"No matter the king or the farmer, as long as the family is harmonious, he is the happiest person."

Family is far more important than our imagination.

The way of running a family determines the speed of a person's growth, the height he can reach, the temperature of family life and the degree of happiness.

A good family often has incense in the kitchen, laughter in the living room and words in the bedroom.

In the past, I didn't like my mother stuffing all kinds of food into the suitcase every time she went out.

I always feel that I can buy everything outside, and it is troublesome and tiring to move around, so why bother to find it myself.

But when I became a wife and mother myself, I realized how ignorant I was.

A meal is easy to eat, but cooking is time-consuming and laborious.

From peeling garlic to shredding, to washing vegetables, cooking and making soup, no dish is easy to taste, smell and taste.

Why spend hours cooking a home-cooked meal when you can get enough food after ordering takeout for dozens of minutes?

It's obviously difficult, so why work hard?

Probably because of the willingness of a porridge, a meal, a dish and a soup, what is hidden is the simplest and deepest love.

What people who cook like best is the contented approval of people who eat;

What people who eat most expect is the surprise prepared by the chefs.

The busy figure in the kitchen, the fragrance of dishes floating out, and the collision of pots and pans bring people peace of mind, peace of mind and a sense of belonging.

All feelings have faded from their initial passion, and they can continue to be affectionate for a long time, relying on the love that is integrated into life in the dull days.

San Mao once said:

A good marriage is an indomitable river. Although there are moments of repeated waves, most of them are calm and dull.

Every time I go home, I can smell delicious food and a few side dishes. The moment when a family can say a few words is the warmest.

Why do wandering children cry when they eat familiar smells? Why is it that a meal cooked by a child, even if it is not delicious, is worth all the food feasts?

Because, fireworks, the most can touch the hearts of ordinary people.

There is a smell in the kitchen, and life can be steaming.

There is a dialogue in the movie "Xibao" that impressed me deeply:

"What do you need most?"

"Love, the more the better; Money, just enough. If there is no love, it is good to have a lot of money. "

Life is just 30,000 days, and all people want in life is love and warmth.

In a family, good women are spoiled by men; A good boy is loved by his parents; A good man is nourished by the beautiful atmosphere of his family.

Love is a virtuous circle in the family.

You are cooking soup in the kitchen, and he is playing games and reading books with his children; He is working and sorting out information, and you play hide-and-seek and watch TV with the children.

Children will feel love and being loved in laughter and learn to understand and respect.

Why do you say that parents' upbringing is hidden in children's behavior? Do parents hide their children's future in their words and deeds?

Parents are a mirror for their children, and they will learn what they see. Children are also a mirror of parents, reflecting parents' behavior education.

Love doesn't need to be taught deliberately.

Children can read from their parents' manners, tone, movements and expressions. When you use them to express your love, they will naturally learn how to love others.

Achievement can test the quality of a moment, but good character can affect the fortune of a lifetime.

Compared with the achievements of beating and cursing with sticks, people who grow up with laughter tend to go further and further.

I once saw a short film:

After years of marriage, the husband seems to have lost interest in his wife and felt that they had no feelings before, so he filed for divorce.

The wife didn't make any noise, but made a request to meet some of her small requirements every day for the next month, and then divorced a month later.

The husband agreed.

In that month, all my wife asked was a hug before going out, holding hands when eating, saying I love you before going to bed, and a good morning kiss when getting up early …

At first, my husband was a little reluctant, but slowly, these things became commonplace and natural.

A month has arrived, but my husband doesn't want to divorce. He has found the feeling of a long-lost heartbeat.

Many times, feelings take off the beautiful coat of flowers and flowers and become a dull and trivial daily life. We often think that love has disappeared.

In fact, love has not disappeared, but is hidden in our meanness.

Sad words, fewer and fewer topics between husband and wife; Poor hugs, the warmth between each other is also ignored; A stingy kiss will make deep love dull.

The twelve-minute marriage theory says that you won't argue for four minutes every morning, so you should praise it more. Don't complain for four minutes when you come home from work, talk about something relaxing; Don't be silent for four minutes before going to bed, express your love and hug each other to sleep.

Some people don't understand, can 12 minutes maintain the beauty of marriage and family?

Facts have proved that:

12 minutes is enough to double the happiness of a family.

Marriage is not afraid of dullness, but of the joys and sorrows of one person in the days of two people.

It is said that people who love you will have endless nonsense, from hair to white hair. Lovers never believe in everlasting love, but only focus on the years they miss each other.

Bai Juyi described his hometown like this in "Planting Peach and Apricot":

"No matter the ends of the earth or the ends of the earth, peace of mind is home."

In this life, no matter how far you go or how high you fly, if you have shelter, you will be the happiest.