How to accompany yourself and your children? Traveling is indeed the best way.

but why travel?

over the years, Tim finally found the reason.

Tian Ma once thought that she was a person who put her soul on the road. She had been to Lijiang, Thailand, Hong Kong, Macau, Xiamen, Tibet and other places before giving birth to a baby. She thought that traveling was: going from the place where she was tired of living to the place where others were tired of living, and singing all the way, thinking that that was all the meaning of traveling.

Later, I was pregnant and gave birth to a baby to nurse, and I couldn't go out for three years.

I found that what I lost was actually a way for me to escape from the world.

It turns out that I have always regarded travel as an escape in the real world! ! ! Every time I go out, there is an irresponsible heart behind the circle of friends! Including not being responsible for yourself and not being responsible for your work.

When I was young, I struggled with strangers for poor travel. If you don't do the raiders, you think that it is the "cool" of being happy with the situation.

You miss the shift, bring the wrong clothes, and you can't sleep.

You also think that this is a powerful proof to verify the journey with your life?

the pattern Tucson is broken!

After having a baby, especially after experiencing depression, I finally sorted out my heart and found my deepest desire.

I'm crazy about traveling again: it's no longer an escape, and it's not just a pretense of friends (of course, it's forced, and it's still necessary to pretend occasionally), but a self-growth again and again:

"When you wrote PPT, Alaska cod was jumping out of the water; When you read the report, the golden monkey in Meili Snow Mountain just climbed to the top of the tree; When you squeeze into the subway, Shan Ying in Tibet has been hovering in the clouds; When you quarreled in the meeting, Nepalese backpackers took up their glasses together and sat by the fire. There are some roads that you can't walk with high heels, some air that you can't smell with perfume, and some people that you will never meet in the office building ... "

I really appreciate my best friend here, and I have always been a traveling companion. In my most painful postpartum days, I wrote my birthday card:

My greatest wish in life is to be Xiaolan's maid of honor, and I did it;

My second biggest wish in life: to be a godmother of Xiaolan's baby, and I did.

My third wish in life is to travel with Xiaolan again. I'll wait for you!

-Fu Xiaole was in tears on August 2, 213

! ! Later, of course, she waited for me. In 214, we went to Singapore and bintan island. I went to Turkey in 215 and will go to Britain, Switzerland and Italy this year.

the world is so hot, and you and I are just free! !

Tian Ma now thinks that life is for experience and growth, and I am willing to use this life to gain more wonderful things. Traveling is the easiest way.

what did I gain from my trip?

Parent-child relationship, ways of getting along with husband and wife, aesthetic accomplishment, English improvement, ability to communicate with strangers, and experience more possibilities.

Therefore, I will definitely not join the tour group on my current trip, and I will definitely spend enough time doing raiders, arranging trips, cramming with geography and history knowledge and so on!

Tian Ma's recommended tourist destination:

Let's have a look first. What do you need for a perfect family trip?

1. Division of labor with husband, "bring the baby separately and be wonderful together";

2. Calm down, accept and change your mind, where can be a pure land of peace of mind;

3. Alone, the private time to see each other.

In November p>214, Brother Tian was less than 2 years old and went to Thailand together

(I was afraid I couldn't manage my baby, so I brought my mother with me)

Thailand is really not recommended, especially taking my baby with a group!

I rushed all the way, and I didn't enjoy my hotel at all!

besides, it's too hot to go to Thailand in the summer vacation! !

so where should we go?

Children aged 2-5 love sand best! Blue sky, sea, coconut trees and white sand beaches!

You don't have to run away with your children at the seaside. Find a beach. You can play with your sand and I can read my books. It's fun and relaxing!

Tian Ma's recommendation:

The best choice for parent-child travel: islands

Singapore, Danmin Island, Da Nang, Nha Trang, Okinawa, Taiwan Province, Phuket, Sabah, Saipan, Philippines, etc!

1. Singapore:

Singapore is definitely the top three destination for parent-child travel! Especially suitable for traveling with young babies, it can be the first stop for traveling with babies after childbirth! Because:

mother and baby facilities are too complete! Not only the supermarket playground in airport metro Station has a maternal and child room, but also a parent-child toilet! It is really the first choice for family travel around the world!

