Good feelings are temporary. As we all know, a lot of love begins with the beautiful feeling of falling in love at first sight, but in fact, the beautiful feeling is not what you originally had. This requires you to work hard to improve her goodwill and turn it into love. The good feelings shared below are temporary.
A good impression is a temporary liking, not a temporary liking, but a good impression is a temporary liking. Because I always think that a good impression is just a person's initial feeling of the opposite sex, and that feeling is just dislike. It can only be said that TA throbbed a little when passing his sight, which is a good impression.
Over time, that kind of throbbing will make you always pay attention to TA's words and deeds, resulting in such a feeling that there is a heartbeat but no heartbeat. This is just a transition. When I can no longer forget TA, when TA disappears from my sight, I will feel a sense of loss and even a little heartache. At this time, I already like TA.
Boys' good feelings can last for about five months.
1, look how attractive this woman is to me.
If you want to ask a man how long his love for a woman can last, he may say, it depends on how attractive this woman is to me. Men's love for women is temporary.
If a woman is attractive and a man's dream lover, then men's love for women will last for a long time, because men think women are gourmets. If he misses it, he may never see it again.
Supported by this feeling, men will launch a series of chasing attacks on women. If this woman only attracts men in one aspect and makes men like her, but this beautiful woman is not very attractive to men, then men's affection for this woman will easily disappear.
2. See if it pays off in the end.
Giving always pays off. The ultimate goal of a man's affection for a woman may be to be with this woman again. If a man thinks that the woman he likes is also interested in himself. Although the pursuit process may take some time, as long as it finally pays off, men will be willing to wait, and this good feeling will last for a long time.
However, if a man finds that even if he has a crush on this woman, she will not belong to him after all, then the man will let himself transfer this feeling, and slowly, the man's crush on this woman will disappear.
If you have more contact with her, you may have a bad impression.
For men, some women are like lotus flowers, which can only be seen from a distance and cannot be laughed at. The so-called distance produces beauty. When a man has a certain distance from this woman, there will be hazy beauty and a good feeling for this woman will last.
However, when a man really touches this woman and has more contact, he finds that this woman is not what he imagined, just like waking up in a dream, and his good feeling for this woman disappears.
4. A man's patience is limited.
Men's patience is always limited. They don't spend too long on one thing, and so does their love for women. It takes patience to love women, but men have the least patience.
If they don't get a response and just miss them unilaterally, their patience will soon run out and their affection for women will disappear. Therefore, when you know that a man has a crush on you, don't leave him alone for too long. He won't stop for you when he loses patience.
5. Look at women's attitudes towards men.
As the saying goes, pat someone on the face and stick a hot face on a cold ass.
The world is always bad. Men are infatuated with women. How long this beautiful feeling can last depends on the attitude of women towards men. Men have a crush on you, but you have no crush on men. You are always cold to him.
After a long time, men naturally have no affection for you; On the other hand, if you occasionally respond to a man and make eye contact with him, he will definitely have a good mood for you, and his love for you will increase day by day until he is really with you.
Good feelings are temporary. Maybe everyone wants to find someone they like to start a beautiful emotional journey. However, due to the inconsistency of life circle, work environment and industry type, you may not be able to contact too many other people, so you will be single.
The cultivation of feelings is also based on some conditions. At least you like this person, not dislike it, otherwise the subsequent development will be old-fashioned. Many times, we give our feelings a high "beauty" and are too harsh, not to say that we can't.
It's just that you think it's beautiful because you haven't touched it. What you can't get is always the "best". After a deeper understanding, it may not be so beautiful. This is all you can have when you hold on to it. When you are willing to let go, you have a chance to choose something else.
Many times, liking someone is an instant thing, and because that moment will make all the previous dullness very beautiful, feelings are never "overnight" and need to be cultivated slowly. In the process of getting along, we should understand each other's three views, ideas and ways of doing things for others.
You may like and appreciate ta because of its maturity, steadiness, thoughtfulness, gentleness, diligence and housekeeping, beauty and beauty, but all of these have a process, so there is a saying called "starting with face value, falling into talent and being loyal to character". Many couples don't like each other at first, but they gradually like each other after they get together, which is also an opportunity to cultivate their feelings.
Fate is a wonderful thing. Different stages of growth have different views on things. Perhaps the people who yearn for it at the age of 18 are: handsome, lively, beautiful and gentle; The man I longed for when I was 28 years old was; Mature and steady, careful and gentle, well managed.
May we all meet that soul mate, and even if we don't, we can become the soul mate of the other half in the process of slowly cultivating our feelings. May every little cutie have her own gentle harbor, and the glory of real humanity lies in those things that are invisible to the naked eye.
Good feelings are temporary. Will good feelings become likes?
Good feeling is an emotion that easily occurs between the opposite sex. For example, you may be attracted by someone's excellent appearance, you may be attracted by someone's noble quality, you may be attracted by someone's behavior, in short, when you see someone's advantages, you will be attracted.
However, a good impression of a person is also easy to disappear, which needs to be cultivated at ordinary times. And it's easy to make a good impression, but it's hard to get back.
Do you like it when you have a good impression? Because a good impression doesn't mean that you already like each other. I just have a desire to know each other better, such as what does TA like? What does TA hate? What is TA's personality? Wait a minute.
However, it is possible that in this process, after fully understanding each other, good feelings may cease to exist, or they may be attracted and become fond of in the process of understanding, which is the accumulation process of good feelings.
Good feelings will become likes. In fact, it is difficult to judge how and when to change. Therefore, the best way is to let it be. It is often said that bitter and twisted melons are not sweet, because there is no happy-go-lucky situation, and some things are urgent. The safest way is to do more things to increase each other's goodwill value, so that the accumulated goodwill value will be transformed into liking at a certain moment.
Common methods to increase the goodwill of the other party
First of all, personal image
You should know that the first thing that attracts a person's good impression must be the image of the other person. A good image will make people want to continue to communicate. The image is mainly reflected in cleanliness and neatness. Usually, you should pay attention to your clothes. You don't have to wear too much, but cleanliness is very important. If you are sloppy, it is easy to give people a bad feeling.
Second, confidence.
Most people prefer to associate with confident people, especially the opposite sex. If Nuo Nuo is the only one, his affection for the other party will be greatly reduced. Therefore, it is very important to adjust the state during big communication.
Third, the personal mentality is correct.
Contact with the idea of becoming ordinary friends first, don't be too purposeful, it is very important to straighten your mind, so you won't feel tired. If you communicate with her directly as your girlfriend, it's easy to put yourself in an awkward position.
Fourth, keep your distance.
There are basic distances between people, such as the distance between strangers, the distance between friends, the distance between lovers and so on. Don't cross this distance easily. Don't get too close at first contact. Being too close will give people a sense of invasion. This will make the other party wary. This will not bring the distance closer until the relationship is further deepened.