There are many people who can skip meals at night, but they can't help looking at their circle of friends. This is a normal phenomenon in the era of mobile phones.

The circle of friends is a small society, in which the world is cold, there are joys and sorrows, and there is indispensable chicken soup for the soul, and more is Wechat business's propaganda and seduction.

Many people can understand and perceive many social situations through the circle of friends, including personal daily life and so on, which has become an important part of our lives.

Friends circle is a kind of ecology, which has its useful aspects, but also brings some troubles and disadvantages to our lives. Therefore, many people suggest that friends circle be less, mainly for the following reasons.

? First, it is easy to reveal privacy and be used by people with ulterior motives. There are many people who record their mental journey in the circle of friends and record all aspects of their work and life. Many things that seem to be private are exposed to their friends in broad daylight. It is a normal thing to follow the truth, but sometimes something related to work and life will be used by people with ulterior motives, which will cause some trouble. There is a colleague in the company, and his wife found that he often praised a female colleague, but he didn't know that her wife and her colleague were also good friends. The wife felt that there was something wrong, and she found out their abnormal relationship, and a beautiful thing turned into a tragedy.

especially if there are leaders and colleagues in the circle of friends, it is often found that the circle of friends of leaders will be praised by many people, and through the praise of the circle of friends, we can see the distance between them, which will also bring adverse effects. There are also some narrow-minded people who will identify the relationship between people who like them, and will cause contradictions among colleagues and bring some trouble to their work.

? Second, inappropriate content will cause harm to some people. It is often seen that some people have set their circle of friends, some are visible for three days, some are visible for one month, and some are invisible. There are many reasons for this, including leading colleagues to have various complicated relationships, and parents and children are all in the circle of friends. In order to avoid embarrassing and unnecessary troubles caused by the content of the circle of friends, they set it. This is a normal thing, but the people who are set will have all kinds of ideas. If they are entangled in this matter, it will naturally affect the normal relationship between two people and save unnecessary trouble. So some people simply don't send a circle of friends. One of my friends, Xiao Ru, and I have the same friends. One day, I accidentally let her look at her mobile phone and said where Lao Wang went to play today. As a result, he said that I couldn't see it. It turned out that he set Xiaoru not to let him see the circle of friends, and the original fragile relationship was even worse.

Some people like to show off in their circle of friends. What delicious food did they eat today? Where did you play again? What gifts did you receive for the holidays? Wait, it used to be your own world, but once it was exposed in the circle of friends, it would cause some people's resentment and jealousy. This feeling of lying down and getting shot is very bad, and the happy thing finally became a tool to make enemies. That was not the original intention of their circle of friends.

? Third, it is easy to form narcissistic personality. There are many people, especially female friends, who always look in the mirror, take photos and retouch pictures, make friends, and then enjoy themselves. Such people may fall into narcissistic personality. Narcissistic personality will have a serious negative impact on a person's self-growth and development. It is a personality problem, and they just don't know it. According to a data, narcissistic personality has three bad consequences: 1. It is difficult to be truly happy by advocating vanity and coveting material things; 2. Self-cognition is disordered and overestimates oneself, which is not in line with reality; 3, damage to interpersonal relationships, always self-centered, and the interpersonal relationships built are more fragile. If it really brings such consequences, it is really not worth the loss.

I have such a friend around me. Because of plastic surgery, I send a circle of friends every day to show my daily state, especially my face that has been plastic surgery. When other friends talked together, they all thought her chin was ugly, but this friend who sent a circle of friends didn't know it. It is a sad thing that it was originally for the pursuit of beauty, but in the end it became a clown in the eyes of friends.

The circle of friends is an important place in your life. You should make good use of it and use it correctly, or you might as well shut it down if it has unpredictable consequences.

please be kind to the people around you and your circle of friends.