How do girls ask out now

Most boys will think about how to ask out girls, especially after getting to know them better, but it is difficult for girls to ask out now. Here are some tips for girls to ask out now. How do girls make appointments nowadays? 1. Make preparations when chatting.

If you want to meet a girl you like, you can't wait. Generally, if you ask a girl's brother for "no appointment" as soon as you start, nine out of ten will be blacked out directly, and the remaining one will only be used as a spare tire by the girl, becoming a little errand boy who can come and go whenever you want. It is skillful to chat up girls, and girls are born with a lack of strangers.

And smart boys will take their time, and know that when chatting, they will not only pave the way, but also constantly establish a good impression on girls, so that girls can trust themselves and guide the topic of invitation when they are familiar with themselves. This kind of smooth flow of getting along is what girls like.

2. Invite a few days in advance

Why do you need to invite a girl a few days in advance? In fact, it is to ensure that she has time. Otherwise, wouldn't it be embarrassing if you suddenly invite a girl and the girl just doesn't have time? Do you want to know that a woman has a needle in her heart, and she really doesn't have time when she tells you that she doesn't have time? That may be an excuse to refuse you and not want to date you, so at this time, you must do your homework several times in advance and ask her when she is usually free. Don't tell her that you want to ask her out first, and then explain your purpose after she replies to you. Most girls will be embarrassed to refuse you.

3. Be sure to pick her up on the date.

You should know that girls nowadays are prone to renege, so in love, if you want to meet a girl you like smoothly, you must be fully prepared, and you must pick her up in advance on the date so that she can't refuse you. If you wait for her at the date, she may even stand you up temporarily, so no. How do girls date nowadays? (1) The purpose of dating is clear.

people are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.

A lot of times, a girl is very cold and pushy on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time.

The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, for example, the girl said, "I can't come back too late." ""I don't like singing. ""I'm not feeling well and I can't climb the mountain. "To these excuses, how to reply, the back of the (7) specifically about it.

(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Look at the 8-point number in the mobile phone. She is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not?

The otaku seems to have inexhaustible fears in his heart. I'm afraid of chatting up girls and asking them out. You can read how to overcome the fear before hitting on someone.

I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, wondering whether this time is right, what I should say, whether the place where I asked her out is right, whether she will come out, and what we should do when we meet ...

The first question is, do you want to contact me if you have the phone number? The answer is always "to contact! "At most, the other party didn't answer the phone, sent a text message and didn't return it. The loss was just a little phone bill.

when will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again, and the girl still remembers the scene that you accosted that day; But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or phone calls to girls on the spot, usually saying, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now, and your eyes can really talk." Let's go out for a cold drink another day. "

(3) words are short.

Invitation is not chatting. The skill of chatting with women is not to ramble. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in a special case, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch with each other, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you invite her out to play or eat regularly, even if the other party refuses, you can use this method to call and harass; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.

(4) lower expectations.

as soon as you come up, say, "Let's get a room! "No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat! "Many girls won't refuse.

At first, don't make too many demands too far. Use the strategy of camel entering the tent to make demands on girls bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good chat. Of course, I can go to the park again.

(5) Stimulate interest.

curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious.

If you invite a girl to dinner, there are two ways.

The first way tells her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pies, and the atmosphere is very romantic.

In the second way, just tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. When she asks you what you look like, you will know when you go, and you will never be disappointed.

obviously, the second way can stimulate the imagination and is more attractive!

(6) stick to the end.

stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to meet.

refuse a girl at least three times!

I dated a college girl. It took me a month, and I invited her many times by SMS and phone, and finally I came out.

(7) Pay attention to tone and intonation.

In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. To a great extent, girls come out to see you not because of what you say, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence.

If you really can't, practice in front of the mirror, watch your expression and smile, record the sound and listen to it yourself.

I had a deep understanding of a date. I just said in a casual and a little anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought.

But it's still an old saying. In fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

(8) handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also need it when you go shopping and bargain.

That is, no matter how the girl objects, you should push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific steps are to show understanding-re-demand.

For example,

You: "Come out to play at night! "

Girl:" I work overtime at night.

you: "it's so hard, your boss is so inhuman. I'm going to report him to the industrial and commercial bureau!" (show understanding, stand in the same position-unload)

Working overtime all day, life can't be like this, you have to give yourself a holiday. (Her excuse becomes the reason for your invitation–borrow money)

I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! What time do you get off work? (Re-request-counterattack) How do girls ask for an appointment nowadays? 3

In the first case, you should first analyze the relationship between you and the girl. < P > If she is not very enthusiastic about you at ordinary times, you should not make an appointment in a hurry. The time is not ripe, and repeated invitations are rejected, which will make the girl form inertia and get used to saying no to you. Don't ask her out in the future, even if she makes some smaller requests, she may habitually say so.

I think you should do two things well at this stage.

Cultivate comfort

Look for * * * sex, or create * * * sex to increase the intersection of life, create * * * the same topic, and make your chat interaction more topical.

improve yourself

when the relationship between girls and you is low, what you need to do is not to befriend frequently, but to spend more time on yourself. The interesting elements in you are more likely to attract women's curiosity and attention.

You can work hard, exercise and play ball, make different appointments, get together with friends, enjoy all kinds of delicious food and do some hobbies, such as cooking, painting, music, books, traveling and so on.

You don't need to cover everything, at least enrich your life, so that you can have material for pick up hot chicks in the future, because a person is interesting because he leads an interesting life.

In the second case, it is the question of invitation method.

When a man asks a girl out, he should first know the girl's living conditions.

it's not easy to ask a girl out after a phone call or a wechat.

If a woman is willing to ask out, she will definitely have a good impression on you, at least she wants to check you out and doesn't want to make a bad impression in front of you.

Women need to wash their hair when preparing for a date. For those with long hair, it will take a long time to blow-dry their hair, and sometimes they have to make a mask to keep their face in the best condition.

If it's summer, it's even more troublesome. You may need to do everything for sun protection, oil control and hair removal.

After all this, there is the most difficult hurdle. I don't know what to wear, which is something that women worry about every day, let alone what to wear for a date.

such a preparation time ranges from one hour to two or three hours.

If the appointment is too urgent, you may be too lazy to prepare and refuse directly.

Of course, if you want to tell whether she regards you as a boyfriend's best friend or wants to have a closer relationship with you, you can also judge by the importance she attaches to dating.

men's girlfriends are willing to say anything, good things, bad things, ugly things and black history.

Women treat men who have a good impression differently. They often want to show their best, dress up carefully, and try to avoid talking about their own shortcomings and black history.

To tell the truth, women's lives are very rich nowadays. It's true that there are not many appointments. If it's too easy to ask out, you should be wary.

In many wine trays, if you don't ask her out, she will take the initiative to ask you out, and the date place is set by her. You think that you are full of charm and are soaked by women, but in fact you are just using your greed to cheat you.

When you meet a girl who is slow and reserved, you can rest assured that she is not casual. Casual woman, casual to you, casual to other men, I think you don't want to plant grass on your head.