your pocket Under the guise of sharing, this kind of person tries to achieve possession, which is really a misinterpretation and defilement of sharing.

Dante said, "Possession and loss of existence." It shows a deep understanding of possession and reveals the true meaning of life from one side. Indeed, each of us is a passer-by in this world. "Life doesn't bring it, death doesn't bring it." No one can really have anything. All we can do is to share the spiritual and material wealth of this world with others and share the cool breeze and bright moon of this universe with all things in the world. If everyone understands this truth, what contradictions and conflicts can't be resolved, and why worry about not achieving the goal of social harmony! 3. what is love if you have 8 words that you don't necessarily have? Love is the joy and detachment of flying birds; What is love? Love is to give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance to be calm and moved; What is love? Love is a silent blessing to what you love ... So, love doesn't necessarily mean having it, but you won't feel happy when you have it.

when you look at what you have with a normal mind instead of a possessor's mind, you will feel free and easy and gratified. People should choose such a realm when they are alive.

Everyone who has been to Hangzhou knows the Hangzhou Cultural Relics Museum, and they are deeply attracted and shocked by the rare treasures there. Two-thirds of these treasures, about 35 thousand kinds, were donated by a gentleman named Xu.

Mr. Xu's ancestors had a distinguished family background, and he was a big official of the imperial court from the Ming Dynasty to the Qing Dynasty, so he left these treasures. Mr. Xu's father was persecuted to death during the Cultural Revolution to protect these treasures.

Mr. Xu, on the other hand, did not continue to collect these treasures preserved by generations with painstaking efforts and life, nor did he resell them to others, but gave them all to the country. Seeing the praise of the world for these treasures, Mr. Xu smiled.

if Mr. Xu collects it himself, he may only end up enjoying himself. And he loved these treasures, but he didn't hide them, but gave them to the country for the appreciation of thousands of people in Qian Qian.

He turned his love into the love of thousands of people in Qian Qian. When people are deeply attracted by these treasures, doesn't Mr. Xu feel a kind of happiness inside? Mr. Xu gave these treasures, which made love classic and eternal, and his love was even greater.

there are many such examples. Chinese wealth tycoon Shao Yifu, in China Forbes list, has no name in the top 8. Why? Because all his money is devoted to the society and benefits the people.

of course, an individual's assets will not be many. What he pursues is not the amount of personal assets, but how much money he has given to the people and society.

Shao Yifu's love is like thin rain, which permeates all around us. He has money but doesn't possess it. How many people can do this kind of free and easy and straightforward? Free the beloved birds, but have a free flying sky; I sent precious roses, but they were filled with fragrance; I lost my favorite things, but I had a silent blessing.

The flying birds are wandering and singing, and its true meaning is: Love is not just having. 4. About the essay topic of keeping up with the joneses psychology < P > Some people are striving for what they want while having and enjoying something.

However, they forget to cherish what they have now, and only pursue what they don't have, which eventually makes them exhausted. Because they compare what they have and pursue with others, they fall into inferiority and jealousy.

for example, I have already bought a house, and I see that others' houses are bigger, so I also want to buy a big house; Seeing that others live in villas, they will also buy villas themselves; When you see someone else buying a car, you have to buy a car yourself; I already have a car, but when I see someone else has a famous car, I have to change it for a better one myself.

It's like climbing a mountain. One mountain looks at the other and follows it endlessly. So troubles will emerge one after another with the satisfaction of desires, and the whole life will be caught in the net of troubles.

they have never experienced the happiness and happiness they have: sometimes they complain that their parents don't understand themselves, but they don't know that it is a blessing to be glad that their parents are alive; Sometimes complain that children are naughty, mischievous and disappointing, but they don't know how to be proud of healthy and lively children; Sometimes I complain that my work is not satisfactory and my income is not satisfactory, but I don't want to think that there are many unemployed people who have no jobs.

In order not to be worse than others, people who compare with others make money and work hard for houses, cars, tickets, face, etc., and they are tired. Health, a lot worse, and in this endless comparison, my friend, can you know that your happiness and happiness have quietly passed away? Comparison is not the same as enterprising and competition, just as life is not the same as pursuing fame and profit. In fact, life doesn't need to be too complete. Knowing that everyone's life is lacking, you won't make unnecessary comparisons with others, but you will cherish everything you have-sometimes happiness is not to desperately pursue what you want, but to cherish what you have now.

In fact, it is very simple and easy to achieve happiness. But if you want to be happier than others, it is very difficult to achieve. If you understand that you already have a lot, and accept and treat the missing part well, your life will be much happier.

So we don't have to envy other people's beautiful gardens, because you also have your own paradise. Fate gives us joy and opportunity, but also gives us regret and suffering-we don't need to blame others and shrink from inferiority.

Clouds gather, flowers bloom and fall, cold comes and summer goes, spring comes and winter goes, and you can stay and stay at will. You don't care about things, you don't care about yourself, you keep a normal heart, you face everything in life smartly, you cherish the life you have and enjoy it, you refuse to compare with others, you are content with peace and tranquility, and you can treat life with openness and tolerance, which will reduce a lot of helplessness and troubles and increase happiness and sunshine. And these-enough to make you happier. The best collection is sharing, not possession.

The best collection is sharing, not possession.

The priest promised to give flowers to the children. But at the same time, he advised the children that only in the garden can flowers avoid premature fading, so that they can leave them in the garden for everyone to enjoy. Only in this way can the flowers bloom more beautifully. While advising the children, the pastor also taught us a truth. Only by sharing beautiful things with everyone can it be more dazzling.

Spring flowers and autumn days, setting grass trees, dazzling antiques, and an old man playing the flute. What a harmonious picture this is! People who love flowers and trees don't plant grass trees in their own walls, but let everyone feel the beauty of nature together; Collectors don't collect antiques in safes, but let everyone enjoy them together; Old people don't play the flute in a closed room because their feelings and happiness need to be shared. There are so many beautiful things in the world that we love. But beauty needs sharing, and love is not possession. Only by sharing beauty and love can there be love and beauty forever.

share beauty and love and gain eternity. Van Gogh was moved by the sunflower in full bloom in the sun, and he decided to record this eternal beauty. But he didn't take all the sunflowers for himself, but showed them on the canvas. The famous Sunflower showed extraordinary vitality and was a portrayal of Van Gogh's mind, so he won eternity. Mozart, a talented musician, was impressed by a French folk song and wrote the well-known song Variations on Little Stars. The French people did not ask him for copyright fees. Because they know that beautiful songs are more beautiful because of sharing, and they are all eternal.

if you possess it alone, you can only lose beauty and eternity. There is a woman who has a beautiful big garden. Every time flowers bloom, many young people come to watch it, often trampling on the garden path and leaving garbage. In order to prevent this, the woman wrote outside the door: "There are poisonous snakes and poisonous insects in the garden, and outsiders will be at their own risk if they enter!" Later, no one really came to the garden again. After many years, this beautiful garden really turned into a poisonous snake infested with weeds. The woman also had to regret sigh. Without sharing, beauty is hard to be eternal. The world is wonderful and colorful because of sharing beauty. We also get happiness and our own touch from the process of sharing. Everyone's heart is a garden, and we can't carry all kinds of flowers alone. Only by sharing, not possessing alone, can we see more and more beautiful things. Share your beloved things with everyone, so that everyone can be moved by beauty. This is the rise of life.