When I start to lose someone, I will lock myself up and cry my heart out, and empty my ex-boyfriend's contact information. For the time being, I won't tell this news to my friends and family. I will heal alone.
First of all, I will choose to take time to relax and plan a trip. I won't take the road I walked with, I will choose the place I yearn for or go far away, enjoy the beautiful scenery, relax myself, take more photos and transfer my heart to other places. On the way, I will eat local food, find my heart to lose weight, treat myself well and play extreme sports such as roller coaster bungee jumping. Let yourself forget those heartbreaking past. At the same time, I will also talk to strangers about myself and learn from their experiences, or chat with strangers and tell jokes.
Secondly, when I come back from my trip, I will tell my family and friends that they broke up. They will constantly comfort me, I will grow snacks, listen to their valuable opinions, and cultivate the strength and perseverance I need in the process of growing up. I will choose to go shopping with my friends, sing songs, go shopping crazily, experience things I didn't dare to do before, and fully vent my emotions.
Finally, when I tidy up my mood, I will choose to ask my ex-boyfriend out. I will wait until he comes to his senses before talking about the reasons for breaking up and whether I can go back to the past and start over. Let nature take its course, if I can start over, I am willing to work harder; If it is predestined, then I am willing to accept it. Life has ups and downs, so we should learn to accept it and let it go.
After everything is over, I will express my story in the form of a diary, always reminding myself how to grasp the sincerity in a relationship, how to pay, and how to deal with the sad result for a person. And don't make the same mistake in the next relationship.