this question depends on the physical condition, whether the family can help, the family's economic strength, and the family's common goals.

I didn't quit my job after I got pregnant. I felt unwell for a week in the late pregnancy, and I was also very busy at work. Fortunately, my index was good, so I didn't quit my job. After giving birth to the baby, my mother-in-law helped me with it, and I started working when the baby was five months old.

My friend's morning sickness was so intense during pregnancy that she couldn't work at all and had to resign. Children return to the workplace after one year of age.

A friend resigned from her pregnancy and later gave birth to two treasures. She has been devoted to her baby and family, and she also wants to return to the workplace.

judging from the situation of these three people, if they have to resign, those who are unwell will definitely resign; If there is no one to help take care of the baby after giving birth, and there is no money to hire a nanny, then you can only resign. Besides, if you want to resign, you should consider the following questions.

what will you lose after resigning?

For example, did you refresh your industry experience quickly after leaving the workplace? Will it greatly affect your competitiveness when you return to the workplace? Stay-at-home mothers have no workplace atmosphere and lack of communication, so how can this be compensated?

what will you get after you resign?

You have plenty of time to interact with your baby. You can do well from complementary feeding to accompanying picture books. Your relationship will be very close. You can take your baby on a trip.

how to keep learning ability after resigning? How to become a woman you don't even like without getting caught up in daily necessities?

You can find a role model. You like the way she takes care of the baby, so you can analyze or ask her if she has any good methods, such as reading, time management, online learning, writing ...

You can share your parenting methods with more people and combine your parenting experience.

In short, if you are an ordinary person like me, and if someone can help you take care of your children, I suggest that you don't leave your job. This job can be in the workplace, your own career, full-time or part-time.

I've seen many treasure moms lead wonderful lives. One treasure mom likes to draw pictures to record stories about herself and her baby, write them in articles to share with everyone, and earn a contribution. Some treasure moms read picture books and recite Tang poems with their baby at home, and the audio was put on the Internet, which was listened by many people. Later, a big mother-baby platform contacted and cooperated. Some treasure moms are especially good at playing games with their babies and sending their game maps to friends' circle. Everyone suggested that she take a class, and she also took several classes to earn a little money ... < P > So it can be wonderful at home, but it may not make a lot of money, but it will be very happy.

But some people, like me, have natural workplace attributes, so it's hard not to be in the workplace. Such friends can go to work and spend their spare time with their baby, and you can also have a balance between work and family. As long as your goals are not too high, don't think too compulsively, and don't think that everything is perfect, you can live happily.

Different people have different opinions. I am willing to be a stay-at-home mother for three years for my children. Although I will give up my original job, I will be out of touch with the society, but I have witnessed the growth of my children. Moreover, I believe that if a woman pursues self-worth, she will not be self-indulgent after becoming a stay-at-home mother, but will study hard how to raise children and even pursue her own ideals. Children are not an excuse for mothers to stop making progress, and children are not the shackles for mothers to pursue self-worth.

You can quit your job and be a stay-at-home mom, but please don't become a housewife!

When my good friend H resigned as a stay-at-home mother, I was puzzled. The child was already in kindergarten at the age of three, and she didn't plan to have a second child, so she still worked in maternal and child-related work. Why did she quit without a word with the leader? Although the salary is not high, but the work is not tired! But my friend said that I supported her decision in order to devote myself to raising the baby.

I haven't seen you for a year ...

In the first month, she announced that she finally had time to practice yoga and learn musical instruments! I'm very happy for her. The next month, she opened her own WeChat official account, and shared many years of maternal and child-rearing experience with her parenting experience. I envy her freedom.

But this month, one year later ...

She brushed her circle of friends and claimed that she only bought the extended edition of menstruation towel for night this year. Because I'm dead in bed every day, I don't need a daily allowance!

She doesn't pay attention to her image and maintenance, and she stays up late every day to catch a play. I sent a selfie, wearing an outdated grandma gray coat, a chicken's nest head, plain face+rough skin+enhanced version of dark circles and wrinkles under the eyes, and wrote that I was finally out of the door, and I was called aunt by college students in my twenties at the bus stop!

She is so grumpy that she feels tired after playing with her children in the children's playground for less than an hour. She urges call to beat her husband to take over to look after her children as soon as he gets off work.

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She used to be a highly effective professional elite! Repair my manuscript for the first time! Clear paragraphs and smooth typesetting.

She cares about her image, and even asks me so. She sent me a bottle of leg shaping lotion three months after delivery!

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I especially want to say to her: H I support you to quit your job and become a full-time mother, but I don't want to see you degenerate into a housewife! Stay-at-home mom and housewife are not equal concepts! You will devote your professional knowledge and life experience to your daughter, accompany her to grow up and nurture her. I look forward to it! But instead of devoting yourself to education, you completely lost your self-worth! Regardless of the image, I really feel sorry for you.

There are three friends around me. After graduating from graduate school, they resigned and went home to take care of the baby. They signed up for various positive discipline courses and read picture books with their children every day. After the children entered the park, they learned guqin, tea art, floral art, calligraphy, baking and other related courses to improve their self-cultivation. They are graceful, relaxed, confident and modest.

Is it really better for your family to quit your job and be a full-time mother? Is it more beneficial to children's education? Provide more time for self-cultivation and improvement?

With the emergence of more and more middle-class groups, many wealthy families don't need both of them to go out to work and earn two salaries to support their families. Therefore, more and more mothers, especially those from economically developed areas who have received higher education, will choose to take care of their children at home. Women become free when choosing whether to be full-time mothers, which is a kind of social progress to some extent.

We encourage every woman to make her own choice bravely, not because of moral kidnapping. Don't give up on yourself and feel sorry for yourself or complain about others with a bad temper.

