I hope my love is like this: caring for each other, taking Qi Mei as an example, as plain as water.

I found him in the years, relied on him and committed my life to him. Be his wife, be the mother of his children, cook for him, wash clothes, and sew a missing button. Then, we grow old together in time.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote in Fortress Besieged that marriage is the grave of love.

I don't know if other people's marriages are like mine. My marriage is like a battlefield without smoke: small quarrels happen every day, and there are three or six fights.

I even fantasized about getting divorced when my children are admitted to college! This kind of life is really hard.

Don't talk about college. Before my child graduated from primary school, he was separated from me by an accident. No one knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident.

It doesn't matter if he leaves, what he left me is a heavy burden of life and a chicken feather at home.

I don't know how I managed to get through that sleepless night. Young children are rebellious and disobedient, and they simply don't understand my hardships and difficulties.

A fresh life ran away from my eyes, leaving a shadow of fear in my heart. Countless dark nights, I secretly cried, countless times in the face of physical work, I feel dejected.

I once told my mother that I must have done something wrong in my last life, and I have to bear such pain and suffering in my life.

I have been single for two years. Someone asked me if I would still believe in love. I am hehe, standing on the threshold of the year of no doubt, do I still have love? As a single mother, although my child is disobedient, I must put him first.

I'm worried that the reorganization of the family will cause him a second injury. I'm worried that he can't accept the successive changes in his life at an early age. I'm worried that the noisy days will come back.

Empathy: At the age of 4, I am no longer the best childbearing age. Which man who has never been married is willing to help others raise their sons? Similarly, in the face of divorced men, I am not prepared to be a stepmother.

after years of baptism, people will be full of vicissitudes in their bones when they reach middle age. This is the reality. For me, love is a luxury: it can be seen from a distance, but not for fun.

sometimes I think, maybe everyone's love is not perfect! Zhuo Wenjun in ancient times, Li Qingzhao, Zhang Ailing and Xiao Hong in modern times, all of them are talented women. For them, has the road to love ever been smooth sailing?

celebrities are still like this, not to mention me, an unknown pawn?

platonic love is like a castle in the air and a mirage in my eyes.

if I were a little girl in my late teens and early twenties, I might really look forward to spiritual love. But telling a 4-year-old aunt about "Platonic" love, I really feel a little funny.

No matter how well we talk about spiritual love, I have to carry a bag of rice to climb the stairs. No matter how many sweet words are spoken, don't I have to bear all the rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea at home?

instead, why lie to yourself? When I have time, I water the flowers, read books and listen to music by myself. Isn't it fragrant? No matter how bad it is, you can cook a delicious meal and worship the five zang-organs temple!

when people reach middle age, they have to look like middle-aged people and live in reality in a down-to-earth way. What's yours is yours after all, not yours, and you can't keep it even if you barely get it.

wake up, get up and work! Fuck Plato's love, a pile of clothes is waiting for me to wash!