"I am my sister, and I have been since I was born."

this is the fate of identity, and it seems to be the dilemma of fate.

My Sister, a popular movie recently, shows the struggling and helpless side of family affection on the screen. The audience was moved by this film, but they were also pleasantly surprised to find a pearl-Zhu Yuanyuan.

stills of the movie "My Sister"

Zifeng Zhang's 1 crying scenes show the limitless potential of the new generation of actors, and Zhu Yuanyuan's aunt even gave her textbook-level acting skills.

My aunt used to be a sister with dreams, and she also crossed the ocean to learn Russian. But in the family of "son preference", the birthmark of girls is that they have no self. Although my aunt was angry and fought, she finally chose to compromise.

this compromise is to draw a prison for one's life.

Fortunately, Zhu Yuanyuan's real life experience is just the opposite. Because of the care of love, an actor who has never experienced the taste of big red and purple has gained the warmest happiness in the world.

Many people are not very familiar with Zhu Yuanyuan, because she is rarely active on the screen. In recent years, she has mostly appeared in a supporting role in film and television dramas, and she often plays a small person who is grounded.

In last year's A Little Red Flower, she played the mother of a teenager with cancer.

When Wei Yihang asked his mother, "If one day, I am really gone, have you and my dad thought about how to live?"

Zhu Yuanyuan, who was chatting with her son, turned red-eyed. This may be a dialogue scene that she had imagined countless times. Maybe she had done countless psychological constructions. But when she heard that her son was preparing to say goodbye, she suddenly felt sad, and the despair she tried to restrain was like water overflowing ...

In "Little Separation", she turned into a paranoid mother who wanted her daughter to become a phoenix, and alienated a cavity of maternal love into pervasion.

While many "4+" actors are still obsessed with the creation of "girlish feeling", the result is just the opposite. However, Zhu Yuanyuan wandered among the group images of "mothers" and found his own square foot in small roles.

Zhu Yuanyuan, who was born in Qingdao, Shandong Province, has the frankness and simplicity of Shandong people.

My mother told her from an early age that the most important quality of a person is kindness, and good people are blessed.

she once recalled: "once, when a beggar came to the house, my mother gave all my clothes, shoes and steamed bread to others. After that, I told them, son, I'll look after things for you, so you can go upstairs and order more." People are afraid to ask for it, and they are afraid that she will have an attempt. "

When she was admitted to the Chinese Opera as she wished, many of her classmates were willing to play skits with Zhu Yuanyuan, including Xin Baiqing, who later became her husband, because of her bright atmosphere and enthusiasm.

Compared with Zhu Yuanyuan, the audience seems to be a lot stranger to Xin Baiqing. However, the film and television dramas he starred in also have a good reputation: Li Bai, who "spits a mouthful of embroidery, is half a prosperous Tang Dynasty" in The Legend of the Demon Cat; Fang Xingwen, an intelligence dealer in The Eight Hundred; There are not many scenes in Da Qin Fu, but they are rich in three dimensions.

Unlike his wife, Zhu Yuanyuan, who was admitted to three universities at the same time, Xin Baiqing was admitted to the Chinese opera at the bottom after missing out on Beijing Film.

On the way to the dining hall, Xin Baiqing passed Zhu Yuanyuan, who was laughing like a flower while walking. Recalling the scene at that time, Xin Baiqing still couldn't help laughing when she talked about her spring smile and a rustic flower trousers in an interview many years later.

In order to attract Zhu Yuanyuan's attention, Xin Baiqing took part in the sports competition organized by the school. Xin Baiqing, who was trained in physical education, won the high jump in one fell swoop and broke the record of Chinese opera at that time.

At that time, the prize of the champion was a bag of washing powder and a bar of soap.

He came to Zhu Yuanyuan's dormitory with washing powder, and he was embarrassed to give it to Zhu Yuanyuan himself.

It took a long time before I got up the courage to shout, "Does anyone want washing powder?"

Before the female students in the dormitory could react, he quickly put the things on Zhu Yuanyuan's desk, and then fled.

A bag of washing clothes and a bar of soap has virtually turned into a red line, which has narrowed the distance between two people.

When they fell in love, the students teased Zhu Yuanyuan: "You are so cheap, Xin Baiqing. A bag of washing powder and a bar of soap cheated you away."

