Experience refers to a kind of emotional writing written after reading and practicing. Reflect on the learning content through practice and record the words. Can you write down your experiences? The following is the "Parenting Experience Kindergarten (Selected 4 Articles)" compiled by me for everyone. It is for reference only. You are welcome to read this article. Chapter 1: Parenting experience in kindergarten
Parents are the first teachers of their children. From birth to school, work, and society, they are inseparable from the influence of parents and family environment. Paying attention to cultivating children's ideological and moral character from the beginning undoubtedly plays an important role in children's growth. Providing a good enlightenment education for children is not only a family issue, but also an issue related to what kind of person they will become in the future. It is a major issue related to the stability and development of the country and society.
First, creating a good family environment is a prerequisite for raising children
"People can change the environment, and the environment can also cultivate people." To be honest, I am a straightforward person. , I was also the worst at children in the past. Sometimes the children were disobedient and reluctant to beat them, but later I found that the child's fear was getting bigger and bigger, so I learned to complain to grandpa and grandma. For this situation, I first consciously created a good family atmosphere. If there are problems between the couple, they should not discuss them in front of the children. The child is naughty, patiently persuades, and the couple complements each other, I criticize the child, and later my lover re-educates, criticizes the mother for her own good, emphasizes the expression of love for her, etc., so that the child does not feel close to his parents. Second, pay attention to language etiquette. Third, use music to create a beautiful environment so that children can feel the warmth of the family.
Second, starting from living habits, paying attention to children’s moral education is an important part of cultivating children
Children are the shadow of their parents. If you want to develop good living habits in your children, you must first Start with me. In the process of educating children, I realized that good living habits are the basis for cultivating children, and the cultivation of children's mental health, ideological and moral character is the purpose and key. In modern social life, the exception is the overwhelming majority of one-child families in our country. How to train children to be self-reliant and not become vulnerable saplings in the greenhouse is a question worth thinking about for every parent. In this regard, I mainly focus on Take three approaches.
First, love your children, but don’t love them too much. For example, children often ask about eating out at McDonald's or KFC. I believe that eating out in stages can not only improve the ordinary life routine, but also expand children's horizons and improve their ability to adapt to the outside world. However, if the child cries for this reason, parents must not let it go.
Second, there is relaxation and a combination of leniency and severity. When a child makes a mistake, parents must analyze the underlying reasons and first determine whether the child did it intentionally. During one break, the child had water everywhere in the room. When he saw the fire, he came over. But when asked why he was playing with the water, the child said he was washing his own handkerchief, "Didn't you say you did your own thing?". "Among them, I realized that educating children cannot be solved by simply preaching or insulting.
Third, respecting the old and loving the young constitute family rules. Exciting marriage is a common phenomenon in modern families. Adults Excessive attachment often leads to children not looking good in front of grandparents. In this regard, I not only respect my parents-in-law, but also directly exchange opinions with my parents-in-law and propose issues that should be paid attention to in educating children. In my family, this constitutes respecting the elderly and loving the young.
Third, kindergarten is the cradle for children to grow up healthily.
My child was hospitalized in August this year. All the teachers I met after the child was born were so kind and considerate. When I entered the yard, the child was the youngest in the class. He didn't chew with his teeth when eating. He just couldn't take a few bites and vomited again. The teacher patiently taught the child to eat, and the child felt food for the first time. Fragrance, who knows how happy it is and how hard the teacher is (William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Food) In less than two months, under the education and guidance of three teachers, I learned more than ten nursery rhymes, respect for adults, She eats by herself, wears shoes, and draws simple pictures. When the child is sick or uncomfortable, the teachers take her to treatment in time. While the children understand the system and formal education in kindergarten, as a parent, I pick up the child every day. Actively learn from the teacher about your child's day, what new knowledge you have learned, and consolidate the knowledge you have learned with the teacher. Buy your children books and videos that children like, and cultivate their ability to be proactive.
In short. , cultivating children into socially useful materials is a complex and long-term process. You cannot expect immediate results after one day. Parents must be mentally prepared and proceed systematically. Part 2: Parenting Experience Kindergarten
Young children. Connection is a major event in children's growth and a new starting point in their growth. It is also something that our parents are very concerned about.
To be honest, children will soon finish their studies in kindergarten. , entering primary school education, I felt both happy and anxious.
I am happy that my son has grown up and will soon be a primary school student and can learn more knowledge. What is anxious is that as a parent, I have no clue. How can I make my child adapt to the new learning life quickly after entering primary school? Although in kindergarten, kindergarten teachers teach children a lot of knowledge, primary school is a specialized institution for formal school education for children. As soon as children go to school, they must participate in learning independently and begin to receive courses according to the unified teaching plan prescribed by the state. This is different from kindergarten learning. The requirements and forms are different. To this end, what preparations should be made before children enter school?
