Many boys will chat with girls on WeChat, and the girls will suddenly stop messaging and become very cold. Faced with this situation, boys will be very anxious and distressed.

Most boys will directly send messages asking "Are you there?" "What are you doing?" "Why are you ignoring me?".

There are also some boys with low emotional intelligence who will call directly. Polite girls may say that they are busy recently, but most girls will block the boys directly.

Both of these methods reveal a strong sense of need. This sense of need will make girls very annoying and find this boy annoying.

Generally, there are two reasons why girls don't reply to messages. The first is that they are really busy and have no time to reply to messages; the other is that they just don't care. She has no feelings for this boy and doesn't want to waste any more time.

If he is really busy, the boy must be patient, play a protracted game, and don't bombard him with news. In this way, when the girl turns around and finds that the boy is still there, she will think that this boy is quite affectionate, and the girl will think that this boy is still there.

Persistent, not casual, and able to endure loneliness; if you don’t want to talk to him, it may be that the girl is not interested in the boy at all. Recall whether it was like this at the beginning. Did the girl say "oh" or "hmm" when we first started chatting?

", "Ah", if this is the case, the boy needs to improve his personal charm and increase the girl's interest in him, such as changing his profile photo to a tasteful one.

Boys need to change the way they talk. Think back to when you chatted with girls in the early days, did you use questioning chatting, such as "Have you eaten?", "What did you eat?" "Is it delicious?" "Are you full?"

, or the official chat "I wish you a good day". Girls don't know how to respond to this. They hate this kind of meaningless chat. It is recommended that boys plan the chat topic.

Good chat topics can not only understand girls’ interests and hobbies, but also enhance relationships. I have specially provided some chat topics for boys.

1. Traveling means either reading thousands of books or walking thousands of miles. Girls prefer knowledgeable people with broad horizons.

Travel can reflect the personal value of boys’ love for life. Boys can share the cities they visited during the trip, their experiences, and folk customs while chatting, to stimulate girls’ interest and turn on the switch of attraction to girls.

2. Sports. Generally, girls like boys who are sunny, cheerful and positive. These boys will give girls a strong sense of security. Moreover, girls nowadays like to go to the gym. Talking about sports topics is easy to cause cries and the relationship is easy to heat up.

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Furthermore, boys can take fitness photos and send them to their WeChat Moments, which also attracts girls’ attention.

3. Food. Girls like to discover delicious food. It is recommended to share delicious food with girls. Chinese food, Western food, and ice cream are all acceptable.

Food topics can reflect a boy's attitude towards life. By sharing his own opinions, boys can invite girls. The food in that place is really good. If there is a chance, I can take you there!

4. Pets. The cute attributes of pets are naturally compatible with girls. Most girls like furry things.

Pets can fully reflect a boy's love and sense of responsibility.

Boys can chat with girls about daily pets, and they can also take photos in Moments to record the growth of pets. Of course, pet topics can only be used as an alternative, after all, some girls don’t like pets.