The fun of cooking
Cooking is an indispensable part of our life. Many young people like to order take-away, but more and more take-away diets are very unsanitary, so parents who have the conditions still have to cook for themselves. Actually, cooking is also very fun. Let's take a look at the fun of cooking! The fun of cooking 1
I always think that I am a person who is not interested in cooking by nature, because I am really ashamed of the "eighteen martial arts" of cooking, and I am too lazy to "learn from experience while practicing". With the growth of my age, this idea is being eroded day by day in the "playing together" music of pots and pans. Now, I feel fun from cooking ...
At the beginning of my marriage, I knew nothing about pasta processing except frying a few vegetables, such as dumplings, steamed buns and boxes. When we are greedy, going to our parents' home is our first choice. So repeatedly, also don't feel anything. However, from time to time, the husband came to the last sentence: "Before you got married, you said you couldn't cook, but who knows if it is true!"
The next thing made me feel embarrassed about my "nothing". After marriage, my mother-in-law came to my house once in a while. My change in cooking started when my mother-in-law came to my house regularly, because every time she came, she always brought a bundle of leeks. After her mother-in-law came, she kept busy in the kitchen for a while. Mother-in-law knows that her son likes to eat pasta with stuffing, so she took the trouble to cook for her son!
no, do it yourself, and have plenty of food and clothing. I began to "concentrate on studying" the pasta processing that I was not interested in. Funnily enough, I cook entirely by indirect experience from observation. Before making any pasta, I always think about how my mother cooked it. From probation, practice and process to process, it has become a delicious meal in our mouth. Now, the food you want to eat is "Baidu", with pictures and pictures, plus your own practice, you can also make delicious food. Seeing the way her husband and children eat and hearing their praise, I feel a sense of accomplishment. Affirmation and praise are the best bait to make people listen to their orders. Of course, we are determined to correct our shortcomings and develop our strengths in the next manual work. After years of tempering, I have gradually become fond of cooking.
Now, on the rest day, it's fun to put on your favorite music, listen to beautiful tunes, cook a delicious meal, watch your own achievements, and then see the satisfaction in the eyes of your husband and children! The fun of cooking lies in cooking for the people you love and watching them finish! The fun of cooking 2
Most people know that eating out is expensive and unsanitary, not to mention nutrition, but people still choose to eat out. There are many practical reasons, but the most important ones are these:
1. Busy work makes no time to cook.
At present, many people are busy with work or nervous about studying and testing, and they all have the idea that cooking is too late and a waste of time. They often complain from time to time when they buy their own fast food, "This meal tastes terrible" and "I am dizzy, so expensive!" "It's not as delicious as my own cooking!" . Workaholics spend their days making instant noodles and fast food, while student parties are food stalls and roadside stalls. Time! Yes, the word time makes these people have no time to cook, and they may sometimes want to cook by themselves, but this is just thinking. In the face of reality, they can only put "junk food" in their mouths.
2, unwilling to do, dare not do! Worrying about appearance
This reason is mainly aimed at the vast number of female friends, who are naturally fond of beauty, but for most people, they are future housewives. But now it seems that there is an increasing number of girls who can't cook. Instead, their male compatriots picked up a spatula. They are afraid of lampblack, and they always tell themselves to cook less, otherwise they will become "yellow-faced women". This idea is spreading like a virus, which makes the modern younger generation of women more dependent on fast food.
3. I can't do it!
Actually, I have some friends around me. They are not very busy at work and can cook, but they still go to restaurants to eat. Ask why? They all say that they can't cook, or they will only "cook fried rice with eggs". But they want to do it again, which leads to what psychology often calls "cognitive dissonance".
Actually, loving the kitchen and life, cooking is a pleasure and a kind of cultivation.
1. The kitchen is an important multimedia room in family education.
Many psychologists believe that the influence of family education on children is far-reaching and far-reaching. The kitchen is like a multimedia classroom, which hides various cultures. It is the inheritance of family habits, the communication field between husband and wife, parents and children, and the place for sharing and mutual assistance. Experts believe: "If family education in childhood does not make us aware of happiness, sharing and other benefits brought by cooking, it will be difficult for us to regain our enthusiasm for the kitchen alone in adulthood." It can be seen that kitchen education is a special education that affects people's growth. Looking back on your childhood, did you receive a good kitchen education? If you don't want to cook now, think about your childhood experience!
2. Cooking needs the encouragement and support of others.
Do you feel * * * when you see this? In my life, I always hear my friends or colleagues complain about their boyfriends or parents. I went into the kitchen with confidence, and I was busy for several hours. Some of them accidentally cut their hands, and then served their own meals. I really wanted to be praised by my boyfriend and parents, at least not a blow. But they often end in despair. "Well, the action is very positive, but the burning is not good, it is a bit salty." "If you can't cook some rice, how can you get married in the future!" "Honey, I don't want to break it to you, but I really can't eat this dish. Let's go out and eat!" These words are familiar! Although many tasters will not directly talk about you, the appearance of the word "but" will make your confidence plummet, and this emotional burden and frustration will keep many people from setting foot in the kitchen for a long time. So, no matter the person around you cooks for you, no matter whether it is delicious or not, please say something encouraging. Maybe your encouragement will make you eat more delicious food in the future.
3. Mom will always be the kitchen god in my heart
This is the biggest headache for many young female friends. You suddenly have a whim or your boyfriend strongly asks you to cook, and then you agree. So, you prepare the ingredients and want to do something big. There is also a sentence in your mind that "if you want to catch a person's heart, you must first catch that person's stomach", which makes you full of energy. Soon the table is full of food. You look at your man with expectant eyes. He eats your food and then savors it. Were you happy and excited at that moment? But when he speaks, he makes you speechless and angry! "Well, it's good, but it's not as delicious as my mother's. My mother's sweet and sour pork ribs are the best." He said that his face is often filled with unspeakable joy, which is a kind of worship and love for his mother. This will drive you crazy! But what can I say?
This is actually a kind of jealousy. At least at present, you haven't fully won their love in this field, which will make you lose your confidence and interest in cooking.
Cooking is also a kind of cultivation
Don't look at simple cooking, but it stumbles most people in life! They are engineers, white-collar workers, teachers, civil servants and so on. Think about why these people are all elites in society and are stumped by cooking! We often call the skill of cooking "cooking". Cooking is also an art, it can also cultivate your feelings, cultivate your body and mind, and it is also a practice of life!
People who can cook are often people with strong self-care ability, and they often help to take care of others in real life. So this is also a proof of ability. Learning to cook is, in a sense, learning to strengthen one's self-care ability.
cooking for yourself is a kind of self-motivation! If you cook a meal by yourself and then eat it by yourself, whether it is delicious or not, you will have a sense of satisfaction and success. This is a kind of self-motivation, which will affect your work and study and make you more and more confident. Cooking for others is a challenge! In fact, this challenge is mainly to gain the appreciation of others, which is an incentive for others. According to the research of social psychologists, the more one gets inspired by others, the more confident he will be, so as to do better in the field of work or study and get results!
Cooking is cooking, which requires us to learn, but also a challenge, which requires us to try! The kitchen is not forbidden, it is a dream factory of life. We need to learn to communicate with those pots and pans. Once born, twice acquainted, three times and four times become friends. When you pick up the spoon, try to feel the achievements brought by food. The kitchen will become a place to create happiness and love, because it can best reflect life.
I love the kitchen and life. Cooking is a pleasure and a kind of cultivation.