I once boasted about Haikou and responded to the call of the president to write about the members around me. Everyone says that the No. 1 scholar loves beautiful women, and "every village has a mother-in-law." It would be abnormal if the first article did not write about beautiful women.
The reason why I write about Xixi at the beginning is mainly because Xixi has rarely scolded me in the Yinshe WeChat group recently, and the target of the blame seems to have been successfully turned against Brother Yu. Time and time again I watched Xixi snarling in a serious manner: "Some people who claim to be old monks are shameless", "Brother Yu, I have never seen such a stingy person!", "Brother Yu, can't you be more generous?"...I It was just a relief, as if the scoldings Xixi received before were all caused by Brother Yu, although Xixi said that every time after she scolded me, Brother Yu would tell her, "Actually, the number one pick is a very good person." In order to curry favor with the beautiful girl Xixi, he actually made the number one scholar do the thing of "repaying kindness with hatred"! But the beauty who can make the number one scholar "focus on sex over friends" must also be a woman that the number one scholar can appreciate.
To this day, I still can’t clearly remember how I met Xixi. The time when I entered the Xixi Research Institute was when my job changed from idle to busy, and I rarely had time to visit the research institute. Before I met Xixi, I had heard the middle-aged and elderly men in the Indian community and literary community often mention her excitedly, as if a shot in the arm had been given to these aging men. , they suddenly came alive.
About last winter, on an occasional free night, I came to the research association that was relocated opposite the north gate of Huatian Market for the first time. Only the lazy people, old acquaintances, were there, and the lazy people were busy. Teach a beautiful woman next to you how to write calligraphy. When he saw me, he only raised his head and said, "Here comes the number one scholar" and then just focused on teaching. The beautiful woman next to him didn't even raise her head. She talked about "master" and "master", and pestered the lazy man to teach her how to write, as if she wanted to learn the lazy man's skills in one day. The sharp intuition of the number one scholar told me that this woman with a beautiful face who speaks standard Mandarin is probably the beauty they call Xixi! No one else came to the seminar yet, so I had to sit in a quiet corner, play with my phone, and look at them coldly. Later, some familiar friends came and briefly exchanged greetings with everyone. They didn't even say hello to them, master and disciple, and went home.
For a long time after that, Xixi and I met sporadically in the seminar several times. Because I am not as young as Lazy Man, I am not as handsome as Lazy Man, and I am not as handsome as Lazy Man. He is proficient in poetry, calligraphy, painting, gold, stone, and seal carving. He is so talented that when Xixi saw me, it was like seeing the air. As Xixi said later, "Even if a middle-aged and greasy man is picked out in a sea of ??people, hung and beaten, no one will take a second look."
However, at this time, I really have no impression of Xixi, and some just don’t have a good impression of her. Because, at this time, Xixi, in addition to showing the studiousness, humility, meekness and tenderness of a kindergarten kid in front of lazy people, in my impression of many observations, she is aloof, cool, artificial and arrogant. She didn't bother to talk to me, and I didn't bother to get close to her. Even if I occasionally add a few words in the Indian community or literary community, she will either give me a straight face, or I will deliberately add to the confusion. As long as we met in the group, she would either sacrifice her noble image to squeeze me out in every possible way, or she would quit the group in anger because she couldn't bear to be bothered by me. And I always take pleasure in annoying Xixi or even forcing her to retreat. For this reason, Brother Yu and Xiao Nanhu said in front of me more than once that this was not like the way a top scholar would treat beautiful women. Lao Ah even once questioned whether I had changed my routine. How could they know that at this time, I really didn't like this woman who was beautiful, yet seemed to be as noble and arrogant as otherworldly things, and also had a harsh tongue. (Writing this, I paused for several days, always hesitating whether to continue writing. Even if the following article praises Xixi, I guess I have already formed a relationship with Xixi! - Author's postscript)
It was a few months later that I started talking to Xixi, probably around the twelfth lunar month of last year. The Gaochun Local Culture Research Association was planning to organize several public welfare activities to send Spring Festival couplets to the countryside. Fortunately, I was approved by the president to participate. The number of times I went to the research association increased, and the number of times I saw Xixi naturally increased. Although there is no verbal communication with Xixi, they can't compete with the many times they meet, and they are still familiar with each other. One day I saw her practicing writing the word "福" on red paper out of boredom because her master was too lazy to come. I thought she must have written well since she got the true biography of a lazy person. Unexpectedly, when I took a closer look, I immediately felt sorry for the red couplets on the paper. So, I stood next to her, spread out a piece of red paper, and wrote "福" on it. I wrote several different "福" in one go. Finally, I attracted her noble gaze towards me. , "Teach me how to write the word "福". After my guidance, her writing of the word "Fu" did improve a lot, and Xixi was able to occasionally chat with me from now on!
I really started to get in touch with Xixi when I participated in a group of aging men gathering in the name of Indian social seal cutting skills and spending all day eating and drinking in Erguotou, Niulanshan. This woman was impressed at first.