Blonde foreigners with mouths can be seen everywhere in Singapore, with at least two baby carriages!

We saw a western father waiting for food with six children in India, Singapore! !

There are strollers and children's facilities everywhere in Singapore.

There is no problem in communication, bilingual education, and both can speak Mandarin. Why didn't Tim know this information before? ! ! ! When Tim was less than two years old and only needed a baby ticket by plane, 1%, Tim actually took Tim to Thailand! Thailand, because English is not good, but also with the group! I really regret that my intestines are blue! ! !

The elementary school is beautiful. Sentosa Island has beaches, Universal Studios (a large playground) and Ocean Park! And the famous night zoo!

Picture: Universal Studios Sentosa, taking children into movies

It's rare to see a guide to the island, and it's recommended to go to Singapore to see the sea.

But Sentosa is really good: there are few people, the beach is soft (though not very white), and

there are campsites! Super luxury hotels, of course!

Figure: Open public beach (comparable to the private beach of five-star hotels in Southeast Asia! )

And many kinds of transportation on Sentosa Island are free: monorail train, beach train and bus. Wow, children can't stop! What's more, there are large amusement parks, museums, aquariums, hiking areas and boating. it runs in the family's holiday resorts are really not exaggerated!

Only this: Singaporeans like sweets too much.

even the toast slices for breakfast should be sweetened. Therefore, people are quite fat!

In addition to accompanying the baby, Tim Ma said that perfect travel requires relaxation.

Singapore is recommended to relax by itself: Sentosa beaches and shopping malls are also easy to visit, the design is innovative, IELTS Lauder is very favorable, and the live music in the bar by the river in Singapore is awesome!

2. Bintan, Indonesia, Tanmin Island

It is only 45mins away from Singapore by boat, and it is called the "back garden" of Singapore, belonging to Indonesia, and China passport landing visa! Very convenient.

Simply put, it is an island, which is contracted by high-end hotels to sell beaches and seaside villas.

Generally, it is the same hotel group, which offers several hotels with different prices according to consumers, but after searching online, there are bnb apartments on the island, and the price is more favorable. You can go to the hotel to surf the net and surf the beach (pull down: it's super economical, and Tianma Island can surf the net and surf the beach! ! ! )

Tim's mother went there at that time, but she didn't bring Tim's brother (slapping her face), which happened to be weaning. I went to catch my breath after not going out for three years.

But can children not love such scenery? !

Danmin Island Hotel, about 1 yuan/night, this price is much cheaper than that of the same level in Hainan

Stay alone with your baby or relax. Recommended: firefly trip (although not as good as Sabah mangrove forest), golf, diving, surfing, ecological farm, picture: amphibious flight is light experience, Tim Ma didn't know it at that time, but just found it for more than 5 times, so it looks beautiful and put it on. Every family is wonderful! ! Go in with your head held high, and no one will stop you. Besides, can't I come for dinner? !

what's it like to go to a five-star hotel and surf the net, beach and swimming pool for free?

it's just a "big" and four "forks"! Absolutely B is a capital word "Shuang"!

well, Tian ma is such a diaosi woman! ! !

Last June, during the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, a friend of the travel company asked me if I had a charter flight to Da Nang, which cost more than 2,88 yuan. Would you like to go? Although I didn't have an appointment with my peers, at that time, Tim Ma "insisted on learning English for almost a year", which is worth rewarding herself!

go alone.

The hotel with the tour group is very low, so you don't participate in the recommended self-funded projects (go out to sea, go to a beach full of tourists! Referring to Thailand's sea trip, I come to this conclusion, which proves that Tim Ma's tuition fees were not paid in vain. Look at the beach and I will just go to a high-end hotel!

euphemistically called: I'll take Brother Tim and Dad on an inspection tour next time.

I just thought: Don't lie on the beach and live like a pig. Then this wish really came true.

