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My classmates want to come to my house to play. How can I refuse?

Last month, my college classmate Dawei came to this city with his parents and a family of 12. He wanted to live in my house to save on accommodation fees. I agreed without hesitation, but I didn’t expect that it would be a thankless task, even though it cost me 30,000 in the end.

It was a lot of money, but the other party actually blocked me.

01 University Dawei is my classmate in university, but he is quite different.

During his college years, he had almost no contact with other classmates and kept to himself all day long.

The classmates in his dormitory all said that his family came from a rural area in the north of other provinces and that life was very hard. He got married and had two children while he was in college.

He lives a very frugal life. He usually buys the worst vegetables. Sometimes he doesn't even buy food in the restaurant. He eats the dry-fired braised pork and steamed buns brought from home, as well as spicy pickled vegetables.

Every once in a while, Dawei would exchange the meal stamps and vegetable stamps he saved into cash at the free market outside the school and send money home.

Dawei is 5 years older than us. We were usually around 18 years old when we entered school. He was already 23 years old and had been repeating his studies for several years.

After I noticed this situation, I felt very sympathetic to Dawei. Sometimes I pretended that I couldn't eat my own meals and food stamps and gave him some.

I said to Dawei: "I have an aunt and a grandpa in the provincial capital. They often let me go to their house for dinner, so I have these meal tickets and vegetable tickets left. I see you there often

If you want to eat some dry fire or something, just take these meal tickets and vegetable tickets. Anyway, these things are not of much use in my hands." Dawei was obviously very aware of my kindness.

He said to me very gratefully: "Good, you are really a good person. My wife is from a rural area with almost no income, and there are two children at home who are waiting to be fed. Thank you for your help to me, I will remember this

I am determined to go to college, so I repeated my studies for several years, and finally got admitted to a university in the provincial capital. "I said to Dawei: "You.

The things I just told you are very inspiring. In fact, it is not difficult to go to this university. As long as you work hard, you will get good results. "Dawei said, "Yes, I can finally get out of the countryside after graduating from university.

It’s an uncomfortable environment, but I can still stand out.” Dawei and I said, “Let’s work hard together.” Unexpectedly, in addition to Dawei’s poor ability to interact with others, his learning ability is also poor.

Same difference.

He failed two subjects in the first semester.

Because I was first in the class, Dawei came over to ask me how to study.

I sorted out all the class notes and knowledge points with Dawei, and then I gave my class notes to Dawei and asked him to study harder.

Dawei successfully passed the make-up exam.

Only this time did I understand why he had been repeating the college entrance examination for five years. It was mainly due to his rote learning method and insufficient mastery of knowledge points.

After every class in the future, I will give Dawei the notes I took in class so that Dawei can master the knowledge points he learned during self-study in the evening.

Daweicai slowly improved his course grades.

Later, Dawei successfully graduated from college, and the emotional relationship between us was formed during this period of time.

02 After graduating from tourism university, Dawei returned to his hometown and worked as a technician in a factory, bringing his wife and children from the countryside to the city.

This can be regarded as a typical and inspiring example of knowledge changing destiny.

In the first few years, Dawei and I exchanged letters. As we became busy with our work, we no longer had any contact.

Just last summer, the monitor of one of our university classes suddenly created a WeChat group for our university classmates and pulled Dawei and me into it.

We found 38 out of a total of 40 classmates in a class of our university classmates, 2 of whom are no longer alive.

A classmate named Xiaowen fell ill and died a few years after graduation.

Another classmate, Xiao Yuan, went to work in a chemical factory and became the workshop director, but suddenly disappeared in an explosion.

At that time, there was an explosion in the workshop suddenly at night. Two people were at the scene, but not even the bones were found.

At that time, the classmates spread the word to each other and all donated money. I handed over a donation of 2,000 yuan to the monitor and asked him to transfer it to Xiao Yuan's family and 2-year-old child.

After Dawei contacted me through the WeChat university group, he was very nostalgic and recalled our time in university.

About a month ago, he proposed that he would take his parents, wife and children to our city for a vacation and wanted to stay at our house.