In the process of raising children, it is often the children who heal us.

In these secular, busy and ordinary years, my children often make me feel the clear and heart-warming love, the simple and bright kindness, and the soft, delicate and vigorous joy and vitality. . In those years, in those moments, I was warmed by my children

1.

On Mother’s Day when Brother Chen was 7 years old——

After playing ball When the smelly sweat came back, Brother Chen said: "Mom, today is Mother's Day, you have a rest, and I will wash my clothes myself. Would you like to wash your socks by the way?"

I have something to go out in the afternoon, and I will go out soon. Brother Chen called: "Mom, it's raining outside. Have you brought an umbrella? Do you want me to pick you up?"

On the way home, he called over and over again to confirm the location, "Mom, are you still there?" How long did it take to get home?

It turns out that he bought me flowers, and when I came in, he immediately knelt down and gave me flowers

I was so happy. p>

2.

Brother Chen celebrated his 10th birthday with the little princess who was born in the same class, same year, same month and same day.

After blowing out the candles, the birthday girl was just about to cut the cake. , but Brother Chen quickly walked around one end of the table, and knelt down in front of me under everyone's surprised gaze. With lightning speed, he said "duang~duang~duang" and kowtowed to me three times. .

The whole place was silent for a moment, and I was at a loss. When I hurriedly helped him up, I met his moist and red eyes. The old mother almost burst into tears, but fortunately the children came around. I wanted to eat cake to relieve my embarrassment.

3.

There are often thunderstorms in summer.

One day, Brother Chen was writing at the desk by the window. While doing homework, suddenly a flash of lightning flashed across the night sky.

He turned around and said, "Mom, there's lightning, and there might be thunder soon. Don't be afraid!" "

As soon as he finished speaking, a thunder exploded.

"If you are afraid, come to me. ” he said.

It’s so heart-warming! It’s all because you love me! From the daily life of a doting mother, learn from Huo Siyan’s textbook-level education methods

Speaking of celebrities The "leaders" of childcare in the world are none other than Huo Siyan and Du Jiang. Under their education, King Humph is already recognized as a warm little boy who is loved by everyone.

< p>1. Uh-huh’s vocabulary and knowledge reserve are much stronger than those of children of the same age, and his language expression ability is super strong

When Du Jiang asked him, "Why does the plane fly?" ”

Humph replied that the plane can fly in the sky because it has a jet engine and can fly by spinning hard.

He can also educate his mother on the strength of bracken. It was there before the dinosaurs.

These are all due to Huo Siyan's high-quality companionship. She spares no effort to discover Humph's interests and can always patiently answer any of his wild questions. She pays attention to children. Experience, guide the child to think, and let him find the answer on his own.

For example, when Uhm wanted to make blueberry juice, he naively thought that just adding blueberries to water would make blueberry juice. What would the average parent do?

“Oh no, kid! Blueberries need to be crushed in a crusher to make blueberry juice. For a better taste, we can also add some purified water to dilute it, or mix it with other fruits to make juice..."

What is the result? ? The child's exploration has been hindered, and gradually he is no longer keen on thinking and doing. You can understand the distance between the "brought" knowledge and his own experience.

Huo Siyan was not in a hurry to pour her experience into Uhm, but instead helped him pour the water directly into the cup with blueberries...

2. Express love and gratitude bravely

Uh-huh not only kept talking fondly to his mother -

In an interview, the program crew asked Uh-huh to dress up his mother as a superman. Uh-huh, who was only four years old at the time, said: "I don't want my mother to be a superman. I want her to be a superman." Dress up mom like a princess. ”

When asked, “Do you think your mother is beautiful?” "

Huo Heng generously praised Huo Siyan, "She looks good, she looks good everywhere, with makeup, and even without makeup. "

At the same time, Humph can also express his gratitude to his friends generously -

He had a video call with his good friend Jasper, and he said: "Thank you for your participation in "Where Are We Going, Dad?" , for my help. Thank you for being my good friend. ”

Chinese people are relatively reserved. There are many parents who take care of their children in their actions, but are shy to express love to their children and are stingy in praising their children.

As everyone knows, good Language can nourish a child's inner self and allow him to learn to express his emotions subtly. This is the best gift parents can give their children, allowing them to grow more smoothly in the future.

3. Be good at it. ***Emotional, knowing how to be considerate of others

Huo Siyan is a mother who knows how to show weakness. Not only that, she also acts like a baby to Uhm from time to time, and cultivates her children into "little gentlemen" and "little supermen". In the end, , she was successfully pampered by two men and became a princess.

Huo Siyan felt low blood sugar and felt uncomfortable. She wanted to take a bite of the ice cream in her hand. Huo Siyan turned into a small adult in seconds and said seriously: "You can't eat cold food if you feel uncomfortable." Then she went to get some candy to feed her. Mom eats it.

In the show, Huo Siyan asked Uhm to buy her an iced Americano, but Uhm ordered a hot American on her own initiative. When asked why, Uhm said: "Because I'm afraid that my mother will catch a cold."< /p>

Not only that, he also thoughtfully brought Huo Siyan a biscuit to satisfy her hunger.

The phrase "motherhood requires strength" has kidnapped many mothers, making them wear armor, grit their teeth, and be omnipotent.

In the VCR made by the program team, the comment to Huo Siyan: "Thank you for letting us know that after becoming a mother, we can still be a princess."

To borrow this sentence, send To all the mothers out there: “May you dust yourself off and stay innocent forever.

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