All parting is a lesson in life, which requires our lifelong practice. All parting is a way for us to grow up, because parting is not about who chose to leave, but about how you look at it.
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Parting is to get together better.
Milan Kundera said: "Meeting is just the beginning, and leaving is to meet the next one." And every parting is for the next better reunion. Parting is just a process, and reunion is the result. Parting is not to never meet again, but to get together better.
From the moment of birth, everyone has finished his first parting in life. In order to be with mom, we try to stay away from mom. How can we be happy together without going through the process of parting? Meeting is the hope of life. Only by making every meeting better can life be more meaningful.
From June 5438 to June 2020 10, a sudden epidemic raged all over the country. At present, tens of millions of epidemic prevention personnel across the country bid farewell to their wives, children and parents and went to different battlefields. Many people are afraid of infecting their families, and the only mode of family gathering can only be in mobile video. They don't want to go home, but they all choose not to give in!
Hubei Ma Wei and his wife Yu Hongxia were originally married on the 10th day of the first month in 2020. The attack of the epidemic changed their plans. After a brief communication with his wife and family, he resolutely chose to postpone the wedding to prepare for his relatives and friends. On New Year's Eve, Ma Wei packed his bags, bid farewell to his wife and parents, and drove to Yidu to become a member of the front line of the epidemic.
During the epidemic, there were too many people in danger and too many touching stories. For the happiness of more people, they chose to take responsibility and sacrificed the opportunity to accompany their families. This is their interpretation of the highest realm of parting, and their separation from their small families will maximize the exchange and more people will get together better. This is the greatest meaning of parting!
I stayed in Hubei for more than two months during the epidemic holiday, and my reflection was profound. Since I went out to work, every time I hurried back and left, I always saw mixed expressions on my parents' faces. When I came back, they were very happy. When I leave, they always have a lot of worries on their faces. Every time I leave with a heavy heart.
On March 18, when I left Hubei for Shenzhen, my mother prepared meals for me early in the morning. When I left, I saw tears in my mother's eyes. I forced a smile and told my mother, "I left today to bring myself back better next time." Seeing my mother watching me leave with a smile through tears, I actually knew in my heart that my mother's smile was to see "that better me." Because in the eyes of the mother, everything about the child is her own hope.
Parting means hope and turning around, which is the starting point of ideal and the journey of dreams, because behind every parting and reunion, it means the advanced process of life. Therefore, parting is to get together better, and it is also the beginning to make yourself better.
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? Knowing that parting is the beginning of happiness.
Flowers bloom and fall, and it is inevitable to leave when we meet. In the face of parting, I believe everyone will be a little sad, which is human nature. The beauty of life lies in the subtle cycle of meeting, parting and reunion.
Parting is the prelude to meeting, reunion is the beginning of hope, meeting is the starting point of happiness, and happiness is the end of life. Everyone will experience all kinds of parting on the road of life, and every parting is a turning point in life.
The feelings between people are connected by meeting and turned by parting. Some people feel warm because of a short separation, while others regain the meaning of life because of separation.
I once saw a movie "Beijing meets Seattle". Wen Jiajia, a gold digger, used to be the editor of a gourmet magazine, full of romantic fantasies about love. In reality, Wen Jiajia has a rich boyfriend. Although living a luxurious life, she never imagined that when she was pregnant, her rich boyfriend suddenly disappeared.
Wen Jiajia, who became poor overnight, was taken care of by Frank in Seattle. During the period of living with Frank, Wen Jiajia found the warmth of home. The two people get along with each other day and night, resulting in subtle feelings.
Wen Jiajia's child was born, but her rich boyfriend reappeared and took her back to China to propose marriage. Although life is still as luxurious as in the past, Wen Jiajia often misses Frank who runs several streets for her every morning to buy soy milk and fried dough sticks. Only then did I find out what love I really pursued.
So I said to my husband, "Let's divorce, because you are no longer in my heart."
Choosing to leave does not mean the end, but the beginning of the next meeting. A farewell is to say goodbye to your past. The hardest thing in life is to draw a clear line with the past. No matter whether the past is brilliant or declining, it is not bitter. What matters is the present and the future. A correct understanding of parting is the beginning of happiness in life.
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? Laughter is a kind of growth for parting.
Parting is an emotion.
Parting is a choice.
Parting is an attitude.
Every time I leave, there is a story.
Every parting is a kind of growth.
Every parting gives us a new meaning, letting us know that our time together is very short and we should know how to cherish it.
A few days ago, after Third Sister went back to her hometown and drove her away, Xiao Chou and I came to the seaside. I felt a sense of loss when I walked alone on the path along the mangrove bank. We have been together with Third Sister for three years, and we have never been unhappy, and she is reluctant to leave.
When I watched the pedestrians around me shuttle between us and listened to the sound of the waves from far to near, I stopped to look at the crowd, and I saw the most real picture of life. The people in front of us are just daily life, but the picture at the moment is like a scene on our life road.
There will always be people coming and going on the road of life. In the long river of life, we constantly experience parting and reunion, and the only thing that supports our growth is to face it calmly. Cherish the meeting and leave with a smile. Every encounter is a gift from heaven, every acquaintance is a gift from fate, and all parting is a prelude to gathering. Parting and meeting are a cyclical process. Cherish all the encounters and smile at all the parting, which is the most precious experience on the road of life.
Parting is not a regret, but a gorgeous transformation.
Parting is not to give up, but to get together better.
Parting is no longer just sadness, but the beginning of happiness.
Parting is not to stop thinking, but to grow and practice.
Parting is the tempering of our mentality, the tempering of our life and the cultivation of our life. It taught us to be calm, indifferent to life, treat hardships calmly and treat injuries safely.