With the era of rampant Internet, our lives have undergone earth-shaking changes. It is undeniable that the development of the Internet network economy has brought irreplaceable ease and convenience to our lives. However, while lamenting its rapid development, has it also quietly brought many negative impacts to our lives? ? Quietly making you addicted?
?With the overwhelming Internet news coming to you, this virtual world seems to be setting a trap for us in the real world. Smart people will choose to absorb the nutrients they need from the Internet, eagerly looking for resources, reading, writing books, pushing good news to the public, broadcasting, learning English, travel strategies, financial management, fitness, food, and software development. Treating the Internet as a platform to explore the mysteries of the universe can give everyone the learning resources they want. But there are also people who are trapped and indulge in such a virtual world to paralyze themselves and get out of control. For example: students who are addicted to online games; people who are addicted to gossip about celebrities; female college students who are addicted to the world of Internet celebrities; and they lose themselves and become fans.
?Students who are addicted to online games. Living in school with the living expenses provided by their parents' hard work and then going out to bars every day, skipping classes, not eating or sleeping, just knowing Demacia all day long, especially those students who are in the rebellious period of youth are deeply trapped. They are stuck in the quagmire without knowing it. They feel that reading is meaningless and life is meaningless. It seems that only games are the fun of life. Therefore, every year students drop out of school because of playing games.
Those melon-eating people who indulge in celebrity gossip. Every day, someone’s fan is fighting with someone’s fan; damn keyboard warriors are everywhere; our idol is dressed so handsome today; our idol has a new haircut; and then someone in the entertainment industry is getting divorced ; Who cheated on someone; who was having an affair with whom; so-and-so had plastic surgery and had his teeth fixed; so-and-so became popular; so-and-so was going to have a concert somewhere, and I had to go see it no matter what; and It's just that so-and-so is not suitable at all with so-and-so; which male star is not worthy of which female star, etc. It makes people's brains hurt. Please, what does all this have to do with you? Does it have anything to do with you? Some people say of course it does, I will protect my idol. I would like to ask if your guardianship means that you start paying attention to all the trivial matters of your idol every day at dawn? Do you start gossiping about your idol's various hobbies? Then your guardianship is too boring and unnecessary. You have to be moderate when chasing stars. What you should learn is how hard your idol works to defend his dreams. How much hard work he has put in to get back to the glamorous appearance he has today. What’s more precious is that he not only has good looks but also The connotation is that you can emulate their beautiful qualities, learn from their spirit of daring to endure hardship, train yourself to become a better person, or optimize yourself step by step, and one day you will be one step closer to your idol. I think this is Protect it meaningfully.
I don’t know when the Internet celebrity trend emerged. Many people are obsessed with live streaming. They may be bloggers who open clothing stores, or they may be beauty bloggers who open beauty stores. Yes, they are all working very hard to run their own businesses and use the online live broadcast platform to explain their experiences. What we can learn from this type of anchors is their perseverance to move forward and their courage to pioneer without fear of hardship or failure. There are indeed many experiences that we can learn from, so maybe they have attached a relatively high-level label in our eyes, or we see our own shadow in them, or some of them are also what we want. The kind of person you become. So we followed them to learn their makeup skills, outfit guides, and shop with them. But have you forgotten to stop and take a good look at yourself during this process? Are some things really suitable for you? Those models are all so beautiful and thin, and the clothes look so good on them. Beautiful, but is your figure also so perfect? ??Can you hold up a whole scene like hers? The answer is of course that some of us can do it, and of course some of us can’t. We all know that not everyone is perfect in reality.
When we take photos of Taobao models on the Internet in China, we have to choose those who are tall, slim and good-looking, choose a good location, scenery or lighting, and the photographer takes the photos very carefully, plus various post-production retouchings. These pictures will be uploaded after a series of perfect PS modifications. There are very few ordinary and natural pictures, let alone those of short, fat people, who are very ordinary and not so good-looking, because No one will buy it at all. I don’t know what kind of psychology this is, it’s public psychology, but sometimes the clothes you buy don’t suit you at all. You are easily confused by the beautiful pictures and ignore your true self. This is why there are so many buyer shows and sellers. The show is completely different. There is nothing wrong with the clothes themselves. The fault is that your heart has blinded your eyes. Expensive clothes do not necessarily look good on you. Another thing is when you see what kind of skin care products and cosmetics a certain Internet celebrity uses in a live broadcast, what kind of clothes she wears and what kind of beautiful jewelry she wears, and you start asking for links, and you place an order without thinking about it, and then you imagine that you will be like them after using it. She looks radiant, but you forget that everyone’s skin is different. Your skin type is also different from theirs. What you use on her face may not be suitable for you. This is why there is no problem with skin care products themselves. It's very good. Some people got acne after using it. Or if you follow her step-by-step makeup routine, you can't achieve her effect at all, or even worse than your usual makeup. Her makeup is obviously perfect, but your face is full of powder, which is unnatural, because you ignore her. Maybe you have oily skin and you have dry skin. Seeing her traveling around the world, taking a lot of beautiful photos, and eating a lot of delicious food, made you feel itchy, but you ignored that she was there to take samples and go on a business trip for work.
?In this era of beauty control, you always want to find a better-looking cup when drinking water. Who doesn’t want to pursue a more beautiful and better self? There is nothing wrong with this. What is wrong is in the process of pursuit. Before you know it, you have lost yourself... Buying all the time without fully grasping what you need and what is suitable for you. Even without considering your financial ability, you max out your credit card to buy all kinds of brand-name bags, jewelry and cosmetics, and invite friends to high-end restaurants for dinner and singing. Don't frown, go wherever you go, enjoy all kinds of food and scenery naturally, and please yourself to your heart's content. Some people say that when we are young, we should buy whatever we want. Why do we still buy the things we wanted when we are old? The clothes from last year are not worthy of you this year. But you also forgot to ask yourself, is your talent worthy of your ambition? You also forgot to ask yourself, are your parents no longer working hard and can enjoy happiness at home? Can you achieve what you want without asking your parents? If you can, then no problem you are great. If not, then why are you so pretentious and vain? Isn't it good to be down-to-earth? It's like a mother who is forced to sell her kidney in order to buy an Apple 4-piece set for her daughter. , a father worked overtime and moved bricks and bricks for a month just to get enough money to buy an Apple mobile phone for his daughter. When he was hungry, he was reluctant to buy food and could only buy a steamed bun and sit on the roadside and swallow it with his sweat. And you squander the money that he worked so hard to earn. I can't believe that someone can really do such a thing, but it really happens around us.
?We can play games, chase stars, and be obsessed with internet celebrities, but don’t live in the world of internet celebrities and celebrities and lose your truest self.