I want to write about Song's mother-in-law. Many people want to tear her to pieces when they mention her, because what she did to Song is really unforgivable.

After Song and Lei Dongbao got married, her mother-in-law began to become a demon.

In the morning, Lei Dongbao and Song were making out, and her mother-in-law deliberately shouted at the door.

While eating, Lei Dongbao helped Song with food, and her mother-in-law stared at him.

Someone in the village got married and proposed to Lei Dongbao. He didn't want to go, leaving the opportunity to show off to his uncle. The mother-in-law first accused Lei Dongbao of marrying his daughter-in-law and forgetting his mother, and then accused Song of giving Lei Dongbao a bad idea.

With these details, the mother-in-law's evil is outrageous enough.

Unexpectedly, the fun is yet to come. Song told her mother-in-law that she didn't want to have children in the past two years because she was too busy to go to TV University or raise rabbits.

My mother-in-law was extremely unhappy when she heard this.

In order to get back at Song, she went on strike and did nothing at home. Every day, she took a small bench to chat with others and asked Song to deliver meals. Talk about it if you want. The key is to discredit Song everywhere.

She said Song was unfilial and didn't do housework. She also told Lei Dongbao that she was a fox and that she seduced Lei Dongbao in broad daylight.

My mother-in-law began to make rumors about her daughter-in-law. The evil of human nature is hard to imagine.

Many people condemn what Dongbao's mother did, but I want to get to the root of it. Why did she become like this?

Dongbao's mother comes from bad karma. Dongbao's father died young, and she raised Dongbao by herself. You know, in those days, single-parent families were very difficult.

The family's life depends on agriculture. There is no mature labor force at home, and the annual income can be imagined. Moreover, a woman with a child will have a lot of gossip in the village.

It's really not easy for Dongbao's mother to support a family.

It can be said that Dongbao's mother raised Dongbao with painstaking efforts. In those years when Dongbao joined the army, she lived alone in that shabby house. Who knows loneliness and pain?

From small to large, Dongbao was still protected by her mother, but Dongbao's mother was helpless, and her children were her only sustenance. Of course, Dongbao is very competitive. After demobilization, he became a secretary and a small official.

Dongbao's mother finally straightened up and started.

It can be said that Dongbao's mother's emotional lack must be made up by Dongbao.

In other words, Dongbao is not only a son to her, but also acts as a husband to some extent.

Dongbao's mother is very strong and has strong control over Dongbao. For example, if Dongbao goes against her opinion, she will importune, similar to the pattern of lovers getting along.

To put it simply, Dongbao Ma is very dependent on her son and regards her son as her private property.

At this time, Dongbao married a daughter-in-law, even if this daughter-in-law is excellent and considerate, it will not be as she wishes.

Essentially, it's like a love triangle.

Mama Dongbao felt that her son had been robbed by Song, so she complained in her heart.

The better the relationship between Song and Lei Dongbao, the stronger the resentment.

Dongbao's mother said that this song is not always right. After all, she just wants to find a psychological balance. Maybe she wants to force Song Yunping away and let Lei Dongbao belong to herself again. No matter who Lei Dongbao marries, Dongbao's mother will not be satisfied.

Of course, in this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Lei Dongbao handled it well, and he always stood on the side of Song. Unfortunately, Lei Dongbao and his mother are psychologically isolated, and his mother, like a child who has not been weaned, has never been able to draw a clear line between them.

Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said that the root cause of unhappiness in China is people's lack of sense of boundaries. Especially in the aspect of parent-child relationship, many parents in China dictate their children's career choice and mate selection, or even take their place, causing pain to their children without knowing it.

Not only Dongbao's mother, but also most single mothers.

I once heard a true story.

Xiao Chen was born in a single-parent family and lived with his mother since childhood. He talked about two girlfriends, and both of them broke up in discord. The culprit was his mother.

Xiao Chen's first girlfriend is smart and considerate. They work in the same place. They work hard to make money and get married. As a result, my mother learned about Xiao Chen's love affair and ran from her hometown to the city where he worked.

The arrival of his mother made the relationship between Xiao Chen and his girlfriend gradually fade away, mainly because his mother didn't like his girlfriend and often made sarcastic remarks. Over time, the two broke up.

Xiao Chen's mother also returned to her hometown. Before leaving, she proudly said, "I came to let you break up, but I just don't like her."

A year after breaking up, Xiao Chen talked about his second girlfriend through a friend's introduction. They are suitable for each other, and they are in the same place and know each other very well.

At first, my mother was very satisfied, but gradually, I found that Xiao Chen spent more and more time with his girlfriend, and Xiao Chen was considerate to his girlfriend. At this time, my mother was unbalanced, and every time they dated, she made an excuse to call him back.

If Xiao Chen doesn't listen, his mother will cry and say that she has worked hard to raise him.

Xiao Chen is a filial person. She knows what her mother has done for herself and doesn't want to make her sad. Mother's troubles, this relationship ended without a disease again.

A few years later, Xiao Chen was still alone. He was asked why he didn't get married. He said, maybe I can only spend my life with my mother.

This parent-child relationship is suffocating. Mothers don't regard their children as independent individuals and don't respect their lives. Whenever someone enters his world, his mother will feel that her interests are threatened.

In this way, the only result is that both mother and son can't be happy. Bound relationship, after all, let two people roll in the abyss.

Why do some people say that they don't want to marry a man who grew up in a single-parent family?

Not prejudice, but fear of abnormal parent-child relationship.

A mother cares too much about her son and excludes her daughter-in-law, and the family will only make trouble.

Not every woman can let go of her self-esteem and let bygones be bygones, Song Like Yunping in The River.

Even if everything is perfect, Song Like Yunping, isn't it a tragedy to give up her mother-in-law?

What the evil mother-in-law did to Song is also a portrayal of reality.

This incident also sounded the alarm for single mothers, and there should be boundaries with their sons. He is your son, not your personal belongings. You should respect and understand the sense of proportion.

Someone said it well:

A lot of love in the world is aimed at gathering, and maternal love is aimed at separation-the greatness of maternal love is also here. When the son grows up, maternal love chooses to quit and let go appropriately, which is a rational and intelligent choice and a deeper love.