What others see is the exchange of unequal values, and only she finds his ordinary preciousness.

In Zhu Yuanyuan's eyes, Xin Baiqing is a warm-hearted person, although he is not good at words. Because he is one of the few Beijingers in his class, and speaks fluent and authentic Mandarin, he became the "translator" of some students with strong local accents in the dialogue class. After school, Xin Baiqing often acts as a free tour guide in the class and enjoys it.

After the two men established their relationship, Xin Baiqing couldn't wait to tell the world. He brought Zhu Yuanyuan's jeans, went to the pool in the boys' dormitory and washed them with great fanfare.

He just wants to tell everyone: Yuanyuan and I are good!

Once Zhu Yuanyuan was on location, he had to take a bus to Beiying Factory early in the morning. Zhu Yuanyuan was very worried about getting up the night before.

As a result, it was only 5 o'clock the next morning, and Xin Baiqing rushed to the girls' dormitory and knocked on the door to wake her up. Xin Baiqing was afraid that she would oversleep, so she stayed up all night, burning candles and reading all night. After that, I sent her to Hutongkou and watched her get on the bus before going back to the dormitory to catch up on sleep.

when she sat in the car and looked back at the figure that had been standing in the same place and getting smaller and smaller, she knew that she might never meet someone who was so kind to her again in this life.

that kind of kindness shows the simplest and most sincere power in the face of all behaviors that are used to weighing and haggling.

after graduation, both of them began to take the stage formally. Far and wide, I followed the crew everywhere, and the mountains were far away, gathering less and leaving more.

One winter, Zhu Yuanyuan was filming in Harbin and Xin Baiqing was filming in Shenzhen. After the scene, Xin Baiqing just had a week, and he couldn't wait to fly to Harbin to see Zhu Yuanyuan.

At that time, everyone went to the crew by train, but in order to meet his sweetheart as soon as possible, Xin Baiqing, who was not rich at hand, bought an expensive air ticket directly, and the plane was not direct, and he had to make a stop in the middle.

In Harbin, taking advantage of Zhu Yuanyuan's filming in the daytime, Xin Baiqing "sneaked into" Zhu Yuanyuan's guest house and washed all her clothes that should or should not be washed.

At that time, because of the cold wind in Harbin and the busy and tired filming, many of her clothes were neglected to be washed.

When Zhu Yuanyuan came back to the guest house after work, she saw a rope-covered, clean-washed dress, like a flag fluttering in the wind, and her eyes suddenly became red.

At that time, filming didn't earn much money. As a poor boy, Xin Baiqing spent 9 yuan in Shenzhen to buy Zhu Yuanyuan a trench coat.

That windbreaker, which Zhu Yuanyuan has worn for many years, is still reluctant to throw away: "It still looks good."

Zhu Yuanyuan and Xin Baiqing met in 1993. On April 13th, 27, they ended their long-distance love run and got married.

In 28, director Jiang Wei invited them to play "Hidden", which is still the pinnacle of spy war drama today.

after reading the script, they were overjoyed. However, there are many action scenes in Cuiping. At this time, Zhu Yuanyuan was pregnant, so she discussed with Xin Baiqing: "I can't come to Cuiping. Go and play Yu Zecheng yourself."

Xin Baiqing "runs" on her and says, "If I'm not with you, you can't talk about it all your life. In order to be quiet for the rest of my life, I'd better stay at home with you! "

Recalling this incident, Zhu Yuanyuan wrote a passage in Xin Baiqing: My Uncle Beijing: I have read the script and know how good the play is, and what it means to play Yu Zecheng, so it is impossible not to want to go; But for me, the drama may catch up several times, and having a baby is just this one chance in my life. When it was the hardest time to be with my wife, I didn't miss this guy ... < P > Later, when I caught up with life code, the couple in the play were just like us. The pure nature didn't change with the years, and they lived according to their own ideas whether they were bitter or sweet. This is really the best commemoration of our 18-year fate.

Not long after, the "Hidden" fire made Sun Honglei and Yao Chen's career brilliant, but Zhu Yuanyuan and Xin Baiqing did not regret it: on the balance of gains and losses, everyone has his own interests.

