In "Golden Years", Zhu Suosuo had several relationships, and at the beginning, he made it clear that he didn't like Jiaming. In fact, there is a reason for this. The editor has been following it all the way until now. She finally understood Zhu Suosuo's heart better and summarized the four reasons why she didn't like Jiaming. Yijiaming is too childish and immature
Zhu Suosuo actually prefers mature men because of her own lack of security. It can be seen from the later period that she likes Lao Ye, but Jiaming is a bit of a mama's boy, like A child who has not grown up, and his style of doing things is very childish. For example, after learning that Zhu Suosuo has someone he likes, he went on a hunger strike. This is a very immature behavior, trying to hurt his body to gain sympathy from others, and he is still so old. She cries easily and is very dependent on her mother. 2? The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be very difficult to deal with in the future
It can be seen that the aunt is very doting on the children, and she is also picky about locks. The married life of the two people after they get together is not optimistic, and it can be seen that It turns out that my aunt is also very concerned about Jiaming's personal life and has a strong desire to control. Once Jiaming expresses that he has been wronged, his aunt will definitely explode. Three? Jiaming can’t give Zhu Suosuo the sense of security she wants
Because Zhu Suosuo has lived in her aunt’s house under the shelter of others since she was a child, she actually longs for a family of her own, and she is obviously more suitable and has more life experience to tolerate her. , the man who leads him, and Jiaming is obviously not such a man, and he cannot give Zhu Suosuo the sense of security he wants. Four? The three views of two people are different
Jia Ming is actually a good child in the traditional sense, living a step-by-step life, but Suosuo can actually tell from the very beginning of selling the house that she is full of life. With her enthusiasm and lively and cheerful personality, she can actually have a bigger direction. In comparison, the two people have different views on the world.
The above are the reasons why Zhu Suosuo doesn’t like Jiaming analyzed by the editor. People who are not destined to be in the same world should not be forced to be together.