Love is different from marriage. In love, women don't have to consider the responsibilities and obligations of their mother-in-law and themselves in marriage. As long as men are good to themselves, women will be happy. However, marriage is different. Women's happiness has a lot to do with men's responsibilities and responsibilities in marriage, and it is also related to whether their mother-in-law likes them. Let's not talk about the responsibility and responsibility of men in marriage for the time being. Let's talk about the mother-in-law problem first. After a woman marries a man, her mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law. She has the idea that men are superior to women, so if her daughter-in-law doesn't resist in marriage, she will be bullied by her mother-in-law. Xiaoying, who lives in the countryside, works as an English teacher in a middle school. She works far away from her parents. Xiaoying has no relatives to accompany her, and she often feels lost. At this time, Zhang Xiaojun, who is also in a teaching and research group, caught her attention. Zhang Xiaojun is a native of this city. He is the only child in his family. He is cheerful, sunny, talkative and enthusiastic to his colleagues. On several occasions, I took the initiative to send lonely Xiaoying back to the dormitory after self-study at night, which made her have a good impression on this warm man.

Because Xiaojun also liked her, the two quickly established a relationship of love, and soon they put marriage on the agenda. Although Xiaojun's mother has the idea that men are superior to women in her bones, she has some complaints about Xiaoying's birth in the countryside, but in view of Xiaoying's outstanding appearance and good work, she has not stopped it too much. Two happy people walked into the door of marriage with a vision for the future.

Xiaojun lives in the villa area, where the trees are lush and pleasant and the living environment is spacious. Besides, the mother said that she wanted them to take care of her, so the young couple lived with their mother-in-law after marriage.

In the days when she just got along with her mother-in-law, Xiaoying was careful not to offend her powerful mother-in-law, and she could only pretend not to hear her mother-in-law's occasional bad words. However, after getting along for a long time, contradictions will eventually arise. Xiaoying's life of walking on thin ice with her mother-in-law was finally completely broken because of a small matter.

Before, Xiaoying cleaned up the dishes after dinner. But she has a stomachache today, and the serious discomfort during her physiological period makes her just want to stay in bed. She said to her husband gently, "honey, you can wash the dishes today." I feel a little uncomfortable. " The understanding Xiaojun immediately agreed and asked with concern, "What's the matter with you? Let me drive you to the hospital. " Xiaoying smiled and said, "No, it's a physiological reaction. I will lie down. " When Xiaoying stood up slowly, she suddenly saw her mother-in-law's unhappy face and her disgusted eyes facing herself. Suddenly, she felt cold all over and her heart sank like lead. I only heard my mother-in-law say impatiently, "Country girl, a woman who pretends to be a good family and has no physiological period, you are delicate." Xiaojun studies hard at school all day. As his wife, you don't know how to understand him. Women only have to do housework, men earn money outside, and they have to do these trivial things when they get home? I don't do housework when my physiological period comes, so I'm sentimental. "

Xiaoying always thought that Nuo Nuo was the only person who could get peace in the world. I didn't expect her mother-in-law to be so unreasonable, and her mind was full of men being superior to women. I am so far away from my mother's family, I hope my mother-in-law can love and care for her like her mother, but the reality has taught her a lesson, telling her that it is just wishful thinking.

Xiaoying, who was full of grievances, burst into tears: "Mom, this home is not my own. Everyone shares the housework. I usually do everything. Today, I only let him do it once, because I feel sick. What's wrong? " He works hard to earn money, don't I work hard? I'm so tired that my body is falling apart, you know? Are you such a mother-in-law? "

Xiaojun looked at his mother and said that his wife was very angry. He felt that his mother was a little unreasonable, but because of her mother, she could only hold back her anger at her dissatisfaction, so she replied, "Mom, I haven't washed dishes for several years. Xiaoying just gave me this opportunity to exercise today. " Who knows, my mother-in-law snorted coldly and slammed the door. Jun Xiao packed her bags silently. After all, that's his mother.

Xiaoying stood awkwardly and tears came out again. Xiaojun came over gently, helped her and said, "Go to bed and rest. I'll find a house outside and move out tomorrow, so that you won't be wronged. " Xiaoying nodded and leaned on her husband's generous shoulder, very pleased.

Xiaoying's mother-in-law obviously looks down on her daughter-in-law, thinking that she is a rural woman and not worthy of her son, and because Xiaoying's mother-in-law thinks that men are superior to women in her bones, her mother-in-law is targeting Xiaoying everywhere. In view of the fact that her mother-in-law despises her daughter-in-law, she has the idea that men are superior to women in her bones and often bullies her daughter-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, it is difficult to change her mother-in-law's thoughts and behavior towards herself. Only when women unite with their men in marriage and resist from behavior can women make their marriage happy.

When facing the problem of marriage, women must understand that marriage is not just the union of two people, but the union of two families. When you can no longer guarantee that everyone in the other family can accept you, at least you should make sure that your other half is really good to you. In this way, when you are troubled by your husband's family, he can stand behind you without hesitation and become your warmest harbor.

A word of advice to women in marriage:

If the mother-in-law is aiming at herself everywhere because of her prejudice and whether she has done anything wrong in her marriage, she must not choose to bear it. Your forbearance will only make your prejudiced mother-in-law push her luck more and more and bully herself everywhere. The best way to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to solve it through your own man. After all, after a woman marries a man, the man has the responsibility and obligation to protect himself from her mother-in-law and her bullying. Therefore, when a woman chooses an object, she must choose a man who really loves herself, is really good to herself, and has the responsibility and responsibility.