Although choosing a spouse is a person's own preference, it is also greatly influenced by the mainstream values of society. Whether you can cook or not has nothing to do with "love", but a parameter when you choose and compare.
In all occupations, it is also very casual to pick out chefs for discussion, which is not targeted in my opinion. Just modify the style of this question to answer this question: a black fat man sweated for you with bare arms and cooked a delicious Sichuan pork, and a handsome man cooked an ugly fried rice with eggs for you. I believe you have made a choice, so it is not the man who can cook that is the most handsome, but the handsome guy who can cook is more handsome.
I like cooking for myself or my family and friends. I like cooking. Cooking is a job. Cooking is also an art, which is created in smoke. Even a well-proportioned and god-like chef will have a shiny face, stains on his work clothes and the smell of onions and garlic all over his body when cooking a beautiful Manchu-Han banquet, which cannot guarantee a charming image.
A boy who can cook and is attractive should be like this. He has a good appearance, exquisite craftsmanship, a clean and tidy kitchen and dining room environment like obsessive-compulsive disorder, a neat shirt suitable for boys, a fashionable figure that can hold up clothes, enough dining etiquette, and most importantly, a willingness to wash dishes ... So many requirements may add up to what everyone imagined. Such a male god is in the American drama Hannibal.
If we only judge people by their appearance, but don't pay attention to character and integrity, no matter whether the spouse is a chef or other occupation, such a marriage is doomed to be a tragedy.