Through the practical experience of education in the family, I have the following personal insights:
1. Help children position their roles: I am a primary school student
In fact, when I was in the middle class of kindergarten, my son would already ask me when he came home: Dad, after I finish the senior class, will I have to go to elementary school? I was surprised at the time that the kindergarten teacher had already let the baby know about elementary school so early, so that he already had this concept. Now that I think about it, it is really not too early. And now, we parents must help our children position themselves in this role and let them know that when they grow up, they will soon become a primary school student. They cannot completely rely on their parents and teachers for life and study. They must slowly learn to survive, live, study and work. , do what you can do by yourself, and find solutions to problems and difficulties by yourself.
2. Cultivate children’s civilized and polite behavior habits
Enrollment means that children go from home to school and start a collective life. They need to re-establish new interpersonal relationships and accept new teachers. Making new friends and interacting with many people in collective life will inevitably lead to some disputes, frictions and conflicts. If not handled properly, it will eventually affect the child's study and life. Children must learn respect and tolerance, and abide by class discipline. Care and love for the collective.
3. Develop the habit of organizing your own school supplies and take good care of school supplies
Most of today’s children are only children, and many things are done by their parents. Even their schoolbags are helped by their parents. Regarding this point, after I attended the last parent-teacher meeting, I have deliberately reminded my children every day to pack their schoolbags before going to bed at night and put away the books they will use the next day. However, my son doesn’t seem to care for books very much. After writing only a few pages of an exercise book, the cover is already dirty. Therefore, I think it is also very important to take good care of school supplies. The development of good habits will affect his future life.
4. Let children learn to listen
Most of the teaching in kindergarten is learning through games, while teaching in primary school is mainly based on teacher teaching. Most of the time, the teacher is talking, and the children You must learn to listen. If a child does not listen carefully and the teacher is talking, he will just play by himself. He can enjoy a lesson with just an eraser. Some children will be in a daze if they are not playing and will not listen at all. In this way, At the end of the class, the children's efficiency in listening to the class is very low.
5. Let your children think that learning is a habit
Now we will fix our son’s homework every night and he will also know what homework to complete before going to bed every day. Over time, , habits become natural, and learning becomes something that should be completed every day, as natural as brushing your teeth before going to bed.
6. Develop the habit of doing things quickly
Let your children develop the habit of doing things quickly. This is an issue that worries me very much. Since my son spends a long time eating at home, it will definitely be a big problem when he goes to elementary school. Similarly, children are very procrastinating when getting up in the morning, and they will definitely not be able to adapt to it when they reach elementary school. Therefore, I was also a little anxious. After listening to the lecture, my wife and I thought of many countermeasures. We should try our best to enable our son to do things as quickly as possible before entering elementary school without procrastination.
In summary, the above are the basic habits that I have summarized that need to be developed when entering school. For children who are about to enter school, developing good habits is more important than acquiring knowledge. Developing good habits , which will be of great benefit to children’s future studies and life. It is easy to give birth to children, difficult to raise children, and even harder to educate children. I am very grateful to the kindergarten teachers for allowing us parents to be mentally prepared.
It allows us to make some preparations for our children’s transition from kindergarten to primary school in advance, so that our children can smoothly enter primary school education. Thanks! Chapter 3: Parenting Experience Kindergarten
From conception to birth, I have been planning my baby’s enlightenment education. Until I send it to kindergarten, I have been worried about what kind of kindergarten is suitable for me and my child? On xx, I was fortunate enough to participate in the parent open day event held by the kindergarten. Looking at those cute little guys, I felt a lot in my heart. Everything I saw fully proved that I was right and wise to choose the experimental kindergarten. The following are some experiences of children after entering kindergarten:
1. Growth and changes of children after entering kindergarten. The growth and changes of children in various aspects after entering kindergarten are more obvious than before entering kindergarten, mainly in the following aspects: < /p>
1. Children gradually become polite, and their ability to take care of themselves in trivial matters in daily life has changed significantly. This is entirely due to the education of kindergarten teachers, which plays a decisive role in every progress of children.
2. The child's hands-on ability has been significantly enhanced. He can help his mother do some things within his ability at home, and understand some simple principles, such as doing his own things and sharing them with others.
3. The child’s health is relatively good, and he is not as picky about eating as he was before entering kindergarten. This habit is very good, and now his eating situation is getting better and better.
2. As a parent, I fully trust the kindergarten’s food and education. When communicating with other colleagues, I never make a one-sided evaluation of the quality of the kindergarten. I never pay attention to it. The child's diet is not too demanding on whether the teacher's way of educating the child is appropriate. I feel that since the child is handed over to the kindergarten, this is the minimum trust in the kindergarten. In addition, try to let the child learn to handle some things on his own in the collective life of the kindergarten. Simple contradictions cultivate better independent ability to adapt to the environment. Create a positive atmosphere at home, let children have simple discipline and time concepts in their consciousness, establish a positive image of kindergarten teachers, and deepen children's emotional cohesion with teachers. The newly acquired knowledge and behavioral habits that the children display at home should be maintained and guided as much as possible, so as to achieve consistency and continuity with the teacher's teaching. Since kindergarten education is based on indoor education after all, on weekends and rest days, I will try my best to take my children to outdoor activities to release their willful nature in nature. The arrangements are more substantial and focus on cultivating children's behavioral abilities, because Chenchen has a somewhat introverted personality and often takes him to experience some new activities. On Monday morning, children generally do not show anxiety because of the start of a new week.
