Be a man's right-hand man and consultant.
A good wife should be not only virtuous, but also virtuous and wise. These two points are the most precious things for women behind men. Just because you love him doesn't mean that you obey him unprincipled. In this way, men will think you are an thoughtless wife, but not a woman. A woman who really takes a man seriously must have a calculation, that is, you should always remind him not to trip in the spring breeze. Encourage him when his career is smooth, urge and stop him when he encounters difficulties in his career, so that he can keep a clear head and not be defeated. In this way, a man will benefit from your advice. He will think that you are a thoughtful and intelligent woman and respect you. Such a woman is a woman with a wrist.
The most powerful energy for a man is love.
It is said that behind a successful man, there must be a good woman who supports him. It's true. But this good woman is not one of those full-time nannies who walk around the kitchen table all day. Career-oriented men face unpredictable situations in their work every day, and their psychological pressure comes from invisible contests without fixed patterns. But men are generally weak in feelings, because they are not good at sharing inner pressure with women in words. Therefore, if you want to make your men better, the strongest energy input for them is to give them true love. Let the pressure and tension they bear in hard work be relieved from their own hearts. Never let them feel that their careers are tight. Marriage is like a grave.
Be the most loyal fan of men's career and life.
Men's perseverance will also be greatly discounted in the face of setbacks and blows. When they are struggling in their careers, external forces are only superficial and only play a persuasive role, but have no substantive role. And the support, understanding, help, trust and follow-up from his wife are unmatched by any external factors. This power cannot be expressed by actions alone, but by the combination of behavior, language and thought. A thoughtful woman knows how to become a man's most loyal fan with three magic weapons: care in life, encouragement in language and unity in thought. In this way, your man will regard you as a spiritual pillar, love you and be inseparable from you.
Don't be a bitch in front of men
Women with broken mouths have lower IQs. I always want to change and control men with women's ordinary citizen thoughts. I hope men will be at her mercy in their own designs. The biggest failure of such a woman is that she doesn't understand the man's mentality, and she doesn't know the two kinds of women that men don't appreciate the most in marriage. One is a broken mouth woman who nags all day, and the other is a unkempt yellow-faced woman. A nagging woman will interfere with men's correct way of thinking and accurate way of doing things at work, while a woman who is too talkative will make those rational career-oriented men bored, even excluded or far away. Endless nagging is a taboo in marriage, and those women who have the heart wisely stop.
Persuade people with reason, not make enemies with others.
A big man, so strong, proud and self-respecting. No matter how powerful a woman is, in the eyes of a man, she is also his wife and his woman. Men don't accept real strong women psychologically. Women who are competitive tend to be self-centered, regardless of men's face. When they encounter different and controversial things in their marriage, they will argue endlessly with men, and they are proud that they can take the lead. On the other hand, men are not good at arguing endlessly. Some things are not that they can't stand reason, but that they would rather endure than hide. A truly thoughtful woman knows how to convince people by reasoning, not against men, and speak with facts, leaving men speechless, which not only gives men face, but also convinces them.