you hate your husband's playing cards, but he said he would stop playing cards and still play, which bothers you. In this case, you can try the following methods to deal with it:

1. Communication: First of all, you can choose to communicate sincerely with your husband, express your love and need for him, and tell him your disgust and worry about playing mahjong. Try to understand why he likes playing mahjong, and his views and feelings about it. Through communication, you can find a solution together.

2. Seek compromise: consider the needs and limitations between you and find possible compromise solutions. For example, you can discuss with your husband a reasonable time to play mahjong to avoid affecting your normal life and interaction. At the same time, you can also try to understand and respect his hobby of playing mahjong, but ask him to ensure that he can meet his personal needs without affecting his family and your feelings.

3. Seek help: If you can't reach an agreement on this issue, you can seek professional help, such as a psychological counselor or a family therapist. They can help you learn effective communication skills, understand and handle conflicts between you, and find appropriate solutions.

4. cultivate * * * hobbies: besides playing mahjong, you can try to find other * * * hobbies to increase mutual interaction and contact. For example, watch movies, do sports, cook food or take part in other activities that you are both interested in. This will not only strengthen your feelings, but also reduce the conflict about playing mahjong.

5. Respect personal space: Finally, although you are husband and wife, you are still independent individuals. You need to respect his personal needs of playing mahjong, and at the same time let him respect your feelings and needs. It is very important to keep calm and understand when dealing with contradictions.

generally speaking, dealing with this problem requires the efforts and understanding of both sides. Through effective communication and seeking suitable solutions, you can ease conflicts and establish a healthier and more intimate relationship.