The private beach of Crowne Plaza Danang is very beautiful, so I'll take a taxi. Not only did no one stop me, but the waiters all smiled at me ~ (It seems that I have been showing you Tim's feet, so I'll take a picture of someone else:)

It's so beautiful here! And there are so few people! The beach here is called china beach, which is finer and whiter than Meixi Beach, the most beautiful beach in Da Nang! It's so comfortable

Tian Ma checked: "Crowne Plaza Danang" was almost impossible for individuals to book rooms, and it was all contracted out by China's team! And the price is not expensive, not in 1 yuan.

It is estimated that all the people in China who are staying in the hotel have gone out to play. The hotel is very quiet. Although the sun is shining, just sit in the shade. Alas, the cool breeze blows on your face and invades your heart and spleen!

all the waiters here can speak Chinese! !

Tim's mother was sitting by the beach, and a waiter brought a towel and asked me to write down my room number. I said I didn't live here, but they didn't say anything. Order something to eat, get a seaside massage, more than 3 RMB, cool!

But being alone is really boring. The food is beautiful, but no one! I saw several splendid five-star hotels when I took a taxi, so Tim decided to walk along the coastline to see if I could walk to the hotel next door. As a result, it really succeeded! The following massive ultra-beautiful pictures are presented!

This hotel is more amorous feelings. They are all independent villas for rooms.

There are no China people here, and the waiters can't speak Chinese. The menu is in English, Korean and Japanese, but there is no Chinese!

Tian Ma's poor English was immediately exposed, and she used a translator to practice ordering. She was embarrassed

The price of p>Fusion Maia Resort Da Nang was really expensive: more than 2, nights

The sunset in Nha Trang and the public beach were not recommended to stay in Pearl Island, which was expensive, the holidays were a mess and there were too many people

. It is most suitable for children to go together because their parent-child activities are really super:

The National Museum of Marine Life sleeps and wakes up with the fish;

Stargazing at Hehuan Mountain, Sunrise

* * Dance with the sheep in Qingjing Farm,

Watching the sea in Kenting,

Making a fire in Hengchun,

Drinking milk produced in the pasture by Donghai University in Taichung

5. Okinawa, Japan

Once thought that Japan was only suitable for buy buy to buy, but recently several mothers who had been there planted grass for Tim!

Okinawa, Japan, is very suitable for traveling with baby:

Ocean Expo Park, Busheiming Sea Park, international communication on Sunday afternoon, sunny beach waves, long slide of Putian Grand Duke Park, and so on.

VI. Sabah

When it comes to Sabah, it's another tear for mom.

When I was breastfeeding, I grabbed a special round-trip ticket from AirAsia with another good girlfriend: more than 8 RMB! It's awesome!

I am going to travel after weaning for 14 months, and the time is April 215. Results: < P > On the eve of departure, a mother's love broke out and she was reluctant to wean. She wanted to take the baby with her, and the little sister vomited blood.

finally weaned successfully, Malaysia Airlines lost contact on March 8 when doing raiders with peace of mind!

after convincing her family to believe in airasia, a China woman was kidnapped by Philippine rebels and there were gunshots at the scene one week before she left.

well, I'm completely gutless now! The Raiders Hotel was all made for nothing.

Later, I learned that the sovereignty of Malaysia and the Philippines is unknown, and it is absolutely safe if it is downtown Sabah.

VII. Xiamen

Although the sea in Xiamen is not blue enough and the sand is not fine enough, the food is really delicious!

and small, Gulangyu and Xiamen University are worth visiting.

Yogurt, milk tea and peaches ~ Even Tim Ma is a vegetarian now, she has many choices!

Eight, Hainan

You don't need to go to the ends of the earth. If it's too far, just look at two broken stones. Hotel+Go to sea. If you want to go to a five-star beach, please refer to Tim Ma's trip to Da Nang, Vietnam.

Besides, after swimming in high-end hotels, there are bathing places nearby!

Tian Ma's recommendation:

The best choice for parent-child travel is desert

Tian Ma has always been stubborn that only the sea can be boundless and give you infinite shock.

I didn't know until I went to see the desert and grassland. They are all equally vast and boundless, which can make people express their feelings and point the way!

I went to Hohhot on May 1 this year because of my father's work. There is a Xiangshawan around, which seems good:

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