I like to make friends and share beautiful scenery and happiness!
I like to make friends and share the beauty and happiness
First of all, I can tell you clearly that unless your circle of friends is quite streamlined or your photos are unlucky, no matter what you send when you travel, no matter whether you are intentional or not, there will be people who envy and hate! This is human nature!
I don't want to say anything more about human nature. I only talk about the reasons and feelings of my friends circle, for reference only.
first, don't have any lofty ideas on the journey, just record and share.
If all you want is to surpass others and show how tall you are, such as how expensive the place where you only live is and how good the food is, you will definitely be hated. Because my core purpose is to show myself, I can't blame others for their rebellious mentality.
I send my own circle of friends for two purposes. One is to record my life, so that I can have good memories when I get old. Secondly, share it in good faith, such as sharing feelings, sharing strategies and sharing the feelings of different life styles. These things that can be discussed are not comparisons, but discussions with like-minded friends, * * * sounds, reflections, and * * * advances.
of course, sometimes it is inevitable that it will still be considered as pretending, but this kind of pretending is not subjective. Or more accurately, even if everyone has vanity, even if there is a little pretense between the lines, it is normal and secondary. As long as the core of your mind is sincerity, that's no problem!
second, don't take selfies all by yourself, take more photos of the places you go. Not to mention that all pictures are from the same angle, all topics are the same type, and too much discussion is just to belittle others.
this question is actually similar to the first one. That is, the core of making friends circle is recording and sincere sharing. If it's all a beauty selfie, if it's all a template content, and you still consciously belittle other people's travel methods, then please ask yourself, is your purpose simple?
if the purpose is not simple, the person watching will naturally not be simple. If you take a selfie with too much beauty, familiar people will laugh at you. If your tan has little to do with beauty and humanity, but only shows how rich you are, then you will definitely be jealous!
actually, tourism photography is not about winning or losing by comparing equipment. But to understand, record and explore! Everyone has different personalities, tastes and moods. Reality may be disguised, but in the photo, there will be a true attitude towards the world!
if you are sincere, what friends naturally look for is sincerity!
Third, you can face up to the negative comments of others, but don't mind too much. Too much care about other people's opinions, that is the behavior of the weak!
no matter what you do or who you are, your behavior will always be discussed by others. And the more excellent people are, the more they will be pointed at by others.
Nowadays, many people don't send friends. Except for some people who don't like to send friends, a considerable number of people, because of the increasing number of people, are afraid of this and that, and they become cautious when they start talking. Later, they simply don't send friends, but they also reprint, work, and a lot of nonsense. . . Why is this?
when I travel, I just see the beautiful scenery. I just feel happy. I just feel it. What's the matter? Can't you? Friends circle is my territory, right? I didn't eat other people's rice for nothing, did I? Then what do I care about my circle of friends? Are you happy or not?
many chicken soups say that emotional intelligence is high and low. Actually, I'm telling you, in the face of a limited life, being able to be live high's nature and not wasting this life is the real emotional intelligence, and everything else is bullshit.
We have made a serious and frank circle of friends. We have not deliberately outdone others, but we have achieved respect and sincerity. Then, after doing our duty, if there are still people who are jealous of your life for no reason, even if you send a few travel pictures, he will grin with an ugly face of human nature. Do you think this kind of person will be your real friend? Do you really need to be so careful to send a circle of friends in such a short life?
confidence is based on strong will and ability. If you care too much about others, then exercise to improve yourself first. And in the meantime. If you really want to send it and are afraid of others, just read it in groups.
People who know you are worth sharing!
If you send the happiness of your trip to your circle of friends in the form of photos, let your friends feel the beauty of your trip with you. Then it shouldn't arouse the antipathy of friends.
I often send my photos of beautiful scenery to my circle of friends when I travel by motorcycle. They may not be particularly good, but some friends still feel good after seeing them. I think if a real friend really thinks the photos are good, even if I send them often, I won't be disgusted.
my original intention is to make everyone feel happy by taking photos of the scenery that I see and feel good. Isn't it a pleasure to convey that happiness?
watch it if you like, but don't forget it. You can send it if you want, and you can't send it if you don't want. How can there be so many things! If you hate others, just delete them. Why whine? What you hate most is these envious and hateful little people! ! !
Tell me what people will hate, and I can refer to it for you.
1. Brush the screen, take a lot of pictures of a scene and send a bunch.
2. Show off and ridicule maliciously. Some people send friends to say: I'm traveling again, so I envy you hard-working people. This statement is true and annoying.
3, @ a bunch of people, others may not want to know.
4. I can't see the reason for the shooting. The picture quality is poor. I can't grasp the scenery and find the angle.
Therefore, if you send a friend circle, you can consider choosing meaningful videos and photos with good scenery and good angles. Don't maliciously ridicule others or send too many articles, and send two or three photos to each scenic spot.
My personal approach is that, first of all, the photos are selected from nine different backgrounds, with good scenery and high definition. Secondly, we should introduce the main contents of the scenic spots, such as where, the main summary, the ticket price, and what other people should pay attention to if they want to go … so that others will not only hate you but also thank you, don't you think?
I make friends every time I travel, but not to show off anything. First, I want to share what I have seen and heard and the scenery along the way.
Second, for the record, every journey will have different feelings. Sometimes, with the passage of time, you have forgotten the travel experience a long time ago, and the records of those friends circle will remind you of the joy of the journey.
But I don't send friends frequently when I travel, and I send a dozen or twenty screens a day. I usually send friends only two or three times when I travel, all of which are carefully selected by myself as a summary, which is a sense of ritual in travel.
Here are some tips for sharing my friends circle ~
1. Frequency problem
Don't send friends circle too frequently during the trip. Send three or four photos every day, and the whole circle of friends is your travel photos. Do you think it is annoying?
It's best to send a circle of friends once or twice for a trip. As the saying goes, "Things are scarce." Well.
2. Photo questions
First of all, whether there are four or nine questions, nine will look better.
The picture must be clean and tidy. If it's not to highlight the crowds during the holiday, don't send photos full of heads.
Close-up photos and panoramic views should be available, rich and not monotonous.
The simplest way to unify the colors of pictures is to add the same filter.
It would be better if there is a theme, such as food, literary style, street shooting and so on.
Third, the problem of words
First of all, don't be too big. Unless you write well, no one will read your running account in full.
keep it simple, just one or two lines.
the content of the text can be what you see, hear and feel, or it can be a brief introduction to this place.
Don't be too serious, just like writing a composition. Speak more and be lively and interesting.
I think it is a kind of sharing to send the beautiful scenery to a circle of friends during the trip. Share happiness, share beauty. Therefore, when sending photos, remember to give priority to the scenery, supplemented by the characters. Of course, the characters should play a fine role in the scenery, so that the photos sent out are both aesthetic and not annoying. If the photos of individuals in Jiugongge account for more than half, on the one hand, the beautiful scenery becomes the photos of ordinary tourists, and it is difficult to become a large piece; On the other hand, people feel that the protagonist is narcissistic and resentful. Everyone is a good friend, and everyone knows what he looks like. What everyone wants to see is the scenery outside, not you. The following is my circle of friends when I travel to Russia. I wonder if my friends will envy or hate it?
My circle of friends is full of scenery that I think is beautiful during my trip, and sometimes there is a picture of my own scenery in it, but what stands out in it is the scenery. My intention is to tell my friends that it is beautiful and worth visiting, that's all.