3. As a parent, I have the following expectations for kindergarten. Because children still have a long time to spend in kindergarten, I hope that we can cooperate well and give children a A healthy and happy childhood life:
1. Develop small habits that will lead to a bright future. Developing orderly habits from an early age will be very helpful for children’s future study, work and life. Therefore, I hope that teachers will not have any worries and just ask children according to their own teaching goals.
2. Teach children to be brave enough to take responsibility. In kindergartens, small conflicts often occur between children, such as grabbing toys and socializing. I hope teachers can treat children’s right and wrong correctly and let them Children must have the courage to take responsibility.
3. Pay attention to the cultivation of language expression ability. Because my child has been timid since childhood and dare not speak in front of strangers, during the teaching process, we should cultivate his language expression ability, pay attention to controlling the speaking speed, and do not If you are eager to express your thoughts, etc., give him more encouragement and let him dare to express and speak loudly. The above are some of my thoughts. Because I am usually at home, I hope that teachers can give more encouragement and praise to children after school every day. I am willing to discuss with teachers to help children grow up happily. Chapter 4: Parenting Experience Kindergarten
First of all, my family environment and members, grandparents live with us, and my father is busy at work. I go out at 7:30 in the morning and get home at 5:30 in the evening. Now the grandma is generally responsible for the children. His daily life, picking up and dropping off from kindergarten, his father and I try to play with the child at home at night, bathe the child every night, and take the child to bed together. Babies are particularly lively and cheerful, and have good memory. Likes to play with children, speaks quickly and expresses clearly among peers. This is related to the fact that when I was a child, my grandma and I took him, often chatted with him, and often took him out to play.
When it comes to dealing with children, my aim is to cultivate good living and learning habits in the process of healthy growth of children. Just develop like their emotions and IQ, rather than saying that they have to be in kindergarten now. Learn something. For example, when your child is being unreasonable, you cannot be soft-hearted. When a child wants something, he cries. No matter whether the thing is necessary or not, it cannot be given to him at this time. The words given to him were words of encouragement. Crying later became a weapon. When I was very young, I took my children to the supermarket to see the candy stalls, and they refused to go. I insist not to buy it. From there the crying child was carried outside the supermarket, and again later. Grabbing a piece of candy and trying to stuff it into your mouth. Mom objects. Said you can't do this without paying. It won't be like this again. I will discuss it with my mother and buy a good one. For example, if you treat your child's behavior with a normal attitude, don't let the reaction be too intense, and don't give appropriate encouragement and guidance. The child should drink water frequently when eating. It's like a conditioned reflex. In the past, when I drank water during meals, my mother reacted violently and refused to let me drink it. As a result, you have to stop him. The more he does this, the more his mother pretends not to notice, and the more the child likes to imitate adults.
At first, his grandmother was worried that the child would hit him and stopped her movements, but it had no effect. Instead, she waved the tool in the living room. Later, when he copied the guy again, I convinced him. Gee, you are amazing. I can help grandma work. The child is so happy to hear this. For example, how to deal with children's emotional problems? One of my children at home was very excited and didn't even take a nap at noon. People say this is a way for babies to express their love. I wonder if children are too depressed in kindergarten. (My guess, hehe) I'm really overwhelmed by this, it's so crazy at times. Sometimes children can be really stubborn and make you angry. If you don't control it in time, you can scold the child silently or even give him a slap.
The result will not only damage the parent-child relationship, but also leave wounds on the child's young mind. After noticing signs of anger, the most effective approach is to have the family remove the child or leave the "site of the incident."
(1) Take more than 10 deep and long breaths.
(2) Relax and relax the muscles of the whole body many times.
(3) Go out for a walk for 10 minutes.
(4) Say to yourself "I will keep calm"
Recall the past situations when you were very calm in the past, or recall simple and happy times. Seeing parents controlling themselves and not losing their temper is a good example for children. Parents can also teach their children this calming technique and learn to be the master of their emotions from an early age. This task of educating children is easy to say but not easy to do. I'm sure my mom and dad can relate. It is not easy to let children grow up happily and healthily and enrich their knowledge. The truth is, kids are capable of doing their jobs, it just takes time. Trust them to provide encouragement and courage. If we work together, the results will surprise us. Lots of stuff looks good for kids. In fact, we cannot deny that our own vanity is always at play. I believe that if we put aside this shortcoming and work hard with our children, our future will be more perfect and brilliant.
(Do I need to undergo nucleic acid testing when returning to Quanzhou from Hunan?)