Of course, giving women more choices depends not only on their husbands' economy and psychology. It also needs the government to provide more policy inclination and social assistance to help working mothers; Social institutions provide more effective domestic and welfare protection; Women also need positive and optimistic efforts to balance the development of family and career. As a working mother, you can manage your time and clear your mind, and insist on parenting at night and weekend.

PS: Don't believe that the best love for children is unconditional companionship. The first three years of children decide the next 3 years, and mothers can't miss the first three years of their children's lives ... No research results can prove that children educated by full-time mothers are better than those of working mothers after entering school, and even many studies have confirmed that children of working mothers are more competitive in the workplace.

Children are the continuation of our life and our hope. It is certainly worthwhile to choose to be a stay-at-home mother for children to get better care.

don't think that if you become a full-time mother, you will have nothing. This idea is wrong. Being a full-time mother is also a profession. While taking care of the children, we should also strengthen our own study and self-cultivation, improve ourselves in an all-round way and grow up with the children. Many stay-at-home mothers become media people or Wechat business after their children go to kindergarten, and they are also very successful. I have my own career and friends, and my children are well educated. This achieved a * * * win.

If you choose to be a stay-at-home mom, you must be fully prepared, not to say it's for the children, but also to make yourself a better you.

In fact, it's nothing worthwhile. Being a full-time mother, you can still study with your children and grow up together. In addition, stay-at-home mothers have a lot of time and energy to accompany their children wholeheartedly. Some people say that raising an excellent child is better than your other career, and it won't make your future bleak. Therefore, if we are full-time mothers, we need to take raising children as a great cause, devote ourselves wholeheartedly and experience it. As long as we work hard, we can still run a colorful business and get the same proud style as working mothers.

I didn't quit my job to take care of my children at home, because I have time to take care of my children when I work in a public institution, holidays and weekends. Usually, my mother-in-law helps to take care of the area, and my husband also works in a public institution, which can also help.

if you can't spend time with your children often, it's better for parents to take care of them. This is very important for the cultivation of children's character. Some children are withdrawn because their parents left them with grandparents or nannies when they were young, and they did not establish a good sense of security.

So, it's up to you to decide whether to resign or not. For the sake of children, maybe it is wise to resign.

I have resigned since I was pregnant. First, I was dissatisfied with the job I just found. Second, I had a serious pregnancy reaction after pregnancy, and I am still working full-time.

Well, it depends on your own situation. Of course, you don't have to quit your job with the help of the elderly. If the family economy can, you can also quit your job and take care of your children at home. After all, it is very important for your parents to accompany you before your child is 3 years old. Besides, some good habits of children are developed in childhood.

This is decided according to one's own situation. A woman is herself first and then the role of a mother. Therefore, it is not said that if a child is born, she must take care of the child at home to be a full-time mother. If your situation permits and you are willing, it is good to accompany your children full-time. If one condition is not met, there is no need to resign. High-quality companionship is very important during the baby-sitting period. Don't worry, the choice is appropriate.

this question, objectively speaking, depends on your own specific situation.

I was also promoted from a working mother to a full-time mother, and the entanglements and considerations were also very tormenting.

The following questions should be weighed and considered:

1. Are you really fully prepared for being a stay-at-home mom?

This is the most important thing. After all, this is your choice, and you have to adjust your mentality before you can get comfortable in the future.

Stay-at-home mom is a "versatile career", and she has to learn a lot of professional knowledge: parenting, food, family arrangement, time planning, psychology, as well as Bao Ma's own time management and emotional management ...

Being a parent is an instant thing, but being a good parent is a lifelong thing.

We all need a qualification certificate, an internship period, a good job and a learning heart at all times.

Similarly, as a stay-at-home mother, it is recommended to preview the textbooks first, so as not to be in a hurry during the formal class.

2. Family financial strength

Children are "money shredders". Therefore, while doing our ideological work well, we must also consider this realistic problem.

This is a problem that needs money to solve in all aspects. Children need to spend money from the entrance to the exit.

3. Family's understanding and support

As the saying goes, "stay-at-home mom" is a "high-risk industry", doing the most important and hard work, but it is often not understood because of her upward palms. If Bao Dad doesn't understand, he will drive Bao Ma into the abyss, and his heart will be cold.

Therefore, it is necessary to communicate well with my husband before starting, and get Bao's full support. At the same time, we should also define the division of labor, and Bao Dad should also participate in the process of raising the baby.

4. Be self-empowered and self-healing.

Stay-at-home mothers need to be ready to be on call 24 hours a day, be on duty at any time, and be ready to collapse at any time. Therefore, self-repair and self-empowerment are also very important, otherwise, after a long time, you will be depressed, anxious and even collapse.

The state of full blood resurrection faces all kinds of unexpected states of Xiong Haizi.

children grow up only once, and so does their own life. Therefore, find a balance between the two, so that you can enjoy the highlight moment of accompanying your child to grow up, and you can also be the winner of your life, and cherish it.

hey, it's a stay-at-home mom problem again.

To be a stay-at-home mom, we should first consider the economic issues before considering whether it is worth it. After all, if we lack our own controllable economic resources, will it bring too much economic pressure to our family? Secondly, there must be some disadvantages in interpersonal communication. If parents think that these two problems can be controlled, and in the process of accompanying their children, they will bring pleasure to themselves and benefit their children's physical and mental health, then it is obviously worthwhile to be a full-time mother.

In the process of being a stay-at-home mom, we should always clarify our own purpose and analyze the pros and cons. Because being a stay-at-home mom feels that we must make our children more excellent and surpass others in everything, or we should keep a simple heart and let our spouses and children feel the warmth of home.