Originally, the number one scholar had been tired of looking at the aging men and was too lazy to participate in their activities. Suddenly, he often saw them in the Yinshe WeChat group posting photos of eating and drinking at the seminar every day or video. Many of the dishes are exquisitely prepared. From time to time, there are also some exquisitely designed snacks or high-end white wine, red wine, etc., and I wonder: When did these aging men improve their eating and drinking standards? It doesn’t look like takeout from a restaurant, it must be cooked on site! Could it be that there is a snail girl among them? Finally, I found the answer amidst the fawning noises from this bunch of fair-weather gangsters -
Happy lazy man: Thank you for your hard work today, Xixi!
Xiao Nanhu: Thank you Xixi, thank you for your hard work!
Brother Shijiu: Xixi has suddenly raised the level of our drinking! The food at Yinshe is getting better and better!
Ram: I want my ewe to learn more skills from Xixi!
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Amidst the applause of this group of senile, fair-weather people, Xixi not only often cooked delicious food and brought it to the seminar Share with them, even bring the fine wine and carefully cut bonsai flowers that have been collected at home for many years and share them with them.
I couldn't control my curiosity, couldn't control my appetite, and finally couldn't help but frequent their dinner parties. Ever since I tasted Xixi’s delicious food, my previous bad feelings towards Xixi have been completely wiped out. Taking a closer look at this beauty, I can see that there are many unique and redeeming features: Needless to say, she is beautiful, and she is generous and willing to share (of course, it is not entirely because of being flattered and praised by them, because I can't help but praise her often. ); have a sentimental view of life, pay attention to refinement, enjoy the process of creating a refined life, and do not skimp on the results of a refined life; pursue perfection and love beauty especially, not only pay attention to the appropriate matching of clothing, but also put this kind of The concept of pursuing perfection runs through her entire life. No wonder the men in the press send photos of the ** building (Xixi’s workplace) in the group from time to time, or when they drive by, ride by, take the bus, or walk by the ** building, ** Photos abound from all angles and perspectives of the building. For a time, this inconspicuous ** building in the east of the small town of Gaochun was nicknamed "Xixi Building" because Xixi almost became an Internet celebrity.
What really made the No. 1 pick change his bad opinion of Xixi was that one day the No. 1 pick suddenly and generously "bleeded" a rare treat to a group of aging men from the printing press. After deciding to treat me, I tentatively invited beautiful Xixi, who had never liked me. Unexpectedly, Xixi readily agreed and brought a bottle of red wine to add to the fun. I was grateful for many days. That day, the No. 1 Scholar drank a lot and felt extremely happy when drinking. Xixi's admiration must be a big reason!
The reason why a woman can be called a beauty by the No. 1 Scholar is that her appearance is not the main factor. Most people who know the No. 1 Scholar actually misunderstand the No. 1 Scholar and think that the No. 1 Scholar only judges people based on their appearance. That’s not true! The beauty considered by the number one scholar must meet the following conditions at the same time, each of which is indispensable: first, she must be beautiful and beautiful, a little fat is fine, but not too thin; second, she must have "femininity"; third, she must have a certain personality. And Xixi is undoubtedly in full compliance with the above three items.
Xixi is a womanly person: she pursues beauty and is not limited to her appearance. Whatever Xixi makes, no matter what she eats, wears or looks at, the first impression is that it is exquisite and made with care. It's so artificial, but it's hard to see the deliberate artificiality. Because living mindfully is already her quality. Since Xixi took charge of the editing and pushing work of Yinshe’s WeChat official account, the pleasing pictures and articles in each issue are just like the delicacies she carefully cooked. It includes both reading and eating, and it is very enjoyable to read.
Xixi is a woman with a certain personality: she has a clear distinction between likes and dislikes, has certain opinions, and insists on her pursuit of perfection. In her own words, she "can't put a grain of sand in her eyes." Perhaps because Xixi's ancestral home is from another place, she lacks the flexibility and sophistication of many local beauties in Gaochun. Once upon a time, the number one scholar had become a grain of sand in her eyes: he only grabbed red envelopes but did not give them out. As a result, many Xixi criticized him in the group. Fortunately, the number one scholar had skillfully transformed Brother Yu into a sand-type middle-aged and greasy person. Man, from now on, Brother Yu’s days in the group...hehe.
Xixi is a woman with delicate emotions: she never hides her feelings about life, and can spread the subtle tentacles deep in her heart throughout her body and mind. You can get a glimpse of it from her articles.
I don’t know whether Xixi has changed us men who are approaching aging, or whether Xixi has put aside her unearthly aloofness and integrated into us.
Anyway, these aging men are pretending less and less to be gentle when eating and drinking in front of Xixi, and are showing more and more of their original rough faces! And Xixi is acting more and more like us! What a joy this is!
(Yu Gaochun, August 20, 2018)