Ye Bingcheng: More contact with "professionals" will help you find yourself who is about to enter the national and high schools. Uncle Long Hair has something to say to you.
The elders who love us often give us a lot of advice, even instructions, hoping that we will follow them, with the starting point of "being good for us" and hoping to help us find a great road in life. Thanks for the care of our elders, but we are also responsible for our own lives.
Adults want to teach children to think independently, what makes sense and what doesn't, and expect you to have the ability to think independently and make judgments, instead of just telling others. Some people say that something is good, and they rush to buy it without thinking; Some people say that someone is great and scramble for support without thinking. This is blind obedience and there is no independent thinking ability.
People who lack independent thinking ability are most likely to be cheated and often regret it. I bought the wrong thing and found it rotten later, wasting money; Vote for the wrong candidate, then find out that things are not good, get angry, and waste votes. Waste money and have a chance to earn it back; Those who cast the wrong vote can vote again in the next election; But if you waste the time and years in your life, can you earn it back?
The choices in life are only suitable and unsuitable.
Many problems in life are not right or wrong, only suitable and unsuitable. For example, A Bei earns a lot of money doing a certain job, but he does the same thing every day and lives as hard as WU GANG. Is it right or wrong to decide to do this job? If you care about making a lot of money, this job is the right choice; If you care about a changing and challenging life, this job is the wrong choice. Therefore, the choice of life is right or wrong, and often only those who want to make a decision know it themselves.
Adults love us and hope that we will live a "good life" in the future. What do you think of a "good life" is making a lot of money? Is to help many people. Or do something that interests you very much every day and support yourself at the same time? Only you know the answer.
However, it is also possible that you don't know the answer because you don't have enough life experience. Is it happy or unhappy to make a lot of money? What's wrong with helping many people? Are you happy or unhappy? Are you happier than making a lot of money? How about doing something that interests you every day? Are you happier than helping others or making a lot of money? Even, do you have any talent to do what you are very interested in very well, make a lot of money and let you live a super cool life? This information is very important! If you don't know who you are, how can you decide your life so quickly?
For example, there is a restaurant with hundreds of dishes on its menu. A Bei, who has only eaten scallion cakes, said that scallion cakes are delicious, so you ordered scallion cakes without looking at the menu. There are many dishes that are more delicious than scallion cakes, but you didn't order them. Is it a pity? Is it a pity if you only listen to a certain north and choose that road, while ignoring other jobs that may be more in line with your interests and talents?
When ordering, I will look at the menu and photos and choose the food that best suits my taste. Why do we only listen to three aunts, six grandmothers, four uncles and seven gentlemen when choosing the direction of life? Smart, you will say, "Uncle Long Hair, people have a menu when ordering food, but it seems that there is no menu when choosing the direction of life." ? 」
Create your own "Work Menu"
There is a very powerful magazine "Career". In order to help young people know what their future life choices are, their big brothers and big sisters interviewed 700 or 800 people with different jobs and introduced the ups and downs of different jobs, hoping to make a "career exploration menu" for young people in Taiwan Province Province. There are many wonderful interviews with people on the "Professionals" website to help you understand the possible options in life, and then make you start thinking about what is the best way for you.
Career once interviewed young people on the street. Do you know any jobs in Taiwan Province Province? Most people's answers are "lawyers, doctors, teachers". Career found that most people's understanding of job roles focuses on 50 common jobs, but there are so many job choices in Taiwan Province Province! Everyone is forced to choose between "three divisions" and a few jobs.