In addition to rejecting Latency, Xin Baiqing turned down many good plays, and he accompanied Zhu Yuanyuan throughout her pregnancy.

He thinks that this is the time when a woman needs comfort most. Parents and any other relatives and friends can't take the place of her husband. Only her husband can give her the most practical sense of stability and security.

Zhu Yuanyuan's reaction during pregnancy was particularly strong, and she often lost her appetite. Xin Baiqing became an out-and-out "gourmet". He constantly adjusted the pattern of food and kept trying. Only when she ate something that was particularly appetizing could Zhu Yuanyuan eat more.

Results During Zhu Yuanyuan's pregnancy, Xin Baiqing gained fifteen or six pounds.

When Zhu Yuanyuan was pushed into the delivery room, Xin Baiqing was so nervous that he couldn't stop shaking outside the operating room. He ran to the other room and cried for a long time to stabilize his mood.

Later, when Zhu Yuanyuan, who was out of the delivery room, wanted to send a message to her relatives and friends on her mobile phone to share her joy, she saw a short message sent by Xin Baiqing on her mobile phone before she entered the delivery room:

"Wife, you must hold on. You are great. Thank you for all this. You have worked hard. Wife, I love you."

The door of a woman's life is the boundary between life and death. When she passed the risk, she was equally moved by her new life, and her husband's omnipresent warmth and thoughtfulness.

At that moment, Zhu Yuanyuan did not shed tears when she gave birth, but after seeing her husband's short message, she flowed freely ...

After having a daughter, Zhu Yuanyuan realized more deeply the importance of mother's company in the process of children's growth.

She said, "Give your child enough love and let her grow up with abundant love. She will become a giver of love, not a predator."

But she didn't become a complete devotee and a perfect "victim" for her children and family. After her daughter was a little older, Zhu Yuanyuan came out to film. She said, "Besides being a good mother, it is equally important for a woman to be herself."

After graduating from Chinese opera, Zhu Yuanyuan is more involved in the battlefield of film and television dramas. In Xin Baiqing's eyes, Zhu Yuanyuan is a very spiritual actor, and he is a talented actor who can "act as soon as he comes up".

Someone once commented on her: "Zhu Yuanyuan's acting history is a history of outstanding works of Chinese opera."

In 1998, The Happy Life of Zhang Damin, a garrulous man, was launched. As the pinnacle of domestic civilian drama, it was popular on the screen. Zhu Yuanyuan won the title of "National Model Daughter-in-law" and the "18th China TV Golden Eagle Award for Audience's Favorite Actress" for her role as Li Yunfang.

In 1999, Zhu Yuanyuan starred in the TV series "The Return of Nine to One", which was called "the best Chinese drama in my heart" by many netizens.

A Private Visit to Kangxi (Part II), My Dear Motherland, The Ugliest in the World, Romance, hope and glory ... These TV dramas belong to the memories of many people, and Zhu Yuanyuan has been nominated for the Flying Award and Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress for many times.

compared with Zhu Yuanyuan's dazzling aura on the screen, Xin Baiqing was more active on the stage of drama at that time.

Tong Zhenbao in Red Rose and White Rose, Clarence in Red Dress in Richard III, and Tian Han in The Knockout ... Xin Baiqing won the Best Actor in Fashion Influence Ceremony and the Golden Lion Performance Award for his outstanding performances in Fa Hai in Green Snake and Guan Xiaohe in Four Generations under One roof. In 219, he won the 29th Chinese Drama Plum Blossom Award.

The popularity of film and television dramas and the popularity of the drama stage have invisibly opened the gap between them, and the family relationship in which women are stronger than men is also highlighted. However, they are not at odds because of the imbalance brought about by their careers.

When rehearsing the drama The Knockout, Zhu Yuanyuan plays the role of the wife of the character in Xin Baiqing's play, and Xin Baiqing often needs Zhu Yuanyuan's guidance.

He himself said: "He basically grew up under the guidance of Zhu Yuanyuan, who is his most loyal critic."

This loyal critic sometimes needs to be "divided into two parts" and become his spiritual mentor.

it is often said that every man has a little boy in his heart.

But this little boy is often suppressed by the social role required by the secular world and bound by the public's expectation. They need to release their nature in time and guide them correctly.