The "greasy" here mainly means that at a certain moment in love, you suddenly feel that you don't want to be with the other person, that there are many shortcomings in the other person, that you always want to be alone, or that you want to be single again. No longer take care of each other as at the beginning, nor feel sad or happy all day because of each other's words as at the beginning.
In a word, I don't care so much. "Tired" is a common phenomenon. If you want to keep going with each other, don't choose to leave because you are "tired". A friend of mine in high school just got married last month. He and his wife have been together for more than six years, during which they experienced three years of long-distance love.
During the Chinese New Year, some of our friends sat down to chat. Brother Bing teased him and said, Aren't you tired of being together for so long? Never thought about changing others? He shrugged his shoulders and said with a smile, "I will be tired, but I have to live." In a word, we all choked to death. "I will be very tired, but I still have to live." Simple eight words, but how many years of bitterness and joy are hidden behind them.
Everyone will be bored sometimes, but if you want to continue living with that person, you must learn to adjust your mentality, hide "boredom" in time and turn it into "love". Just like I saw a girl say: I will be bored, but I still want to live with my pig head.
I always think that every relationship will have a "tired" period. After the love period, you find that the person you love is just an ordinary person. He also has many shortcomings that you can't stand, and endless topics will dry up one day.
So, tired, what should I do? I think the most important thing is to actively adjust your mentality. Ask yourself first, do you want to continue with this person? If the answer is yes, then adjust yourself quickly. You can stay alone for a few days, and the two will distance themselves. Maybe you will meet again in the future and your feelings will heat up again.