For example, if I do something and get his attention, he will speak ill of me behind my back. I once wrote a summary of the company's problems, summed up the problems I experienced and observed in my daily work, and put forward my own views and solutions. After he found the result, he quietly copied some contents and handed them over to the leader in advance. He also slandered me behind my back, saying that I didn't have my own ideas and copied his plan.
Fortunately, I came across some ideas and experiences myself. Only the client and I know what is going on, and he can't explain the cause and effect at all.
2, uncoordinated movements and digging holes. People who are secretly jealous of me will not cooperate when I need cooperation, but think I need to ask him. But in fact, it is appropriate to cooperate with each other at work, especially in your own work, rather than looking for you when you feel that others are coming to you. However, people who secretly envy me have a more destructive performance: on the surface, they cooperate with my work, but in fact they are delaying my time and slowing down my progress. When I asked him to cooperate, I didn't shirk it, just didn't take the initiative. I am slow in doing things and my progress has slowed down.
Even if there is some information that should be clearly docked, he will not tell me the first time. But when my work has problems because of the asymmetry and incompleteness of information, then stand up and accuse me and question my ability. Dig holes for me everywhere. If I don't pay attention, I will easily fall into his trap.
As a result, I don't want to intrigue, and I don't know how to grow up slowly in the lessons of falling into pits and traps again and again, and learn how to protect myself in the workplace.
Ignore my efforts, only see my shortcomings, and attribute my success to luck. When I succeed, he always attributes my success to luck. If I am proud of my success, he won't criticize me, but praise me, making me complacent and arrogant. But behind my back, I will say that I am just. Are you lucky?
He ignored my efforts outside working hours. In order to finish the report, I may be busy until one or two o'clock at night. In order to give customers and leaders satisfactory designs, we can communicate with many parties to ensure that designers can accurately express what we want. In order to serve customers well, I even sacrificed my time with my family.
But in the eyes of people who secretly envy me, these jobs don't exist if they can't see them. On the contrary, I kept telling other colleagues that I was really lucky and didn't have to do anything, so I lost a good customer.