Usually I usually communicate with my mother by phone, but tonight I specially turned on video. I turned on the video and saw my mother sitting in the yard, shaking a cattail leaf fan and talking to me.

"Daughter, have you eaten? Why have you gained weight again? You see your face is chubby, just like your father." What? Growing up, every time I went to my grandma's house, I was told that I was a copy of my mother. When did I become like my father?

"No, Mom. Didn't you say I look like you before?" After hearing what Mom said, I quickly looked at myself in the mirror. Well, it was a bit round. But, isn’t that fat? Tonight, I ate a pound of Huang Shang Huang's boneless duck feet, half a pound of cold vegetables, a few glasses of water and an apple, but it won't be effective so quickly, right?

"Mom, is there something wrong with your mobile phone? No one says I'm fat lately, just you." I've eaten a bit too much lately, but I won't be that fat.

"Don't you know it when you look in the mirror? I'm telling you, be careful if you are as fat as your dad." You are starting to find trouble, right? To dislike me for being fat is to dislike my dad for being fat. So the quarrel between mother and daughter began, and of course I won again without any suspense.

Growing up, my mother always disliked me for being fat. She didn’t even think about the fact that I was fat. It wasn’t because of the genes I inherited. In the end, it wasn’t her own fault. When I was in elementary school, my clothes basically belonged to my aunt or brother, and I just made do with it during those few years. It doesn't work anymore in junior high school, because at this stage of development, I am really very fat. My mother gets angry every time she buys me clothes, especially pants, which she never buys in one go. At that time, bell-bottom pants became popular, and my mother bought a pair for me. The style was very beautiful. But because my legs are too thick, I can’t wear them. My mother gave me another pair, but the pants were too small again. At this time, my mother started to get angry, "Among the three children, your clothes are the most difficult to buy. I will change them again. If they don't fit again, I will never buy clothes for you again. I don't want to wear them." Inexplicably, Am I wrong for being fat? The same food in school can make me fat, what can I do? Indeed, I inherited my tendency to gain weight from my mother, even worse.

Growing up, the clothes my mother bought me were all fat lady clothes, because she thought I might gain weight, so she always prepared for a rainy day. This is definitely her biological mother, otherwise she would not know her daughter so well. Regarding being fat, I have always been disliked and nagged by my own mother. I used to have a big appetite and could eat three bowls of rice in one meal, but I also did a lot of work. Even if there are no dishes, I can still enjoy the soy sauce or sugar bibimbap. At that time, my appetite was really good, and it was very easy to satisfy and I was not picky about food. Among the three children, I am the easiest to raise. To this day, my mother often tells me how difficult it is to take care of children with older brothers. When I was a child, I didn’t need adults to worry about eating at all. My mother said that if adults didn’t pay attention, I would eat until I didn’t even know I was full. Maybe it was a problem I had when I was a kid, but now I always overeat when I eat. Even though I know this habit is bad, I still can't resist the temptation of delicious food.

My mother would always tease me when she knew about it: "Fortunately, you can make money on your own. With your way of eating, everyone will be crushed by you." Look, this is my mother, who speaks out.

After I graduated and started working, I lost a lot of weight than before, but the flesh on my face still showed fatness. Looking at my face, I did look a little fatter. When I was a child, I was always told that I looked like my mother. In the past two years, my mother has always said that I look like my father. Because my father’s face is also very voluptuous, my mother’s face has become sharper as she gets older. No matter who I look like, I am still their daughter.

In fact, after these few months of exercise, the weight has dropped significantly. But there is still no change on the face. Because the frame is large, the effect on the body shape is not very obvious, but weighing the numbers above will tell me the result. Regarding fatness and thinness, I rather appreciate my father’s attitude. It doesn't matter whether you are fat or thin, as long as you are healthy.

If you can eat well and sleep soundly, you can live a worry-free life. Although my mother teases me about my weight from time to time, I know she doesn't mean it. Because in her memory, I have always been the chubby daughter who made her worry about buying clothes.

My mother dislikes me for being fat because I have always been in her heart. May the years go slower and keep this memory in her heart.