while I was feasting on the delicious food, I glanced at her with my eyes. "BM girl? You want to buy a BMW? Congratulations, which series are you going to start? " She said, "What, BM is the abbreviation of Brandy Melville, a maverick clothing brand with girls in color and playful styles. I tell you, all their clothing products are only size S. If you want to wear their clothes, you must be thin enough!"
"But you are already very thin." Bunny 168 is tall and symmetrical, weighing 15kg. It is a typical clothes hanger, which looks good in anything. The lad shook his head and said, "Not enough. According to the online BM girl's height and weight comparison table, the height of 168 is 98 kg." He also showed me the so-called comparison table, which was all malnourished weight and belonged to the lean type in BMI value.
"Rabbit, why do you have to wear BM clothes?"
"Prove that I am a small size girl. Besides, this is the era when thinness is the beauty, isn't it? Girls should be petite and cute, and boys like thin girls, so as to arouse their desire for protection. "
After that, Little Rabbit started her weight-loss plan vigorously, with a sweet potato and an apple for breakfast, a sweet potato and an apple for lunch and no dinner.
When we met again two weeks later, Little Rabbit said weakly to me, "I'm going to be a BM girl, only two Jin short." I can't help but think back to the little rabbit who was jumping, lively and lovely some time ago, and look at her in front of me. She is listless, her eyes are dull, her skin color is dim, and she has no color at all. I asked her, "Are you happier after losing weight?" She was silent.
is it important to be a BM girl or to be healthy and happy? If blindly pursuing thinness will make people unhappy, why should we abuse ourselves?
Stars' ant waist, leg essence, goldfish collarbone and ultra-low weight figures are frequently searched on the Internet, which are highly sought after. While fans are envious and jealous, they blindly follow the trend and pursue the beauty of bones. But stars live in the camera, as we all know, the camera will be fat. In order to maintain a good screen image, stars and models manage their bodies, which is their professional accomplishment and does not apply to the general public.
Bunny told me later that she not only lost weight, but also lost her hair. menstruation also put it off, because dieting also caused overeating, and her weight was five pounds heavier than before. You hurt your body, and your body will retaliate against you. Unscientific weight loss will cause a series of problems, and the wrong method will do more harm to your body than you think.
Because the rabbit didn't dare to eat normally during the diet, she refused the male god's appointment for many times. The male god thought she didn't mean that and never looked for her again. Rabbit said, "I want to appear in front of him with a better face. Am I wrong?" In fact, I really want to tell her, dear, your true colors are beautiful, and the male gods like your true colors.
Xiaoyan, a colleague, used to be a strong girl weighing 13. She had a rough emotional life and talked about her boyfriend for five years. She broke up with Xiaoyan because she was too fat. She learned from a bitter experience. Since she can get better, why not try? As it turns out, she did it.
after half a year, Xiaoyan lost weight to the standard weight, and the whole person was a big circle smaller, which surprised the eyes of Dabo's colleagues and everyone learned from her. She said: "It's very simple. The key is to be scientific and not to rush."
It turns out that Xiaoyan lost weight by adjusting her diet, giving up her favorite fried food, snacks and milk tea, eating only healthy whole grains and fruits and vegetables, going to the gym three or four times a week, sweating on the treadmill, and training with some anaerobic equipment.
Meat doesn't grow overnight, and naturally it can't disappear quickly in a short time. Rabbit's diet will not only rebound, but also hurt your health, which will not only make you an unhealthy fat man, but also a stupid fat man. If you want to change yourself, you must respect yourself and know yourself first.
You can pursue better, but it is necessary to distinguish between illness and health. Is your so-called "good" really "good"? Every era has different aesthetic standards, but we should also have our own judgment ability, instead of being a follower. If you are overweight, you can try to lose weight scientifically, but if you are already standard, or even the BMI index is thin, you still want to lose weight. Being a "BM girl" will only harm your physical and mental health in the end.
Xiaoyan later met her current boyfriend in the gym, and they went out to exercise together after work, and their feelings were sweet. She once asked her boyfriend, "Do you think I can look thinner?" Now Xiaoyan's figure is very healthy and beautiful, not thin, but concave and convex. Boyfriend said: "I think you are fine now. To be honest, few boys like skeleton shelves."
The definition of beauty has undergone tremendous changes with the evolution of time. In the past, I liked plump figure, but now I like skinny beauty. No matter what kind, the popularity of beauty is still rooted in physiological basis.
Research shows that men generally find women with a waist-hip ratio of .7 the most attractive, and they don't pay attention to their weight. Their feeling of female beauty depends on their body shape. The measurements of Audrey Hepburn are 8-56-79, and those of Marilyn Monroe are 91-61-86. Both are .7. Although Monroe weighs much more than Hepburn and is by no means a BM girl, she is still full of charm and charms thousands of boys and girls.
if someone wears size s, someone will wear size ML. Is ML not good? Did you commit any crime in wearing ML code? Face value and figure are very important, but girls with connotation can stand the test of time, like aging, the longer they get, the more mellow they become. Others get along with you, not with your figure. After decades, with the decline of human metabolism, everyone will gain weight, more or less. So what? Your personality charm will not dissipate.
while sculpting your figure, you should pay more attention to your spiritual growth. At least when you want to lose weight, you will find some books on fitness or nutrition to read. You will strengthen your brain first and know how to eat and exercise scientifically, instead of imitating some extreme diet recipes on the Internet, such as apple diet, cucumber and egg diet, and witch soup, which will make you hurt and sad for 21 days.
The sexiest thing for a woman is not her body, but her brain. The more girls with connotation and cultivation look at it, the more they can bear to look at it. The girls with empty hearts just have a flower bottle, which is fragile and can't stand beating. After several years, everyone's skins are gradually disappearing, and you and I are both wrinkled and slightly convex stomachs. What can you leave? At this time, what is in your head is what supports you.
Xiao Lu, a colleague, is an ordinary person with an average figure. If you look at it again in the crowd, it will disappear in an instant and you can't find the type. But she is very popular with everyone. She is polite, good-natured, helpful and does things neatly. I love traveling and reading, and occasionally volunteer at the local animal protection association on weekends. Elegant and knowledgeable, you will feel very comfortable chatting with her. By the way, she wears size M, but does this prevent others from liking her? Not really.
Actually, beauty is varied, and everyone has a different charm, and confident girls are the most beautiful. Self-confidence is actually an attitude, a temperament revealed all over the body, your smile, your dignity, walking with your head held high, speaking softly, and flashing every gesture.
even if you are not a peerless beauty or a BM girl, it doesn't matter. You believe in yourself, and you won't be grovelling, depressed or anxious. You won't ruin yourself for others' eyes. You know how to cherish your body, accept yourself completely, change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Self-acceptance and self-broadening.
BM girl? I'll buy it if I can wear it, but I won't buy it if I can't wear it! I choose the brand, not let the brand be limited by me. I just want to be my own queen, because no matter what size clothes I wear, they are beautiful, okay?