Including but not limited to dining partners with the same taste, partners who have lost contact after work, partners who drink coffee and milk tea, partners who take a nap and partners who go to the toilet. Different from the dignified and fetters brought by long-term relationships (husband-wife relationship, parent-child relationship and cohabitation relationship), "partner" not only fills the gap in time, but also has no responsibility for each other, thus bringing ease. The "partner" relationship is a revision of the fixed relationship and a supplement to the fixed relationship.
Interpersonal relationship is a very complicated matter, and it is impossible to be intimate with everyone. Although this temporary relationship is short-lived, it may give you temporary psychological comfort. "Companion" can help us get rid of the situation that we have to rely on close relationships such as friends and lovers. When a long-term relationship only brings you trouble and anxiety, the meaning of "partner" appears. People who do something together are called "partners". Similarly, they can be extended to "swimming partners" and "game partners". Everyone can be happy without talking. It should be a long-term relationship. For some people, this is really beneficial to others, and at the same time, you may make more friends in the process of finding a partner, which is good.
For example, if you can be a dining partner, first of all, they have the same taste. TA loves spicy food, but you can't eat spicy food, which makes it difficult to sit at a table. With a dining partner, you can order more dishes in the restaurant. Before the dinner table, talk to each other about the troubles in life or work. As it turns out, the healing power of food comes partly from the partners who eat together. The relationship between sports partners is competition and cooperation. Whoever wins the score will win the first place. In exchange, they can make progress together and take care of each other. At least when you have a cramp, someone will stretch you. Like the recent popular outdoor sports, such as cycling, land rushing, frisbee and so on. It will be more interesting to have company.
There is a spirit of studying coffee. How much water temperature, how many minutes, what producing area beans are brewed, and various parameters are indispensable in the speech. The most shameful thing is that the taste of coffee is washed away by excessive extraction; We often get together to talk about beans and see if they taste like flowers or caramel.
Coffee is the reason why they get together. Haruki Murakami said: "Sometimes life is just the warmth of a cup of coffee." Partners may share the warmth and leisure time at this moment.
In short, when everything you want to do has a partner who is in tune, that is true happiness.